When I was much younger and single I had some MFM and even a MMMF as well as FFF experiences. Since I got married I have only had male sex with my husband. He knows that "on occasion" I have some sex with other females, though one time on a weekend it was a FFF.
A few times by both parents, once by frined at camp, once by female co-worker. Adn let us not forgot the man I have lived with for so long. He has caught me a time or 10 over the years.
At one point hubby and I almost always came together. Not in our early years, but perhaps from our 4th to about 30th years of marriage. Now I generally cum first, sometimes second and then he does. They are all good. Never had simultaneous orgasms with another female.
It truly depends. Sometimes we just both want to get to sleep. Hey, hubby and I are old! Other times we cuddle and it leads to another round. If I am with another woman, it eally depends on if one of us has to go right away or not.
I never attempted but I would if I could! I have tasted myself so often when masturbating on my husbands lips or the lips of another woman. Would there be any reason not to do it?
I know I am not a guy, but my husband is a shade over 6 1/2 when hard...maybe 6 9/16? Yes, I used a cloth tape measure several years ago.
The biggest guy I had was perhaps 8 1/2 and he had no concept how to use it. Thought I should orgasm just because he was big and got it in. He did not get really hard and he did not last very long either.
If there is even a hint of a tiny bit of jealousy, DON'T DO IT. KEEP THE FANTASY. I know of 2 couples that went down this road and it caused major problems.
The first was another teacher with whom I worked and her husband brought it up. She was no prude, had had her share of men in the past. He kept bringing the idea up for her to be with another man and let him watch. She gave in to his fantasy and they invited another man be the third. Apparently he was talented sexually, just a bit larger then her husband and she had several orgasms. He apparently had better stamina then her husband and they did it in several positions and each time she had multiple orgasms. When all was said and done he left. Her husband was unusually quiet for sometime. He did not want to have sex with her for over 2 weeks. He was intensely jealous but realized it was his own actions that caused it. Their marriage has not been as good ever since.
The other couple we know quite well. She had been a virgin when they married she was 23 and he was 25. He had his share of experience. At 51 he thinks she should at least see what another man is like. At first she was opposed to the idea. After a few months he got her open to the idea. She picked a widower from her work and they had him over for dinner. Husband met him and they agreed to have sex with hubby watching. She told me that he fucked her better than she had been fucked before. It unleashed a monster in her and turned her into quite a married slut. She sneaks around on her husband and is, as she says, "making up for lost time." She claims that she is having regular sex with 3 different men, not counting her husband who is unaware, and a few others as she can "fit them in." Her husband does NOT know what is going on.
How do I know of these to ladies situations? I have been intimate with both. I had my slut side prior to marriage, my husband knows. He also knows that I "occasionally" will have a fling with other women. To my knowledge my man has been 100% faithful since saying "I do."
Maybe I never had enough ass licking. Only 1 guy and just a few times. To be honest it sort of made me feel uptight. While it did feel good, there is no way I would kiss him after he licked my anus. I have no problem kissing a man or woman who has been down on my pussy!
When I was a college freshman I had a few dates with a wonderful gentleman who was in his 2nd year of college--at age 42! He had spent 20 years in the Army and had served in Viet Nam, returned home and retired. He was pursuing some sort of degree. We had an astronomy class together and just started talking as friends. Had lunch together on campus a few times then off-campus for lunch. Perhaps he was pursuing me, but I don't think so. Finally he asked me out on a date. He was old enough to be my father but we went out. On our third date I suggested we go to his apartment so I could thank him. He was a wonderful lover sexually. He introduced me to a few things in a loving and gentle manner. At this point in my life I was quite a slut and had knowledge of many males. He was kind, patient, gentle but firm when needed. I am sure he made someone an excellent husband but our philosophies of life were so different there is now way we would have made things work. I think it is interesting that by the time I was in my early 40's my world view would have meshed with his at that time.
Guys, have you cheated on your wife? By cheating, I mean you are not in an open marriage or in the swing lifestyle. You keep, or try to, keep it secret. Maybe she has never found out.
How often do you cheat? Are you with just one other person (monogamous cheating?) or are you a player? How long were you married before you stepped out the first time?
I usually enjoy 69. I am fortunate that my husband and I are of the right size to make it work well. The one issue is that now that he is older if he cums from oral, it takes a long time before I am getting him erect again. Therefor, depending on the situation I need to decide if it is time to stop before her comes.
