We never really thought about this, but many marriages, the woman has never had an orgasm. I always made my wife cum. She was talking with a friend who married as a virgin to a very inexperienced man. Neither of them had the full explanation of things. He couldn't last. She wasn't putting it out for him to build any kind of stamina. He would go in her pussy and just cum and within a few minutes, she was doing work. Literally a 5-minute thing. She was against letting him lick her clit. I suggested she let him lick. And talk to him while he's doing it. If he's not making it feel good, tell him where to go. Put a finger where you want it! Then have him change what he's doing with his tongue until you start to moan. They did this and eventually, they built a great sex life.
