Quote by MrLosAngeles
When you try to define love, you defeat the whole point of it..and destroy the magic.
YES! So right.
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KatR
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 65
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I'm not sure you're operating from a correct premise. But even if the majority of women don't like sex as you say, could it be that a great many men are no good at it? Oh, they talk a good fight but so many are CLUELESS!!! Men like to TALK about sex and brag about conquests real and imagined, while women actually like the intimacy and the sensations and yes the EMOTIONS of great sex. And yes we brag too, but about what we feel with a man who's good to us in and out of bed.
Example of a clueless man - I've run into this type of thing in real life --- Hey baby let me stick it in you..... 5 4 3 2 1 .... I just came and was it good for you too? And I have to leave now! I may call you again if I get horny in a few months and can't find anyone else to hook up with. ...... Well, I don't know what that is but it sure isn't MY idea of sex! LOL
Or be moody and mean and nasty to us for days on end and expect us to want you? AIN'T gonna happen!
Cat call to us from the sidewalk and think we're gonna drop our panties for you? Or treat us ONLY as sex objects with NO brains and ignore when we try to talk to you, yeah great seduction strategy. Or as my boss at work, pay me less than men for the same work, make me do menial chores like get coffee rather than use my brain, and then think I'll want to go into your office and have sex with you
And what's so wrong with putting a little effort into romance, why are you so down on getting us in the mood? Aren't we WORTH it?
The main reason I think you're wrong about women not liking sex is, there are only two organs of the human body whose ONLY purpose is to bring their owner sexual pleasure. Women have both of them - the clitoris and the G-spot - and men have neither! So we are designed to enjoy sex and you are NOT!!! Think about THAT!
Example of a clueless man - I've run into this type of thing in real life --- Hey baby let me stick it in you..... 5 4 3 2 1 .... I just came and was it good for you too? And I have to leave now! I may call you again if I get horny in a few months and can't find anyone else to hook up with. ...... Well, I don't know what that is but it sure isn't MY idea of sex! LOL
Or be moody and mean and nasty to us for days on end and expect us to want you? AIN'T gonna happen!
Cat call to us from the sidewalk and think we're gonna drop our panties for you? Or treat us ONLY as sex objects with NO brains and ignore when we try to talk to you, yeah great seduction strategy. Or as my boss at work, pay me less than men for the same work, make me do menial chores like get coffee rather than use my brain, and then think I'll want to go into your office and have sex with you
And what's so wrong with putting a little effort into romance, why are you so down on getting us in the mood? Aren't we WORTH it?
The main reason I think you're wrong about women not liking sex is, there are only two organs of the human body whose ONLY purpose is to bring their owner sexual pleasure. Women have both of them - the clitoris and the G-spot - and men have neither! So we are designed to enjoy sex and you are NOT!!! Think about THAT!
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Celebrities would have to be Christopher Meloni I just have a feeling the man would be an animal in bed.
Yes, I see your point: http://www.fanpop.com/clubs/chris-meloni/images/15669659/title/christopher-meloni-photo
Mmmmmmmmmmm!
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Historical: Leonardo Da Vinci. Just because he was so creative and inventive and imaginative, I have to wonder if those traits would have carried over to the bedroom! What sexual wonders might his incredible brain have cooked-up to do with me?
For today's celebrities, I have to wonder about David Spade. I read an interview once years ago, with an actress who slept with him and said his male organ was WAY bigger than would be expected for such a short and slender man, and I've been curious about him ever since. Plus he's CUTE in a roguish sort of way.
Maybe Justin Bieber? Not that I find him at ALL attractive (I don't), but just for the bragging rights that at 52 I had what all the young bimboes dream of and can't have! Plus I'd love sending him out into the world WAY more knowledgeable about how to arouse women, being the one who taught him! LOL Then years from now I might read some airhead actress boasting of how good he is in bed, and I would know that's because I showed him how (you're WELCOME)!
For today's celebrities, I have to wonder about David Spade. I read an interview once years ago, with an actress who slept with him and said his male organ was WAY bigger than would be expected for such a short and slender man, and I've been curious about him ever since. Plus he's CUTE in a roguish sort of way.
Maybe Justin Bieber? Not that I find him at ALL attractive (I don't), but just for the bragging rights that at 52 I had what all the young bimboes dream of and can't have! Plus I'd love sending him out into the world WAY more knowledgeable about how to arouse women, being the one who taught him! LOL Then years from now I might read some airhead actress boasting of how good he is in bed, and I would know that's because I showed him how (you're WELCOME)!