Now when I am with a woman we can continue for a long time. Yes, wehn orgasm hits, I tend to stop pleasuring her and vice versa but we can keep at it for quite some time.
Yes, I am a fan of 69.
I chuckled reading about guys coming too fast. My first two times were the worst 8 seconds of my sex life! Yes, I understand that boys often cum very quickly when they are inexperienced. I know that NOW, but not back then.
Embarrassing was fairly early in our married life my we were about to do anal. Just as he is about to start penetration I farted, both loudly and smelly. Talk about a mood killer!
Even at my age almost daily and sometimes several times during the day. I would say in any given month 27 or 28 days.
Sometimes. I don't really care for the obvious professional porn, I prefer the amateur or selfie pics.
Skinny dipping, hot tub, sometimes housework in the nude.
I have masturbated to orgasm while having cyber. It can be interesting. However I will admit that I have had some WONDERFUL times with phone sex with both males and females.
I was ***don't want to be busted by moderator*** when my mom began giving me info on menstruation. As I got a little older there was a little more intensive talk about boys, pregnancy and "being a good girl" and "saving it until marriage. She also provided me with some book that I pretended I did not like but had copious amounts of information on things like orgasm and positions. I read that thing several times over! THE PILL was very new when I was in those years, not available to us without a doctor's prescription and you could not get that without a parent approval! I remember in high school one girl talking about blow jobs being oral contraception.
When my mom caught me masturbating when I was **** we had a little talk and she told me that it was not something to be ashamed about but that I should not do it too much. (Can you do it too much? He-he)
I often would slip into the restroom during my conference period and finger myself. It was a wonderful tension release!
Everyone remembers their first! Whether it is a kiss, handjob, oral fuck, you remember.
I will vouch for the fact that my hubby's semen will change in taste. Recent diet plays a big part in that.
A few times, never on purpose. The first time I was 15 and my mom walked in on me on a Saturday morning. I was getting very close to orgasm and I was mortified. My body shut down! Later in the day when we were alone my mom said, "We need to talk." I thought, "...oh hell here comes a lecture." Mom was very cool about it and apologized, told me that I should not feel ashamed. What really amazed me AT THAT TIME was that she told me she does it too. I asked her if she and dad still had sex and she replied in the affirmative but told me that masturbation was, as we know, different. When you are 15, at least for me, I did not know that.
I suppose this might be unusual and since I am anonymous here I will share it. I am older and bisexual. My fantasy is to someday go down on a true redhead with a natural red bush and just make wonderful oral love to her. Why a redhead you ask? Well, I have been with brunette, blond, asian, hispanic, black, and Indian women but never with a redhead.
When I was a freshman in college I went to a party alone. I remember that I ws really pissed off about something with my old high school boyfriend and I made the decision that I would suck a dozen guys. Well, I did not make 12, but I think it was about 5 maybe six. Alcohol sort of got in the way of my counting.
We are an older couple and I have wondered if a cock ring would help my husband stay good and hard like the old days. I had my share of guys before we got married but never had a man use one with me.
I have never really given it any thought as when we got married many decades back we promised not to be involved with others. I do have my share of sexual flings with other women and my husband knows that happens though I am sure he thinks it is a once every year or so, not as often as it happens. I have no desire to see him in action with anyone else, male or female.
Since mnpeekn did not ask a HYE question I will answer for Ls63563:
Yes, I have and she was wonderful!
HYE been caught IN THE ACT of cheating by your partner or significant other?
Back before I got married and was living a slutty life, the group that I tended to run around with included a few bi guys. We had a few group parties and it was not unusual to watch a couple of guys engage in oral. About a month ago I ended up watching a gay porn flick and found it quite arousing. Yes, I ended up flicking the bean.
It truly depends. There are some mornings I may spend up to 2 hours masturbating and have several orgasms. There have been times when I have been stressed and can't sleep and a quick 3 or 4 minutes to orgasm and sweet dreams.
While we both really enjoy 69, sometimes I just want to give him a great blowjob. To that end, any position where I can really use my tongue on the underside of his cock when it is in my mouth works.
A few years ago while working as an adjunct professor at a local university I shared an office with two other adjuncts. One we never met. The other, also female, and I had talked on several occasions and once went out for dinner during finals. We ended up going back to our office (her idea) and while not fucking, used our hands to bring each other off.
Somehow she had had picked up on the fact that I am bisexual and she was curious. I would have loved to spent more time with her, but I think our little time was all she was interested in.
