I love when they get creative about it. An ex-lover used to talk about petting my fur (my bush) and about what a soft tight sheath I had for his sword. Or of his Santa sliding down my chimney (I, in turn, told him I wanted to make his Santa all red, fast, and jolly). Much more fun than the usual street slang, or worse, anatomical scientific terms.
I don't think i'm a nympho, just a woman with normal healthy sexual desires and appetites. I have sex with my lover about every 10 days or so, wish it could be every 2-3 days, and I self-pleasure about 5 times a week--sometimes with one of two online friends I've made here that we talk each other through mutual orgasm. My husband is in his own world where everyone conspires against him and he has to be cruel to defend himself against the world, so i long ago stopped touching him & have separate bedrooms ... so now I get my sex when & where I can, with a lover i have outside our marriage. If I were a nympho i think i would be getting sex with everyone I could anywhere and anytime i could, and that's NOT me. I'm 52 and have been with 13 men total.
age range over my life has been from 15 years younger than me to 12 years older than me.
Chicken, kernel corn, green beans. And for dessert, strawberries and blackberries.
Thinking they can OWN me. Well, I own me. Just because I enjoy your company, doesn't give you permission to take me for granted and to start to treat me like the dog doo you scrape off your shoes! Because then I won't enjoy your company any more, and you'll find yourself outside my life, looking in. How u treat me can be a BIG turn on or a MAJOR turn-off.
last ight and will again soon this morning
I don't care about age. my current husband is 12 years older than me and we have a terrible relationship now (used to be good). first husband was same age as me, we married right out of high school. best lover I ever had was 5 years older than me. current lover is 7 years younger than me. when I was a teacher at age 37, i fell in love and in lust with a 22-year-old student who is STILL a cherished memory 15 years later. It's how they treat me, not their age, that matters
I love being very slowly peeled out of mine by a pair of strong manly hands. Mmmmmmmmm!
I happen to LIKE my bush, and guys who don't won't share my bed for very long! I like guys to have arm, chest, leg, and pubic hair, not a gorilla but I find it very masculine.
2nd husband wouldn't go with me when my career took me to another state, and I wound up in an affair there. It's a big part of why we divorced
3rd (current) husband well there's a marriage in name only any more, complicated but several reasons I'm stuck with him, especially financial reasons, so being at an age where I still need sex, have had several affairs in past 7 years and am in one now. He doesn't know because that would put me in a world of financial hurt and other problems; we have separate bedrooms
Both clueless about it
I was a 37-year-old college teacher and he was my 22-year-old student and my lover and knew his way around a woman's body far beyond what his years would suggest. I had no classes after 11 AM one day, and I drove him to a mall near the school - specifically to a little Frederick's of Hollywood type of shop that sold sexy things for men and women, in a far secluded corner of the mall. I had him try on a black leather g-string pouch in the store dressing room. When I was sure nobody saw me, I snuck in to see how it looked on him. Better than half of his 7 inches was sticking up over the top of the pouch, and I kissed all that was exposed, then had him get dressed before he could come. I bought it for him but kept it in my purse until we could be alone together later. We had a really late lunch together at the mall food court and I let him see me sneaking peeks into my purse at what I had bought. I also let him see that I had no panties under my short skirt. He had a beautiful thick ridge all the way up the front of his jeans all through lunch and all afternoon. After lunch I drove us back to the school for the afternoon. All classes were out for the day by then, students teachers janitor everyone gone, but I locked us in the classroom just in case. I had him put it on and I pulled it down just enough to be able to suck him all the way down to his balls. Then I tugged his g-string down to his knees and had him make love to me through my raised skirt, on top of my desk. I would say he earned an A-plus from teacher for that day!
Yes. The hottest was about 4 years ago, after i had stopped off for a quick 69 with my then lover in a park on my way to work, and i desperately needed to lock myself in the ladies room at the office and make myself come again, the moment I arrived at work, before I could focus. That evening, he emailed me that he also had still been so excited, that he also had to make himself come the moment he got to work, too.
I alternate between watching him disappear into my mouth, and looking into his eyes so I can see the joy there, that I'm causing--and he can see the joy he's causing in MY eyes, too.
it's a tie. long walk out in nature. or a vigorous cock ride. Depends on my mood at that moment.
Best side: Smart, creative, sexual & fun
Worst side: Bad choices/bad luck in relationships
A man is much more than just a cock, definitely preferable! And no toy feels NEARLY s good as a real cock. But we can be together only about every two weeks so I also have toys for in between.
he should have asked his wife, there's another fact....it tastes DAMNED good! LOL
love and sex when they meet in one relationship is amazing. I have had love without sex and sex without love and both together in one relationship, and marriage without love OR sex, i understand the difference and I think most of us do, but I love the magic that happens when you have both, the real question is, why don't more MEN want that too?
I don't thik I'm average but at 35 I had been with 7 men and had married two of those (divorce the first before marrying he second LOL, not bigamy). 6 more in the 17 years since, and married one of those.
corned beef and cabbage, of course. Today the whole WORLD is Irish!
Generally if they just send a friend request and are too lazy to write a sentence or two on WHY they want to friend me, I look at their profile. If they were too lazy to say much there, either, I feel they're not really all that interested, just collecting friends online. I know nothing about them or why they want to friend me, so I don't accept. Yes have friended a couple of other women here, they are both bi and they like me in a way that i don't reciprocate but we do chat and are friends online, and I have fun comparing notes on the hottest guys we've known (no, we don't know the SAME hot guys).
Girls, mother nature gave you nipples that are very sensitive to the touch and have nerves in them that are hard-wired directly to the brain's sexual pleasure centers. So,girls, do you derive sexual pleasure when your nipples are played with?
Girls, mother nature gave humans only two organs whose SOLE purpose is sexual pleasure, they have NO other purpose - the clitoris and the G-spot - and she gave BOTH of these organs to women and NEITHER of these organs to men. So, girls, are you capable of more sexual pleasure with these organs DESIGNED exclusively for sexual pleasure, than men are able to get with their cocks, which also serve other purposes BESIDES sexual pleasure?
This site sure does ask some SILLY questions, doesn't it?
Being in a loveless, sexless marriage and getting to see my lover only about every 2 weeks, I don't get to give head NEARLY often enough to suit me. I love it and I miss it! I think "giving head" is a misnomer, like I'm giving the guy something. He throbs in MY mouth, he explodes down MY throat...those are gifts HE is giving to ME, not the other way around!
(I HATE IT when I post here about how incredibly good a lover was to ME in bed, and instantly 10,000 guys will email me how lucky the GUY is! Hel-LO? Can you not READ? It was HE who brought ME pleasure, he gave ME another sweet erotic memory to cherish for a lifetime, so I'm the lucky one, NOT him!)