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HotBttmInBriefs
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 47
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Not sure if you were lucky or not.....I think I was
Give me a lucky spin again
Give me a lucky spin again
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Guilty....2 girls, a guy and a girl, and 2 guys on various occasions and one wild wild night (just once) 1 lady, her husband, and another guy
Ever by accident or on purpose exposed yourself in a public place with other people around
Ever by accident or on purpose exposed yourself in a public place with other people around
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Joel, I fully understand that part. Sorry for the confusion I might have caused. I have done that several times on here. I'll start out reading a story and the grammar or the shifts in tense, etc are just so bad that I can't get through it. Or I just lose interest. In those cases I will not leave a low score to hurt the writer, but I will either leave a comment or send them a PM. Esp if the story is in a category I like or the premise of the story is good. I just feel the writer will never know unless you say something. And even with that I try to point out what was good about the story as well as why I couldn't get through it.
As to the other about subject matter. That was the part I didn't fully understand. Just as I said if a story is in a category or about something I don't like I wouldn't even begin to read it in the first place. For instance and I don't think those are allowed her but someone wrote a story about scat. That is a total turn off for me. If that was in the key word or the that particular category I am not going to seek it out or ever begin reading it. So I would have no reason to stop reading it.
But if I ever did accidentally come across one, I would not vote on that story because I would have to vote it low and that wouldn't be fair.
Thanks for your kind response.
As to the other about subject matter. That was the part I didn't fully understand. Just as I said if a story is in a category or about something I don't like I wouldn't even begin to read it in the first place. For instance and I don't think those are allowed her but someone wrote a story about scat. That is a total turn off for me. If that was in the key word or the that particular category I am not going to seek it out or ever begin reading it. So I would have no reason to stop reading it.
But if I ever did accidentally come across one, I would not vote on that story because I would have to vote it low and that wouldn't be fair.
Thanks for your kind response.
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for those not familiar, Baggage is a game show that comes on the Game Show Network. The premise is that a guy or girl gets to meet and choose from 3 people to go on a date with. They get to know up front what a person's dating baggage is up front and then choose one of the people to go on a date with. Not based on looks but on the person's baggage. The 3 people each open 1 baggage at time...supposedly each baggage getting much worse than the other.
So if you went on the show what would be in your bags.
Here are mine:
Small Baggage --- I hate to wear clothes when at home. I would much rather hang out in my underwear or walk around naked. So get used to my junk being on display a lot at home.
Medium Baggage --- I am what would be considered an old fogey in regards to modern technology. I hate cell phones and don't own one. I only use one when traveling and then throw it away. I hate Kindles, would much rather have a book in hand when reading. I don't do the social media crap. I do like email but will never text.
Biggest Baggage -- I am bisexual and will probably never marry again. My next partner has to be okay with my bisexuality. I have been bisexual since I was a teen. My ex-wife knew that and said she accepted it. But I honestly don't think she ever did. I was fully faithful to her for the five years we married. I had thoughts and fantasies but never acted on them. I will never do a relationship again where my partner is not accepting of that. I take marriage vows very seriously and would never cheat on a partner in that situation. So I just feel for me any type of relationship would work better without the legal bindings added to it.
So anyone else want to play?
So if you went on the show what would be in your bags.
Here are mine:
Small Baggage --- I hate to wear clothes when at home. I would much rather hang out in my underwear or walk around naked. So get used to my junk being on display a lot at home.
Medium Baggage --- I am what would be considered an old fogey in regards to modern technology. I hate cell phones and don't own one. I only use one when traveling and then throw it away. I hate Kindles, would much rather have a book in hand when reading. I don't do the social media crap. I do like email but will never text.
Biggest Baggage -- I am bisexual and will probably never marry again. My next partner has to be okay with my bisexuality. I have been bisexual since I was a teen. My ex-wife knew that and said she accepted it. But I honestly don't think she ever did. I was fully faithful to her for the five years we married. I had thoughts and fantasies but never acted on them. I will never do a relationship again where my partner is not accepting of that. I take marriage vows very seriously and would never cheat on a partner in that situation. So I just feel for me any type of relationship would work better without the legal bindings added to it.
So anyone else want to play?
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Guilty .... only once in full view of anyone but that was on a plane and we were covered by blankets.
Ever had sex or masturbated on public transportation (bus, plane, subway, train, etc.)
Ever had sex or masturbated on public transportation (bus, plane, subway, train, etc.)
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Certain categories definitely have more of a chance of getting one.
Stories in some of the niche categories I doubt have any or at the most just a few. Haven't really looked to see.
I would be interested in seeing a list of how many Famous Stories are in each category.
Stories in some of the niche categories I doubt have any or at the most just a few. Haven't really looked to see.
I would be interested in seeing a list of how many Famous Stories are in each category.
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Sorry hidden...I know I wasn't what you had in mind.
I'll spin again
I'll spin again
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Agree
A good erotic story gets you off better than porn many times.
A good erotic story gets you off better than porn many times.
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John, I agree with you majorly on one point.
And that is the part about letting one thing in your life define who you are. So many of my gay and bisexual friends love to proclaim their sexuality and their pride in it to the point that you don't even know anymore what and who they are because all you think when you think of this is their sexuality.
