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LarsKaiden
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male
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Quote by misswitch13


You still never got any?!


I learned how to finger my own, lol. I'm emancipated.
Quote by EwaBeachSlut
I do no play with a guys ass unless he is into that pleasure some guys are very much so and some equate it to Homosexual play.

The guys that like it seem to really like it. Really do.

Seems like we should try everything sexual, but I know many would disagree.


Well exactly. When I was in my early 20's my gf asked if I would like it. Open invitation... and dumbass here thought it sounded gay, so I never got any.
Quote by LilBiTeenXx
This happened to me recently and my guy was just more shocked than anything, so I got embarrassed and stopped. Then we just went about our evening, talk about an anti climax ... I just wondered how others would have reacted :P


LOL, a guy shocked by masturbation. Is he a monk by any chance?

Me, I would have fucked your brains out. Simples.
Yes, but surreptitiously rather than flagrantly, although many times fragrantly.
It doesn't bother me in the slightest. In fact I find it to be quite a turn-on.
I'm also with InsatiableLover and Dani on this.

To me, Lush is many different and exciting things, but unfortunately exposing your inner self to the outside world can be a double-edged sword. It's great for the ability to share and read about others thoughts on topics which remain somewhat in today's society, and also to make some some great virtual friends. However, it comes at the price of potentially also being discovered by people you would rather not know you so intimately, including work colleagues, friends and (ahem) family, for example.

Having said that, I do find it preferable for people to have at least some kind of avatar that represents something you love. A picture of chocolate cake bothers me less than a picture of a celebrity.

GW.
Quote by SereneProdigy


Regarding how I got into this, I'd say that this is simply a natural progression of my own cum fetish.

Cum is probably my biggest fetish (or at least my most distinctive one), and I simply love to experiment with cumplay. I'm not sure how exactly I developed this fetish over the years, but the fact that I often shoot huge loads of cum certainly has something to do with my fascination for it.

Some people find cum repulsive and disgusting, I find it absolutely beautiful and erotic. This is genuinely exquisite, tasteful and exciting for me: Cum Fetish


Thanks very much for the explanation. I must say that I've never really thought about it much until I asked the question, but it makes sense if that's your thing.
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Did I fall asleep? Sorry! The level of intellect was intriguing but not quite enough to keep me stimulated. I might need Buz's anal probe after all...
Quote by SereneProdigy
As a man I absolutely love this, that is, kissing with our mouths full of cum.

Often times I'm the one that initiate it though: either I instruct the girl to keep my cum in her mouth after shooting my load there, or I lick the cum off of her body and reach for her mouth. This is even hotter when we let the cum drip down our chins and onto our bodies.

I guess many girls assume that guys aren't into their own cum all that much, and they probably aren't all that wrong about it; it's very rare to see a guy play with his own cum in porn movies.

Porn really has a negative influence on people, I tell you.


Again, a really interesting perspective. How did you get into it, or did it cum (pun fully intended) naturally?
Quote by Meggsy
If you let her take yours - be prepared to share it with her in other ways.
I would say without warning may be a bit of a shock, but you know now so it will be a pleasure I am sure in future. It is an acquired taste however.
In my early days if a guy wanted to cum on my tits - he had to be prepared to lick it off. Many got the taste of themselves for the first time... and most came back for more..


That was her philosophy too I suspect, and indeed it was a bit of a shock! I never got into it and she never pressed the point either, but thanks for sharing. I'm curious as to how common it might be.

GW.
I'm wondering why I've got gum stuck to the inside gusset of my underpants.

Could it be Weekender's been chewing down there in my sleep again?
Quote by Dani


Now this I understand.

But given your professional background, one would expect some decorum...or at least a bit of self control. You weren't attacked, but you perceived anyone disagreeing with you as such. Your credibility was ruined the second you used personal insults. Apology or no apology, it's gonna be hard to get that back. Know what I mean?

Earlier when I told you to develop a thicker skin, it wasn't me being vindictive. It was a healthy bit of advice. This site has over a quarter of a million members, and although you think you have a great idea, what others have to say is very important. If you wanted something constructive take place, you could have easily facilitated that...instead you chose a different route.

But luckily, a lesson can be learned from just about any situation. And I hope this thread has served its purpose in that regard.


Danielle,

The language you use is suggestive that you know better than me. To me, that is offensive. You are not above me, nor me above you. Please keep things on an even keel.

Respectfully,

GW.
Quote by daddysweetheart


Thanks. I needed a pick me up..

