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Leesi
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 155
United States
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If you are hungry, have no money, steal a loaf of bread, it's stealing, even if the justification is that you were hungry. If you go outside your marriage/relationship, it's cheating, and I completely understand your situation and why you are considering it. I used to be very black and white about things because of how I was raised. You do not divorce, you do not cheat, you don't do this, or that, but as I've gotten older, I've learned to accept there are gray areas.
If you choose to go ahead with this affair, you have a lot of things to consider, to talk about, to decide.
Is it strictly based on sex because that's what you're missing or are you falling in love or feeling a deeper connection with this woman?
Would you consider leaving your marriage for her?
If you are caught, will you apologize to your wife, leave the woman behind and stay in your marriage?
Will your wife forgive you?
What will she do if she's caught? How will she handle it?
Are you worried about how family and friends will react to the affair?
Is it cheating? Yes Can you justify it? Yes People join Lush without their spouses/SO's knowing they are here, so what do we call what they are doing? Isn't that a form of cheating as well because it's a secret? Is there guilt and remorse because you know what you are doing is wrong? YES! We are all guilty of doing something we know we shouldn't be doing. When it comes time to pay the consequences, it will be between you, your spouse, and God. Just think it through and also know that it can go wrong and cause you and everyone involved immense heartache.
I wish you well.
If you choose to go ahead with this affair, you have a lot of things to consider, to talk about, to decide.
Is it strictly based on sex because that's what you're missing or are you falling in love or feeling a deeper connection with this woman?
Would you consider leaving your marriage for her?
If you are caught, will you apologize to your wife, leave the woman behind and stay in your marriage?
Will your wife forgive you?
What will she do if she's caught? How will she handle it?
Are you worried about how family and friends will react to the affair?
Is it cheating? Yes Can you justify it? Yes People join Lush without their spouses/SO's knowing they are here, so what do we call what they are doing? Isn't that a form of cheating as well because it's a secret? Is there guilt and remorse because you know what you are doing is wrong? YES! We are all guilty of doing something we know we shouldn't be doing. When it comes time to pay the consequences, it will be between you, your spouse, and God. Just think it through and also know that it can go wrong and cause you and everyone involved immense heartache.
I wish you well.
