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LadyX
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 35
0 miles · Dallas
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Artistic Tart
Quote by Rembacher
I agree he had to be in on it. But your comment makes me wonder why he needed the excuse. I've read that he's religious, so maybe it's just an added protection against "sinning." "Sorry ladies, I have a girlfriend, besides, I don't believe in sex before marriage."
Or... it was a very simple way for him to avoid the questions about why he wasn't interested in any woman who wanted to sleep with him. I'm sure gay athletes have done more creative things to avoid coming out during their playing careers.
ya, that could be. Though aren't people who are abstaining for religious reasons usually fairly outspoken about it? Isn't that the whole Christian thing, that you don't cower in your beliefs, but make them outwardly who you are? Being gay in an aggressively hetero (and homophobic) environment is a different animal though. And, he's known to be very outwardly religious, so this would be the one part of his life that he's somewhat sheepish about his own spirituality?
I lean toward the theory that he's gay.
Not that there's anything wrong with that!
Artistic Tart
Quote by Kimasa
Doesn't sound like much of an "upscale" (upmarket) restaurant if they let him in dressed like that.
You would be surprised, at least over here. All but the stuffiest restaurants that overtly market themselves as 'formal dining' will feature more than a few sets of flip-flops, ballcaps, t-shirts. And it has zero to do with what one can afford to buy in terms of wardrobe. People just often dress down around here, almost no matter where they go. Now, being Dallas, you also see a lot of "look at me" high fashion too, which can honestly be equally obnoxious.
Now, I'm compelled to 'out' myself. And hopefully, for most of you, my allure wasn't based on a fantasy of me as a wisecracking oil portrait. And if it was, well...my bad. Thanks for ruining the fun, guys!
Artistic Tart
From this and other threads, it looks like most women prefer the same undergarments on their men: boxers and/or boxer briefs. Although I will add that I once bought some really stylish briefs for my guy. They look awesome on him. They also cost me $75. He never wears them.
Artistic Tart
1. Being a psychopath
2. Secretly having sex and fathering children outside of marriage.
3. Calling me by somebody else's name.
All of those are bummers.
Also, is this the right place to mention the 'small penis' pet peeve? Or are there maybe other threads devoted to that.
2. Secretly having sex and fathering children outside of marriage.
3. Calling me by somebody else's name.
All of those are bummers.
Also, is this the right place to mention the 'small penis' pet peeve? Or are there maybe other threads devoted to that.
Artistic Tart
Quote by clayrider
Please educate me. If it were the reverse, I would hope that my partner would get all revved up and then I would jump their bones. But the reverse usually happens... Is it a jealousy thing? Please educate me.
Clay
Do you include her in your porn watching? In other words, is it a joint activity? If not, then it is perceived as competition at best, and evidence that you prefer the fantasy of other women over the reality of her, at worst.
Artistic Tart
I think it's just a "strongest words you can find" thing, when you're in the moment and you have the impulse to exclaim something. I'm not literally trying to call the name of the Christian deity. Although, if there is a god somewhere named "fuck" or "shit", I'm accidentally giving him a lot of praise when I have sex.
Artistic Tart
I don't like having sex with a semi-limp cock. It makes me wonder if I'm somehow not arousing him enough, or in the right ways, and in the back of my mind, I'm wondering when he'll lose too much erection to continue to fuck me. For me, there's a baseline that I want, when it comes to sex, and that's that all the parts actually perform, and I can concentrate on my pleasure and his pleasure, not whether or not he can physically persevere through the act itself.
Artistic Tart
There's a running series in a Esquire magazine called "What it Feels Like", where people describe what some act or experience feels like for the rest of us that either can't or likely won't ever experience it. (examples: "What it feels like to be in an earthquake", "what it feels like to skydive", "what it feels like to be a drug mule", etc.)
So with as wide and diverse of a crowd as we have here, it would be fun to have a running thread of "what it feels like" experiences; preferably sexual, but maybe not exclusively.
Examples to choose from and expound upon, depending on your experiences/points of view:
What it feels like to give/receive a blow job
What it feels like to have anal sex
What it feels like to fuck a well-endowed man
What it feels like to be a well-endowed man
What it feels like to receive a rim job
What it feels like to have tantric sex
What it feels like to be bound and whipped by a master
What it feels like to be a master for the first time
What it feels like to have a threesome (from any perspective, be it MMF, or MFF)
What it feels like to be bisexual
What it feels like to receive/participate in double penetration
What it feels like to use a Lelo
What it feels like to have sex for the first time
What it feels like to deep-throat
What it feels like to have an orgasm
What it feels like to have multiple orgasms
What it feels like to fuck a stranger
What it feels like to receive bukakke
What it feels like to be the object of a gangbang
What it feels like to be a stripper
What it feels like to be an escort
What it feels like to watch another person fuck your spouse/significant-other
And there are countless others, but if people with experience with one of these (or another that you come up with) could take it and give a summary of 'what it feels like', then not only will it be interesting to read what others have experienced, but it might end up being a quick-reference for those needing a dose of realism within their stories.
So with as wide and diverse of a crowd as we have here, it would be fun to have a running thread of "what it feels like" experiences; preferably sexual, but maybe not exclusively.
Examples to choose from and expound upon, depending on your experiences/points of view:
What it feels like to give/receive a blow job
What it feels like to have anal sex
What it feels like to fuck a well-endowed man
What it feels like to be a well-endowed man
What it feels like to receive a rim job
What it feels like to have tantric sex
What it feels like to be bound and whipped by a master
What it feels like to be a master for the first time
What it feels like to have a threesome (from any perspective, be it MMF, or MFF)
What it feels like to be bisexual
What it feels like to receive/participate in double penetration
What it feels like to use a Lelo
What it feels like to have sex for the first time
What it feels like to deep-throat
What it feels like to have an orgasm
What it feels like to have multiple orgasms
What it feels like to fuck a stranger
What it feels like to receive bukakke
What it feels like to be the object of a gangbang
What it feels like to be a stripper
What it feels like to be an escort
What it feels like to watch another person fuck your spouse/significant-other
And there are countless others, but if people with experience with one of these (or another that you come up with) could take it and give a summary of 'what it feels like', then not only will it be interesting to read what others have experienced, but it might end up being a quick-reference for those needing a dose of realism within their stories.
Artistic Tart
I prefer guys with suggestively messaged t-shirts. I mean, you might not be much in the looks department, but if I catch you wearing a shirt declaring " it's not going to suck itself", we'll just hope no innocent bystanders get pelted with my clothes as they come flying off.
Artistic Tart
Quote by Nikki703
When my kids are in school I am at work so you see how that wouldnt work for me, LOL!!
I have this fantasy though, of just one day, showing up naked at an office job acting as if nothing was strange about it, as if I were fully clothed. People stare at you, and you look at them and say "what?", then shrug and go about your business while they stand there, looking dumbfounded.
To the OP: yes, I'm one of those who feels nature intended them to remain nude unless otherwise obligated. As my child exits infancy, I'll unfortunately have to cut way down on the nekkid-time.