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KellyC317
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 74
United States

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Only had period sex with my husband. Not a problem, if we wanted to we just got a towel and that was it.

With a female once we were both at that time and we limited our play to tribbing. To be honest, we had one hell of a mess but one great afternoon!
I was a freshman in high school when I first had sex and it was with a female. Loved it but I wanted guys. I was with that girl and one other before I finally had sex with a guy. That was now over 50 years ago. I still prefer men. Actually haven't had anyone other thatn my husband in over 40 years but have still been with a few other women.
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You will just have to experiment with the cock rings. I'm wondering how the Cialis is working out for you?


It works ok for him (and me!) but he says it sort of makes him stuffy in the nose and he tends to have mild headches after using it.
I am not sure of the exact number. A few in high school, lots in college, perhaps 25 - 30 different guys. I did not really keep score. One night in college I went to a party and my goal was to suck off 10 different guys. I only got to 6. Since I got married over 40 years ago my husband is the only cock I have had.
I asked my husband about this too. He says that having the prostate check, particularly from a male physician sort of seems like a gay encounter, but his current doctor is a female and he does not mind. He has even joked about it. I have enjoyed anal sometimes, not always. It is simply a part of the sexual repertoire but it is not always employed.
I was about 14, maybe 15 when my mom walked in on me one Saturday mornig. I was just about to orgasm when she came in. She said "Sorry" and left quickly. Later that afternoon she tells me, "We need to talk." I thought, 'Oh shit, here comes a lecture." Well she again apologized for walking into my room with the door closed. Then explains that I should not be concerned, it is normal everyone does--and that she still did. All was cool after that.
Oh yes. In fact it is a very erotic thing to do with another woman. I also enjoyed what I suppose was "hetero tribbing" with my first serious boyfriend back in high school. We would both get off, I was still a virgin and the chance of pregnancy was quite low as we always made sure he came "up high." The first time I did it with another girl it just sort of happened after we had been hugging and kissing and then we realized we were rugging our vulvas and clits angainst each other and we just kept at it until we had a few orgasms.
I enjoy dialogue and I a lso truly enjoy reading about men eating their creampie from their lovers. That really gets me flowing.
I too would get in trouble for posting about m first times, both with another girl and a boy. Oh well, maybe just keeping the memory private makes it hotter?
One guy in high school came just as he was beginning to enter me. By our fourth or fifth time he ended up a decent lover, at least for a high school senior.
The first time I played around with a guy while having my period was with a high school boy friend. While we did not have intercourse he did finger me and I took care of him with my hand. He was not at all turned off by the concept and sometime later began having intercourse during that time. It made some things more difficult as clean-up was more involved and going home to parents could have been awkward.

My husband totally loved having sex when I was menstruating. To be honest, I always felt a little hornier then too. Well, those times are behind me now.
First experience was during a friend sleeping over for a weekend while her parents went out of town and her brother went to one of his friends home. We kissed and felt each others' boobs then she fingered me to orgasm. My heart was beating so hard I was afraid my parents would hear it! No oral that night. Next day we had to go down to her house to feed her cat. To this day, I am not sure if the cat got fed but I do know that some pussy got eaten. Not allowed to say our ages.
On a number of occasions I would masturbate in one of the stalls of the women's restroom at school. My last school built single user unisex restrooms for staff and I often (about once a week) masturbate. I was just usually too busy during my prep period with work that I did not have the time.
So I was reading this to see if there is really a consensus of men. Now to offer my view as a bisexual woman. I like my female lovers to have some bush. Maybe because when I developed sexually the shaved look was very, very rare and my first experiences were with a little bush.
I know this is Ask The Guys but....early in my sex life my high school boy friend and I did not have intercourse. I would give him hand jobs and an occasional bj, One night we were making out and I found that rubbing against his thigh felt damn good! Yep, kept it up and came. It became a regular part of our repertoire. Did it a bit with a few other guys over the years. On occasion I will still do it with hubby.
My husband and I are both in our 60's. Let's face it he does not get as hard as he once did. Where as he formerly could cum and not lose that wondereful erection for quite some time, nowdays it pretty much goes down as soon as he ejaculates. He has tried and has some of the ED meds, I think it is Cialis that he has. So we were talking the other night about cock rings. Do they help any of these areas of our need? I was looking at one of the adult boutiques and there are so many from which to choose. However, not as many as the toys available to us ladies! If you personally have experience with some, would you be kind and share your info?
In order of preference:

