Beautiful blue skies and breezy at the moment
Shut Up And Dance - Walk On The Moon
Chocolate frosty and salty French fries....I love dipping them in the frosty ;)
Was it you wearing a disguise?
Two weeks!? How did you survive?
How did you get under my bed?
Then, who is hiding under my bed?
I am daring you to do something positive!
Not sure, do you want to ask a question?
When you give someone the opportunity to talk and clear the air, and they choose to keep silent and trash you instead. What makes me happy? When you give someone the opportunity to talk and clear the air, and they are mature enough to handle that conversation, and you are able to move on.
Before passing judgment, know both sides of the story. If you have an issue with me, there's something called, email. Use it and don't hide behind your keyboard.
My dad always said, boys will always be interested in trying to get into your pants. Respect yourself and never give in until you are mature enough to understand what you are doing, and you are doing it because you want to. If you respect yourself, they will respect you.
I didn't take that step until I was ready, and it was my choice, and not someone whispering in my ear, "if you love me, you would sleep with me". After I lost my virginity, I stayed with my boyfriend for a while, but we were young, and we both knew it wasn't a life changing relationship. I did, however, choose not to sleep around, and made it clear to the ones that followed that I wasn't going there with just anyone.
There are many men, and women, who are not interested in anything other than just a quickie, and that's fine. If you want a deeper relationship, you will have to invest your time, and heart, and there's no guarantee that your heart will not be broken. Even perfect relationships have imperfect moments. Relationships fall apart for many reasons, but it's how you handle the deterioration of the relationship that might save it, and, your heart.
Perhaps your focus should be on not sleeping with the next guy you date, but to try and develop a deeper connection/relationship with him before taking that step. If your fear is that he will leave because you won't sleep with him, let him go. Someone who deserves you will come along, and that's the one who deserves your time, and your heart.
I've been in love many times, and I've gotten my heart broken many times. The two loves of my life were the ones who really shattered my heart. You always say, there's no way I'm falling in love again. Why torture yourself with such pain? In time, the pain of your breakup subsides, your heart doesn't hurt as much, and you allow yourself to feel again. We are human and need to feel love and affection.
Don't let the fear of heartbreak prevent you from opening up, and giving your heart away. Try, and if you fail, try again.
I wish you well.
"If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy. Dale Carnegie"
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