I forgot to add; I've basically been doing, I guess you could call it nano fiction, on twitter, leavimg enough room for a tag or three.

Since for the longest I wrote everything under one name, and I just came up with this one for all the future smut like stuff, I got a lot of work ahead of me. Luckily there's a few things I had started years ago, and an idea or three, that'll live on under this name, since I'm ceasing writing anymore of this under my other name. Sucks because I could repost some of it under this one, but I don't want the connection.
I'm finishing up a story where a guy is after the girl next door and gets the mom instead, and a noncon. I have some ideas, that might end up for the market.
Excluding all the stereotype, hee hee ha ha bullshit, niether are more complicated, just complicated in different ways. People are complicated and for various reasons, we don't make it easier for one another. These traits that seem to be "exclusive" to one gender or the other, can be found in the other. It seems we just can't get on the same accord, especially with outside influences, like social politics and the hedgemony being in the way.
As much as I do like sex and food, I need more than just sex and food to be happy. From my experiences, if I'm not the one initiating sex, or cooking, I'm not getting either, anyway.
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Storyboard it. I do this to keep track of larger works. Even if they aren’t presented chronologically I have a paper with very basic details the major or minor points I feel are important listed in the order they happen.
Sometimes I’ll do smaller story boards for certain parts that get a little more advanced. Example is my largest project I’m working on is takes place in early 1700’s France. The undergarments and dresses are normally layered and tricky to get on and off. For the first love scene I blocked out in unadorned fashion what happens in the scene. When does the dress come off, the shape wear, the undergarments… this helped when I was writing because I could ask questions like ‘how naked is the character in this moment?’ I had that a nipple was licked here but it’s still trapped in the stays, how do I change this to make it work?
So pretty much what I was saying, despite going off on a tangent. lol.
It be like that sometimes. Even professional writers have these feelings. Steven King has books he doesn't like, one being Maximum Overdrive, I think, but people love it and the movie is a cult classic. The way I see it; regardless of why you write and how you feel, it's success is truely determined by the sudience, like any song, movie, comedian, tv show, these things are media and you feeling something is absolute trash or a masterpiece has nothing to do with what the audience feels about it and they're the ones that are the real judges of it and majority wins in popularity contest. That's something we see everywhere in everything, media audience driven, or otherwise. I have stories I don't like and I see that there are people that like them. I'm happy somebody does, it means it's not an utter failure.
Write it all down in a notebook. It doesn't hafta be the actual story, but a synopsis of what each chapter, or whatever important points are about. Doesn't even need to be in order, just get it all out on paper, so it can be sorted out when it's time to actually write it. That's what I do, although for a different reason, I do it when I'm already writing too many things and this new thing won't give me peace to work on what I already am, so I write it down to get it out of my head and not forget it. It also lets you see how viable it is to actually write. I had an idea once, that I wrote down and after reading it well later, found it just wasn't going to work, like I thought when fantasizing about it.
Why not both? It would be nice to make enough money to maybe keep a bill or two paid, get a car, or keep insurance on it, or just have a bit of extra money to save. And being niche for whatever reason keeps that going, able to be invited to things, granted I could go, would be nice. I don't expect to be rich from any of this, but being well known and making a bit of money sounds nice.
So far... with all the mods and such, in my experience, the wait times have been no different than those on Literotica, which is a bigger, older site, with one person reviewing submissions. So there's that. My accounts free, however. I don't have the money, or see the reason to basically pay for faster publishing, or any of the other inane things trapped behind the paywall.
When it comes to men crying, social convention dictates too many narrow parameters, and that's bullshit to me. The problem is the hedgemony and various people who don't care, even if they say they do. All these standards lead to men suffering mentally. I remember the last time I broke down; it was a series of events that caused a mental cataclysm. The time before that it was a resurfacing memory of a woman I fell in love with, who tragically died before I could even express it. At the vigil, her mom and brother had told me she had talked about me, how much, I don't know, but it had to be significant.
It's a fountain pen. Or it might be an ink pen that looks like a fountain pen, that looks like a quill. Hard to tell in the Etsy pictures, but I'm hoping it is a fountain pen, which is kinda the closest to what I was looking for on the terms of a mystical or magical pen that'd be used by a god[dess] to scribe the stories, creating myths and legends. A rather theme to go with my pen name; Min Kamadeva Babalon.
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I think I usually come up with one during or after writing. A few I may have had a title in mind before writing. Sometimes I title chapters and may either think of one the same as above, or well after written it and before I upload the chapter, then I go back in the file and add it.
This.