My first several sexual partners were female back when I was pretty young.. I thought I must be one of those disgusting lesbians. My first few times with boys were rather disappointing. When I finally got laid properly, I knew I was straight ---until the next time I was with another female. I was pretty slutty for a few years. Since I got married I have not been with another man and that has been over 40 years. I do, on occasion, perhaps 4 or 5 times a year, still have some bi experiences.
Ladies, I have to admit the concept intrigues me. Just wondering how many of you would be willing to be shared by your husband or b/f would willingly have sex in front of him with another man?
Do you think women just switch off sexuality at a certain age? 50? 55? 60? Maybe at 65? Let us just say that at my age I can still enjoy sex with another woman. Now, most of you will have to look at my profile to know my age. No, the pic is not really me but is indicative.
I think for me it was my first time with another person that was THE MOST arousing. That aspect made it new, a step beyond masturbation. It just so happens that my first sexual partner was female. I can say that the first time with a guy was highly arousing too.
My only threesome were with other females. Started in high school with 2 good friends and it was always wonderful. Had a few in college that were also outstanding. Never had any sort of threesome with a male involved. Geesh, I sound 100% lesbian!
It is simply a word, but I have used on special occasions when involved sexually with both men and women. It does tend to turn me off when used "too soon."
There was one guy that had a reputation for having a big dick in high school. I dated him a bit and we had sex twice. He was BIG but if it was over 7.5 - 8 inches I would be surprised. BTW, he was not very good. He figured I should cum just by putting it in. I mean, he came both times within about 30 seconds of it going in. Big disappointment. I have had perhaps 50 - 75 dicks in my life though it has been years since any other than my husbands and I agree most were probably in the 5 -6 inch range. ONE TIME, after several years of marriage we actually put a measuring tape to my guy and it was 6 & 5/8ths inches long. I do not recall the girth.
Yes, I may start a little flirt and if she flirts back we may find that there is a chemistry. As an older bisexual woman, it can often be an amazing thing to find out just how un-straight some of my straight friends are.
I was in high school and the word around school was that a certain guy had a big dick. I had already had my share of partners and wanted to find out. for myslef. Yes, he was pretty big but not verey good. Tried him twice and both times it was nothing for me. He would cum in about 30 seconds and do nothing to help me....and he did not get very hard, just hard enough.
Both of us will engage in oral on the other after a fuck orgasm...even sometimess interrupting the actual act to do it. I find the taste of myself on him enjoyable abd he does not have any problem licking me after he has cum inside me.
Raises hand in the affirmative.
I don't know what "normal" is. I can tell you that the first few times I gave oral when I was a high school girl I did not particularly enjoy it, though I enjoyed pleasing the guy. Later I grew to really, I mean REALLY enjoy it.
It can vary from just a few times a week to several times a day. There ae simiply too many factors to give an accurate answer. Most often I just use fingers around my clitoris. The other extreme is suing a vibe vaginally and another small one anally, however that is fairly rare and on times when I know I have considerable time available. No, I have never had dp other then my man vaginally and his fingers stimulating my anus.
In many ways I would say my first bi experience was the most arousing. She had a little girl/girl experience, my only sexual experiences were solo.
First of all I past menopause so, don't ask.
I never refused to fuck during my period unless I just did not care to do it with someone. My husband really enjoyed it, in fact I will go so far as to say it was a bit of a fetish for him as he has said he misses those times.
Having written all that, MEN, do you enjoy sex with your partner when she is on her period?
Most of the time I read the stories to aid in arousing me. Sometimes I masturbate a bit while I read. To be honest, I read a story this morning and got so hot bothered I had to stop and cum a few times before finishing the story.
When I was single, over 40 years ago, ok, I am old, one several occasions I would have sex and other people were around watching. It was sort of a swingers or sex group kind of thing. I can't say that it turned me on but it did not bother me. A few years after we married, my husband and I took a trip with his best friend and his girl friend. We ended up in the same hotel room with 2 king beds. The second and last night we were there, we were both having sex with our partners and I sort of found it a turn on that just a few feet away another couple was going at it too!
Probably my first sexual encounter. With a female friend. I had never had an inkling of having a lesbian encounter. OK, we were young and I was a virgin, though I suspect she had done it with her boyfriend.
I suppose most women have had a fefw "indecent" proposals. I had more than a few in college and accepted a few
I had a long career as a teacher. No, I never played with a student. Several years back, I was 56 and had a former student dropp by. She was a sophomore in college and wanted to talk to me as she was considering a career in education. We talked for some time, ended up going to dinner and talking more. My husband was out of town, our kids grown and out of the home. That young lady and I ended up at my home and she taught me some things! Yes, her body was incredible, like those I first experienced, but she was an excellent lover. We got together one more time. She later married and is now a counselor at a local middle school.
As a bisexual woman, I can say that I havae spent a few hours with another woman as we had sex. Certainly not all of it was just oral on her or me. I can not say how long, we have not set up a timer. There is a great deal more to sex than simply eating pussy, which I love, no matter which end I am on!
Way back in my freshman year of college (1968) I wanted to go to a party. Something came up and my bf at the time could not go. I was pissed off and sat at home getting a bit drunk. I decided I was going to that frat party and have fun. My goal was to suck of 10 guys, one by one. It was not a group thing, I would talk get close to a guy and take him to another room or outside in the dark and suck his cock. I think I only made it to 4, maybe 5 before I got too drunk and had someone take me home. Pretty sure it was the alcohol that caused me to vomit, not the cum. First and last time I did that.
Sometime back I posted about giving it to my boyfriend. I do not know if you count your first sexual encounter with another girl as losing your virginity. That happened in my own bed when a neighbor was spending a weekend with us while her parents went out of town. Fall of 1965!
I can't speak for all women, only for myself. My first sexual experiences with another person were with other girls, not because I wanted it that way, it just ahppened, plus no girl would get me pregnaant! Later I discovered the joy of sex with males. I would, at times, fantasize about other females, hell I still do! While I have been monogamous heteroly (is that a word) with my husband for over 40 years, I have still had female relations.
I think the idea of a weekend together has the idea that sex will be involved on that weeked. If you got turned down on the weekend, would you know that it was because she did not want sex or was it because she could not take the time away?
I would be quite open to just being with the person over coffee or a dinner and having him ask. I would not want him to say bluntly, "Do you wanna fuck." I would not be opposed to him saying something like "I would like to ask you something but I hope you will not be offended by the question. We have been friends but if you are not offended by openness, I would ceretainly enjoy sex with you."
That approach worked on me many years ago, granted I was 20, maybe 21. We did end up knocking it out several times and remained friends until he went into the navy and I never saw him again.
To answer the original question, "is there sex after menopause?" Yes. I am passed that time now, 66 to be exact. When some of the ugly parts of menopause are at their height I certainly had a decreased desire. I did not hit the change until I was 54, fairly late. Now, I can tell you that the desire is strong agai. Yes, I usually need some sort of lube to accomplish intercourse. I can also attest that I have had more attraction to other women the past few years, but that is another story.
I first posted on this topic of=ver a year ago. I will add that the first several times I gave a bj it was i his parents car. There was no place to spit, so I swallowed.