I used to love Rosie O'Donnel. She was one of my favorite actresses, talk show hosts, etc. Today I just can't stomach her at her all. She just comes off to me as some bitter old woman. I couldn't even stand to be in a room with her for 5 minutes. The lady could have had a great legacy but now she will only ever be known by most people by the fact that she is gay. And she has or had so many other great attributes to give to the world.
Recently a poll on Family Feud asked the question of 100 people what they knew about Rosie O'Donnell. A huge majority like 70% of the folks said she was a lesbian. Everything else got very few votes or responses. I just think that is sad.
I am proud of who I am. I am not ashamed of it all. But in the end of my life or during it I do not want to ever be defined by my sexuality. What I do in the bedroom is just a portion of my life. It is not who I am.
Back on the subject of the thread, I tend to agree that most people don't care anymore. But there are still folks within the community who feel that especially with famous folks that it validates who the rest of us are or that it suddenly makes the rest of us okay in society if there is a famous person who identifies with us as well. It is like oh Tom Cruise loves to suck dick so now every straight person is going to say "Oh wow Tom Cruise sucks dick maybe I should try it too."
As long as I live I will never understand that philosophy.
And that is the part about letting one thing in your life define who you are. So many of my gay and bisexual friends love to proclaim their sexuality and their pride in it to the point that you don't even know anymore what and who they are because all you think when you think of this is their sexuality.
I used to love Rosie O'Donnel. She was one of my favorite actresses, talk show hosts, etc. Today I just can't stomach her at her all. She just comes off to me as some bitter old woman. I couldn't even stand to be in a room with her for 5 minutes. The lady could have had a great legacy but now she will only ever be known by most people by the fact that she is gay. And she has or had so many other great attributes to give to the world.
Recently a poll on Family Feud asked the question of 100 people what they knew about Rosie O'Donnell. A huge majority like 70% of the folks said she was a lesbian. Everything else got very few votes or responses. I just think that is sad.
I am proud of who I am. I am not ashamed of it all. But in the end of my life or during it I do not want to ever be defined by my sexuality. What I do in the bedroom is just a portion of my life. It is not who I am.
Back on the subject of the thread, I tend to agree that most people don't care anymore. But there are still folks within the community who feel that especially with famous folks that it validates who the rest of us are or that it suddenly makes the rest of us okay in society if there is a famous person who identifies with us as well. It is like oh Tom Cruise loves to suck dick so now every straight person is going to say "Oh wow Tom Cruise sucks dick maybe I should try it too."
As long as I live I will never understand that philosophy.
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He's honest. Always kind. Wise. He has one of the best looking chests I have ever seen.
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I do not think it has faded away at all.
There are still folks within the gay, lesbian and bisexual world who still feel it is their responsibilty to out people whether they are ready to be outed or not.
It is a practice I totally disagree with. I just feel whether you are famous or not, whatever goes on in a person's bedroom is one of those things I don't feel it is everyone's right to know.
There are still folks within the gay, lesbian and bisexual world who still feel it is their responsibilty to out people whether they are ready to be outed or not.
It is a practice I totally disagree with. I just feel whether you are famous or not, whatever goes on in a person's bedroom is one of those things I don't feel it is everyone's right to know.
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I wouldn't say go out of my way, but yes I do look ... and not just at girls either. I'm an equal opportunity lurker as far as trying to see what a guy or girl has on under the wardrobe.
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As far as the comments about stopping stories that don't interest you and not voting. I guess I am not understanding that one.
I fully know that due to the category they are in or by keywords listed that I am not interested in that subject. So I am usually not going to read that type of story whether the person is a friend of not. So I never start them.
I never fully understand why someone even clicks on a story if they know up front that the subject matter is not for them. If by chance I did start reading one, I would not vote on it either because I would want to give it a low rating just because of the subject matter which would have nothing to do with the writer's ability or anything. So I just don't read them.
I got a message from a guy the other day who read or started reading one of my stories. He said he started reading my story and was just not into man on man sex so he couldn't get into it. In fact he found it disgusting.
I didn't know this guy. He wasn't a friend of mine. I didn't ask him to read my story. I just couldn't figure out if he didn't like man on man sex then why in the world did he click on the story when the story is in the Gay section.
Weird.
I fully know that due to the category they are in or by keywords listed that I am not interested in that subject. So I am usually not going to read that type of story whether the person is a friend of not. So I never start them.
I never fully understand why someone even clicks on a story if they know up front that the subject matter is not for them. If by chance I did start reading one, I would not vote on it either because I would want to give it a low rating just because of the subject matter which would have nothing to do with the writer's ability or anything. So I just don't read them.
I got a message from a guy the other day who read or started reading one of my stories. He said he started reading my story and was just not into man on man sex so he couldn't get into it. In fact he found it disgusting.
I didn't know this guy. He wasn't a friend of mine. I didn't ask him to read my story. I just couldn't figure out if he didn't like man on man sex then why in the world did he click on the story when the story is in the Gay section.
Weird.
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Gift him a night to play his music in his favorite setting
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totally agree (love music)
Life deserves a soundtrack .... just like in the movies.
Life deserves a soundtrack .... just like in the movies.
