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Leesi
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 155
United States
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Quote by mrd82
i hear a lot of me in what you're saying, and the truth is "you need confidence" is both completely true and completely frustrating. it's true because a lack of confidence in yourself is a turn off to others, but it's frustrating because of course you can't just simply say "oh i'll have some confidence" and you magically have it.
it seems to me you get confidence by degrees. start by not defining yourself by your insecurities. you're a virgin at 24? fine. i was a virgin at 29. you're not the first or the last, so don't beat yourself up over it.
next, develop a positive outlook. yes, online dating can be a pain in the ass, but you know what? you're in the MOST POPULOUS CITY IN CANADA. it's not like you live in a town of 200 people. there are opportunities there, i guarantee it.
finally, talk to people here. being able to talk to women here doesn't automatically mean you can do it in real life, but believe it or not it does help.
you can do it. giving up at 24 is absurd. i know it feels hopeless sometimes but it isn't.
mrd, I have such respect for you and I think you've given him excellent advice!!! Lots of great advice from everyone here, take some of it and put it to good use. Good luck.
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Quote by MovingOn14
Totally guilty. Fogged windows, cop shining his flashlight into the car, etc.
Ever make out with a pool lifeguard?
This made me laugh so hard when I read it, been there too.
Guilty about the lifeguard.
Have you ever kissed someone of the same sex?
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It depends on the relationship and how deep a connection you had with someone. There are two former loves that despite being extremely hurt by how those relationships ended, I still love, but would never enter into a relationship with them again. The "in love" part is gone and I would never be able to recapture that feeling again. It's OK to still love someone who was once such a big part of your life. Now, my ex-husband? That's a different story. I will hate him until the day I die.