1. In my vagina
2. In my mouth
3. In my ass
4. On my tits
Way back in high school days we had to shower every day after PE. I would say there probably close to 100 girls in there each and every day. I don't think anything ever happened, at least not to me, except getting wet in a way that I couldn't dry off!

I have shared a shower with a female lover a time or two after we have had a long session together. Sometimes that has led to more fun!
Two or three. Sometimes one. Sometimes oral gets me to three or four before we actually go to intercourse and I might have 2 or 3 more. It varies. Hell, some nights we are both tired and one is all that is needed.
To be honest, the first time my husband wanted to go down on me after he had come, I was sort of turned off. It did not happen then. A few weeks later he tried again and I let him. Mmmm, it felt good to be tongued again after a hard fuck. Now it is just one of the tools in our "bag of sexual tricks."
It isn't mandatory. Hubby does it eagerly and often. Like Matilda above, we like to mix it up.
I have to say most of the guys that I have had ANY sort of sexual experience were all within 5 - 6.5 inches - except one. He was probably more like 8 inches in length, still just average girth. Three times he and I got busy but I have to tell you he just did NOT know how to use it. Maybe he was still inexperienced, we were college freshmen. The only way he got me off was with his fingers - once. Wouldn't go down on me. When I asked him he said he had never done it and thought it might make him sick. Hell, I'd sucked his cock several times. Can you guess the last time I went out with him?
Interesting question. Are you asking "the number" of men with whom I have had intercourse? Perhaps that number plus those that I have given a handjob or blow job? Or the the number of women with whom I have had an sort of sexual activity?

So, my husband knows that he is the lucky #7 to put his penis into my vagina. I have not fucked another man in decades. In high school and college I gave numerous handjobs and really got into bjs in early college. One night I went to a party with the idea of sucking 10 guys off, but ended up at six. I could not give you an accurate accounting of how many of those experiences I had, let's just say plenty.

How many women have I been with? I tried to think before answering and I would say about 18 - 20 girls before I got married. Since marriage (over 40 years ago) I think I have been with a total of 11 other women. One was a long term lover, also married and we played for about 9 years until they moved.
Like Rosiegirl95 we don't always cum together but when we do... To cum is heavenly, to cum together is divine.
There are times when I have not been in the mood. Tired, emotionally shot for one reason or another, not feeling well, etc. Some days you just explain and it is good night. Other times I might give a blow job or as I used to say "Let him borrow my body." Some of those times it was just his release. Many times I would end up getting into it and have a few orgasms.
At my age, no need for it! Well many years ago the hubby got a vasectomy. As I have been monogamous with him I did not need to worry about birth control for many years.

However during my fertile years there were a number of methods. Prior to getting married there were condoms and I also used contraceptive foam. After marriage I used the pill even though in the 70's they were still working very hard to fine tune it. My gyno tried me on a number of different formulas. After child number one I used an IUD and found it great. This was a second generation of IUD and I had no problems whatsoever. Following child number two I had another IUD. Then hubby had the snip job.
Cowgirl. I can get exactly the stimulation I want AND I can play with my man's nipples and he can suck mine.
I tried the bald eagle look and did not care for it. Too much time in daily maintainence. Now days I keep things neatly trimmed.

When I am with another woman, I actually prefer her to have some pubic hair, ala bush. The totally smooth woman just makes me think I am with an underage girl.
Good question. Since I have been married, over 40 years, I have been monogamous with men. My husband knows that on occasion I have a taste to be with over women and does not mind.