=d>


I'm happy to see a relationship grew out of this!


Quote by Dani
In all seriousness, I actually see some merit to your idea.

But the fact still stands that we're not gonna penalize a majority of potential members for the relative handful that come here with malicious intent.

If you took a break from being offended, you would have seen that some great brainstorming came from your suggestion.

Above all else, remember that we're adults. And we're teeming with ideas and opinions. It's all in the delivery.


I'm not really all that offended Danielle. Like I said, I felt annoyed that the initial response was negative rather than consultative (i.e. discussion rather than disregarding there may be any issue), but ok. My suggestions were a bit too prescriptive and I would have done better to ask for suggestions rather than to suggest. Lesson learned.

Next time I'll ask "Do you see any issues with X?" and if you do then what do you suggest could be done about it?

I'm a professional consultant in the arena of process improvement, so I guess I got a bit carried away with my knowledge of the field. Sorry for that.

GW.

Nice train wreck, BTW VanGogh.
Quote by weekender
The following is a "private Message as sent by Mr. GW, I' assuming in response to something I poster. I have not otherwise addressed this topic elsewhere! Just saying... I'm not sure of his intentions in sending the following:

Received 23 Sep 2014 18:16
From:
GirlyWorld
Subject:
Suggestion to create an Account Credibility syste
Message:
Don't even try...



Quite easy Weekender. It means don't even try to belittle me.
Quote by weekender
You first in line, GW?



So long as you're sucking, I'm blowing my load and you're swallowing it, sign me up!
Quote by sprite


get your own damn gum, this here's special. it's ha-lew-sin-a-jenic.


15 seconds just wan't enough I see. LMFAO.
Quote by simply_sweet



Oh my gosh!! To quote my favorite fictional news anchor, 'that escalated quickly'. **Note to self: do not join other erotic story sites, for fear of death threats
I'm sorry you had such a negative thing said to you!


On a note more towards this thread... I've got to agree with the many others that have posted here. It wouldn't be a plausible solution to trolls. There will always be trolls. There will always be pests. There will always be troublemakers and the sort. HOWEVER. There will also always be kind people. There will always be helpful people. There will always be a friend or two.
Basically, there will always be a place here for anyone who wants to join Lush. (A certain nutcase who has it out for the admins excluded).
Trust me, I can understand the frustration of being harassed, but in joining an adult site like Lush...I also kind of expected it. After being here for 4 years, and if the trolling has been such a big issue for you...I'm wondering if you've contacted the admin about it before?

As for the negativity that has been running rampant through this thread, I understand and appreciate that you've apologized to the members you feel you offended. However, calling them out in a public forum for not accepting or acknowledging your apology is just going to spark more issues. It is their prerogative to do what they will with your message to them. That's just how apologies work.





@Sprite: what kind of gum are you chewin' and can I have a piece?!


Very poetic. I think it's called gubble bum.
Quote by HeraTeleia


So...you insult and belittle those who dare to question you, and then think that an apology sent days later merits a response?


Please answer by a) how did I insult you? and b) how did I belittle you?

I was surprised that you didn't know what an illegitimate member would be. Please be very clear with your answers to the above.

Also, "days later" for the apology as you say was less than 2 days, and I will state again that you didn't even bother to recognize the apology, let alone accept it.
Quote by BiMale73


You can't just expect to always have it your way. Not when it comes to what hoops people should jump through in order to get certain privileges. Not when it comes to how people respond to your suggestions or to your apologies.

You made suggestions on how to improve the overall experience of Lush: awesome, keep them coming!
Fellow lushies showed their involvement with the site by discussing your suggestions.
Mods showed how the current system works in practice (and that it actually does work).
You apologized.

I'd say all is good


Group hug, LOL.
Quote by sprite


*chews on my wad of bubble gum while give you a cold hard stare* quit being a dick. feel free to complain or report me, btw, i don't give a fuck. grow up for god's sake. ok, i'm out of here. just wasted a precious 15 seconds on nothing. *blows bubble, pops it* bye.


I have the feeling you enjoyed those 15 seconds.
Quote by ChuckEPoo
Sounds complicated to program. You will always have the Internet trolls that are up to no good. The real members that find this a community and just not another sex site will always support one another.


This is true, and perhaps my suggestion was too prescriptive. I was hoping that it might spark some debate and generate alternative suggestions to keep the rogue few at bay.
Please, Dani The Threatener, wield your almighty powers and shut this thing down. It's been a farce.