I do believe that "a bitter truth is better than a sweet lie" but there are times when you have to modify that. The problem comes in knowing when that is.
For kids I would NEVER quash an idea or attempt at something new. That can kill all of their drive to try new things. With mine I encouraged their independence and there were many screaming, toe to toe, go to hell fights around my house. Eventually every one off them learned that while the cop is standing there writing the ticket is ABSOLUTELY NOT the time to call them a pig.
For older people they live in a child's world some times and I treat them as such. I do not want to destroy whatever they have left of happiness in their life. That would make me not like myself at all. Others too but also a pure judgement call.
Pretty much I'm capable of saying anything to anybody including any deity you can think of.
I control "ME" though, not my ego, so it's always a considered thing when I say anything. On here? You're all adults, you use your minds (some much better than others) so anything is possible.
Courtesy, consideration and kindness go a very long way in my world.
Besides, it's all just an opinion.
I think the Marquis would be a neat guy to know. I like people who use their brains and would enjoy many hours of talk over coffee.
Guilty!
But I told her about it and it made her hotter. I know she did at times but she'd never tell me. I got her a little extra relaxed one night and she told me one and I'm writing a story about that.
Have you ever had sex on the top of a skyscraper at night?
It's situational. There are times when I want her to break glass with her response but others when it's not such a good idea, like in the dressing room at a department store.
I like her to tell me what she wants then force me to do it differently if it's not good for her. I like it when she asks me to force her a little but I won't do it unless she asks. If it's to brutal I'll have a problem because I do not like to hurt.
I like doing what she likes. I think there's a song by that name, Toby Keith?
Lush is pretty much it. I've looked at others and occasionally read on one but I like it here. The people are neat. And I have several good friends. One very good one.
I've told my wife and shown her. I ask her to read all my stories and she has a couple but mostly she won't any more. She gets embarrassed by the sex now and this woman screwed my brains out for 38 years or so.
Now she won't talk about it and she's losing her memory. In another year she won't remember me. She already can't remember us marrying. When her mind is completely gone I'll spend a couple of months thinking about ending me and crying a lot. I already do that a lot when I allow myself to think about it. Then I'll move on to something else. I will never be over her but I can replace some of it with new things and people. I'm already planning for that because I don't want to end it yet.
I want to see what my grand kids and great grand kids become. They are a great help and comfort to me but I need the intimacy too.
I've never hidden anything from her. Secrets have a way of biting you very hard right in your ass and I never wanted to lose her.
First:
Stop worrying about making the wrong decision. We ALL do that and usually more often than we want to. I have many times but each one taught me more than a good one would have. I became an engineer because that's what everything led me to. I became a Taoist because that's how I want to live my life.
Now pick that one thing that you never want to stop doing. If it's sex then you will run into many hurdles that'll make family and friends unhappy but if that's it then??? You get to decide.
You will screw it up! Just try to not let it hurt you when you do. Listen to all this advice but keep in mind that it's YOUR life and you'll have to live it so make up your own mind. Ask questions if your unsure, study it, take whatever time you need then jump off that very fricking high cliff.
You'll either fly or crash at the bottom. Try to make the crash soft then pick up everything and climb back up and get ready to try again. Anything else is giving up and that's just a slow way to die unhappy. The ONLY failures are those that just don't get up again.
This is what we call life.
No one in the universe is in charge of you except you! NO ONE!
Of course this is all just advice from an old fart. I have walked down a lot of dead end roads in my life though and would like to help others.
I've never had that experience but it's one of my major fantasies. I much prefer one-on-one but FMF is my preference but I've wondered about a group often too. Mostly with a black woman and 2 black women for the other but ANY combination will work for me.
Guilty!
I have and will again, given the opportunity, with women.
Would you have sex looking up into a starry, moonless night?
I've had fantasies about many teachers and the older ones really turned me on. Aw, hell, they all lit my fires but I liked older women a lot. Never was lucky, or good enough, to get one into bed though. Damn!
I had a 50 year old girlfriend when I was 25 that I would have married if she hadn't been smarter than me. I wrote a story about her because I still love her 45 years later.
Maybe you are fantasizing about one of 10 of my grand kids who still live in Southern California. I hope so, the lucky dogs.