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Loved Life of Pi, Lincoln, Les Mis, and a little known film called Moonrise Kingdom (a wonderful love story--the love between the two main characters but also the fatherly love the sheriff develops). Oh and Silver Linings Playbook, another great love story. Haven't seen Django yet.
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Passages like this: "To celebrate I invited her to dinner which she happily agreed to.We got along great her name is Rachel and she's from San Francisco so a fellow californian.She's studying biology and wants to become a nurse,which I found to be really cool.We also share the same interest in music and tv shows and she even plays video games like me.We spent the evening watching a movie and she got pretty close."
You could elaborate on the details. Where did you go to dinner? What kind of food? Did you drive there or romantically walk hand in hand? What small talk did you share to, from, and at dinner? How did you find out her taste in music and TV and games? What did you say? What did she say? What were you thinking and feeling? What was the mood, the atmosphere, as you discovered your shared tastes? What were you wearing? What was she wearing? Where did you guys go, or just in the apartment? What did your surroundings look like? It's the details that draw readers in and feel like part of the action.
You have a lot of places where you rush the details like in this example. Slow and erotic and descriptive makes for a better story, at least in my opinion.
You could elaborate on the details. Where did you go to dinner? What kind of food? Did you drive there or romantically walk hand in hand? What small talk did you share to, from, and at dinner? How did you find out her taste in music and TV and games? What did you say? What did she say? What were you thinking and feeling? What was the mood, the atmosphere, as you discovered your shared tastes? What were you wearing? What was she wearing? Where did you guys go, or just in the apartment? What did your surroundings look like? It's the details that draw readers in and feel like part of the action.
You have a lot of places where you rush the details like in this example. Slow and erotic and descriptive makes for a better story, at least in my opinion.
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In the middle ages, writers to get past Catholic censors called it a "nose" and I like that. A big nose, a nose "sneezing," sticking a nose where it doesn't belong, Pinocchio's nose growing when he lied, you can have a lot of fun with this image. Just like writers did hundreds of years ago. In the play by that name, Cyrano de Bergerac had a "nose" that was "so big it entered a room 15 minutes before he did." Princes would boast of having a "nose" worthy of their royal status, etc.
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You may have to elaborate on that question.
If you are talking about posessions, nothing I BUY could possibly bring me happiness. You can't buy love, happiness, family, health, faith etc..
I agree. I guess if it comes to spending money for something for happiness it would be a trip to spend time with family & friends.
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The love of my life used to refer to his sword in my sheath. I called his sword Excalibur, and I was his Lady of the Lake, together we were the sword in the stone, surrounded by a lot of liquid. When I was on top, he was a mountain reaching into my puffy cloud. We also went back to the medieval euphemism of "nose" (what, you thought it was Pinocchio's NOSE that grows when he tells a lie?). I called him Cyrano because that famous fictional literary character had a "nose" that was "so big it entered a room 15 minutes before he did" and because Cyrano was the most skilled "swordsman" in all the land.
He spoke of my flower pedals opening to be pollinated. He spoke of my bush as soft Kat fur (which he loved to pet like a cat's fur, with the same result: I would PURR!). He was the volcano erupting hot lava, and I was the cloud bursting with a downpour of rain. He was my tall stalk of corn, and I was his soft taco shell (which he would stuff full of sausage). I was a strawberry set in a peach (think about what that looks like, a peach slice with a small strawberry at the narrow end)--that was Cyrano's description of his beloved Roxanne. We had a lot of these, but these are my favorites.
He spoke of my flower pedals opening to be pollinated. He spoke of my bush as soft Kat fur (which he loved to pet like a cat's fur, with the same result: I would PURR!). He was the volcano erupting hot lava, and I was the cloud bursting with a downpour of rain. He was my tall stalk of corn, and I was his soft taco shell (which he would stuff full of sausage). I was a strawberry set in a peach (think about what that looks like, a peach slice with a small strawberry at the narrow end)--that was Cyrano's description of his beloved Roxanne. We had a lot of these, but these are my favorites.
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My exes affect relationships only in that I try to be cautious not to make the same mistakes again. Unfortunately, I make NEW mistakes! Now I just look for sex and settle for that, the rest, love and permanence and all of that, is too damned hard to make it work. There is a man who has my heart but there's no way to make it work for us, and we had to part 3 years ago, I try to keep that from entering my lover relationships but it certainly enters my mind. But past relationships shape who you are and how you feel, and you can never really 100% turn that off.