Anything is good so long as the guy is REALLY INTO IT. Not just a bit of casual licking, I mean really animal want to swallow the whole damn thing type of sucking. The best for me is when the guy puts his whole mouth over it sideways and sucks the whole labia into his mouth. The amount of tongue work that can go on then? Bliss!
It sounds to me that you're apprehensive about it hurting and tensing up which makes you tighter. I would practice on yourself as often as possible. Buy a vibe or dildo and a big tube of lube. Learn to move it in and around at your own pace and pleasure. You will stretch the muscles and learn to relax on it. Or try this exercise. Put both forefingers in and pull sideways away from each other, and then hold it while you breath deeply and concentrate on relaxing your muscles down there. You should feel loose in the pelvis. Bearing down; a pushing outwards from the vagina feeling, can also help while you're doing this. When you're able to do yourself pretty easy, you'll likely not worry about taking him in.
Most important thing I've been told by guys is...let him finish! That is, don't stop sucking until he's finished cumming and is starting to go soft. This requires swallowing to do it properly so practice that first, you won't die. Apparently there's no bigger turnoff than having his cock pushed away while he's blowing, or you gagging and barfing when he squirts in your mouth.
Have had lots of experience with Viagra use in the swinging scene.
It is not an instant erection medication as suggested in Dani's post above. All Viagra does is allow the blood flow into the penis more easily, so that when it is stimulated it can become erect. It is definitely not an instant boner. You still need to play with the cock /man to stimulate it to erection.
There are other drugs that create the fairly instant erection but these are injected into the side of the penis. It is very effective and an erection lasts a couple of hours, even after the guy has cum, even multiple times. It subsides only slightly and then gets hard again really quickly. Great for use in the orgy / group sex parties. But you need a Doctors prescription as it's for the treatment of erectile dysfunction.
Have tried Viagra myself as a 'why not give it a go', but didn't make any difference that I could discern. It gave me a headache behind the eyes though, which is a common side effect of the drug apparently. Switches out the lights on sex pretty quickly.
Yes. Never tire of the feeling of it.
Yes. Guilty. Not a clever thing to do these days. Generally frowned upon, starts office gossip etc. Exciting though and very convenient, at least until it goes sour. Better to be a one night stand and only if you can trust the other person to keep their mouth shut at work.
When I first got into regular swinging, the anticipation of all those cocks used to get me so horny when I was getting ready to go, that I'd often have to rub one out on the bathroom floor to keep my sanity for another hour or so.
Oohhh...yes. Two things here. Who's doing it to you and do they know what they're doing? It took me lots of other use of my lady bit before I could do it. Kind of a progress thing because it needs to be 'conditioned' for it. Also, the person needs to be intuitive and have a good understanding of how the vag works to know when it's ready to take it. Smaller hands help. The key for me is high level of arousal for a long time. Very strong orgasms from the extra stimulation of the G spot. Fist in, tongue working my clit; heaven. Up my arse? Never! Dick size is as big as it gets there.
Damn! Of all the things I've had up my cunt, I never thought of ginger. A wasted life........
Ha. Depends who it's with. Umm...push him off to let another one in usually.
My wholehearted support. It is a disgusting, barbaric practice that subjugates girls to the power and brutality of men. The fact that their mothers are complicit organisers of this crime makes them criminals against humanity that should be executed. It is totally revolting, torture and spells hatred of women. These Neanderthals (we know who they are) need to burn their "Book" and join the 21st century. The Governments around the civilised world need to have the balls to criminalise this practice and jail the parents, uncles, aunties etc that arrange it. Any doctors that perform it should be jailed for their life.
I'm not a size queen. It's the man package, not his package. I've assessed a man before I've seen his cock, and it is what it is. The only times that size has come into it has been with MMF threesomes for double penetration when long cocks are an advantage and can make the difference between it working or not working. At least one guy needs a long cock, but otherwise, I'll make do.
I'm not a size queen. It's the man package, not his package. I've assessed a man before I've seen his cock, and it is what it is. The only times that size has come into it has been with MMF threesomes for double penetration when long cocks are an advantage and can make the difference between it working or not working. At least one guy needs a long cock, but otherwise, I'll make do.
Yes, it's nice. And hot. And educational. Somehow I always end up getting in on the act, even if it's just to finish off on me. Seems such a waste to spray it on their own stomach. Sigh.....how much cum is wasted every day in boys bedrooms around the world?
I couldn't count. Seriously, I've had more one night stands in one night than some girls have in their lifetime. Just my thing, but not others.
Absolutely. I expect it, so like to return it. Cleanliness is the key. That's why they invented hand showers AND SOAP!
Look at my profile pictures.
Licked YES! Fucked hard if I'm in the really horny space.
Yep. It's open for business. A thumb up my arse while I'm being licked please.
Donated undies have been a major expense over the years. Guys are definitely trophy hunters. Some ask; some just steal. Have gone home without them so many times just because 'they got lost'. Who'd 'a thought?
Always been a swallower. Why don't you try it yourself so you know what it's like?
The less hair the better. I hate them getting stuck in my throat and I love licking balls. So bald balls is best. I like tongueing arse but not if it's too hairy.
It is so erotic when a man cums in me, pulls out, licks his cum from my pussy and then puts a tongue full of his cum in my mouth while kissing me. Oh Lord, fuck me again or call someone else in.
Everything Dani said; Plus: if your toilet times are regular, best avoid trying it around then because you will feel like you want to shit yourself, and possibly will when he pulls out. A definite worry and turn off for relaxing and enjoying. You can't enjoy anal play with a full bowel. Don't try it with anyone else before you've done yourself a few times and remember, a cock is a hell of a lot bigger than your finger, so practice with a dildo. The inside of your arse is dry. The rectum liner is very delicate and does not lubricate itself, so HEAPS of lube is the key. Get it right up there, not just a dab on your arse. It's cheap, but your bum isn't. Well worth the practice though. Enjoy.
Have my husband hold it while I pushed it into another woman. Like I do with him.
Preferably not, but a realist also. I swing a lot and condoms are the norm in that social sex scene. I have been guilty of throwing caution to the wind and having a bareback slipped into me while 'in the moment'. I prefer the group sex where we know the people and all go bareback. Love being natural. Love cum. People who swing are generally very health conscious as well.
I, hereby state..." I honestly like to give blow jobs". Lots of them. Love everything about it. The feel, the thought, the taste of the cum and swirling the texture around my mouth...mmmmmm. I think it's because it was my first real sexual experience.