I love it. It doesn't get more intimate than that. One of my biggest fantasies is to watch two women pleasure each other then be asked to help. They decide what I do and if it's just watch? Great. But I really want my face in there in any combination.
My wife never really liked that though so I've missed out on it a lot. Oh well, maybe my next life.
A very strong lady that knows who and what she is. It shows in her Avatar. I really like the body ink and a woman that can fix her own car shows strength. My three daughters had to learn that before I'd get them a car and they did.
She doesn't need anyone else to make her a whole person.
When I read a longer story getting back to the top is a real pain in some very soft spots. The back key works but takes 3 or more hits to get me there and I have to wait for the screen to reload.
Something hidden that's always a "Home" button but not visible. Wherever you are it just sends you "Home".
I don't like crap all over the screen when I'm reading. Most things don't display in the lower-left corner. It's the last place most look so the adverts tend to stay away from there. Anywhere, but it's always there.
Most of the badge ideas are "Ego" pump handles (which I will be an absolute fan of when I get that good) but I like the co-author badge idea. To bad two authors can't share the accolades. I'll like to try doing that one day, when I'm good enough to really contribute to the process.
Thank you for asking for input.
That's quite a response. For me I've never noticed it being a requirement. I have not seen one like what I have experienced.
When I was 25 I'd really had to pee before my girlfriend got a little demanding of my services. When she was finished I'd finished too and I walked home. I had to stop and pee and when I did I had a very intense orgasm again. That's happened to me many times and when I'd get it just right it worked.
And, if it can be proven that it wasn't a true orgasm, I don't give a crap. I liked it.
Has any one else ever experienced this?
First, and foremost;
Welcome to Lush!
Like many have said, NEVER post anything that can identify you or allow someone to find you. Most of us are reasonable people just looking for some pleasure but there are a few that get rather nasty.
Secondly;
NEVER don't try! Write it because you enjoy it. Anyone who objects can go screw themselves. If it meets the site guidelines, which are the best I've found so far, then it doesn't matter what ANYONE else thinks. It's just a lot better personally if they like it. You will learn just like the rest of us did or are doing. I'm a little thick sometimes and it takes a while, like with tense.
No one here was born with this talent.
I like scriptwriters suggestion too. I might try that myself because I need all the help I can get sometimes. I kind of alluded to that a couple of times and received no response so we'll see.
Also, you never need to bash yourself because there is a plethora of others out there more than willing to do it for you. Mostly they are just ignorant though and do not bother to think but a couple can think and there favorite thing is to attack you.
If it's constructive, listen.
If it's destructive, screw their opinion.
Primarily, have fun.
Seems like a straight forward guy with similar opinions. Would like to sit talking and have a cup of coffee for a few hours.
Plus, for many years, while living in Oklahoma the only friends I had were Indians from the five civilized tribes. They got head rites and I wanted them to adopt me when I was in college.
What tribe are you from? I had a lot of friends as a kid in New York too but they were the Iroquois, Algonquin and other tribes. That was in the late forties and early fifties.
Probably Glen Close in Fatal Attraction or Demi Moore in Disclosure.
There have been more but I can't remember most of the movie titles now. Halle Berry did one a few years ago that I'd have stepped into in a second. Your pick is another.
BEWARE!
I THINK!
And make up my own mind.
Yes, several. She never liked the ones we stuck in her but she loved the Wahl vibrator and the attachment with the nub was her favorite. I've purchased three of them over 38 years. Like the bunny, they keep on going.
Works very well for both of us too.
Thank you frank.
That video was staged but I lived there for 2 years and Russian road rage is an absolute stitch to watch. That was 1978 to 1980 and video technology was in it's infancy. Well, maybe early adolescence.
Damn, I would love to have been able to film some of them. I'll have to come up with some sexy fantasies so I can describe it. If I hadn't been married I'd have a multitude of real ones. I got hit on a lot.
I'm still laughing at that video. Thank you.
She is a strong lady and knows who and what she is.
It would make for some very interesting conversation over coffee.
Top of the line, above all else, Peaches. And I don't particularly care how I get them. I'd probably shy away from any covered in hit peppers.
