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Mazza
4 weeks ago
Straight Female, 55
0 miles · Lanark
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Mazztastic
I don't like it if he's too rough. I mean, my clit can get a bit sensitive and constant rubbing can be too much...
If he wants me to come, he needs to concentrate more on the base of my clit... He'll know when he's found the right spot, as my body will be arching and writhing and my legs will be clamped right around his shoulders, heels digging in, urging him on...
If he happens to talk while he's doing it, the vibration can be super arousing...
Pushing in a finger or two as he does it, telling me how much he wants to taste me come, that I'm beautiful... That sort of thing helps...
I love the feeling of his shoulders holding my legs open...
There's also something hugely arousing when he lifts his face a little and I can see his chin glistening with my juices...
Oh, one thing I don't like is if his stubble is sharp! If he has sharp stubble then he's going to have to be a bit gentle...
If he wants me to come, he needs to concentrate more on the base of my clit... He'll know when he's found the right spot, as my body will be arching and writhing and my legs will be clamped right around his shoulders, heels digging in, urging him on...
If he happens to talk while he's doing it, the vibration can be super arousing...
Pushing in a finger or two as he does it, telling me how much he wants to taste me come, that I'm beautiful... That sort of thing helps...
I love the feeling of his shoulders holding my legs open...
There's also something hugely arousing when he lifts his face a little and I can see his chin glistening with my juices...
Oh, one thing I don't like is if his stubble is sharp! If he has sharp stubble then he's going to have to be a bit gentle...
Mazztastic
I have to say that I love to pleasure my partner this way...
As I kiss my way down his chest, stopping to find his nipples with my fingers as I kiss the coarse hair on his belly, my hand will find his cock and I'll gently stroke as my mouth finds him... I love the way his eyes widen and how fucking excited he gets at the thought of me taking him in my mouth.
I'll kiss and lick his shaft, then his balls, maybe suck them into my mouth as my hand tightens around him, stroking as I open my mouth and take him in, feeling him stiffen, his hips lifting involuntarily as I let him push in deeper, tasting his salty precum on the back of my tongue...
My hand will work his shaft as my mouth works his head, tongue exploring, caressing, tasting...
Sometimes, I'll keep going like this, until he comes into my mouth or onto his belly...
Other times I'll sit up then lean back down, pushing my breasts together, loving the expression on his face as he fucks my tits...
I don't mind swallowing, but you know, I think I prefer being able to watch the jets of come as they land on his belly and his look of complete abandon...
God, I love it...
As I kiss my way down his chest, stopping to find his nipples with my fingers as I kiss the coarse hair on his belly, my hand will find his cock and I'll gently stroke as my mouth finds him... I love the way his eyes widen and how fucking excited he gets at the thought of me taking him in my mouth.
I'll kiss and lick his shaft, then his balls, maybe suck them into my mouth as my hand tightens around him, stroking as I open my mouth and take him in, feeling him stiffen, his hips lifting involuntarily as I let him push in deeper, tasting his salty precum on the back of my tongue...
My hand will work his shaft as my mouth works his head, tongue exploring, caressing, tasting...
Sometimes, I'll keep going like this, until he comes into my mouth or onto his belly...
Other times I'll sit up then lean back down, pushing my breasts together, loving the expression on his face as he fucks my tits...
I don't mind swallowing, but you know, I think I prefer being able to watch the jets of come as they land on his belly and his look of complete abandon...
God, I love it...
Mazztastic
Quote by clum
Thanks for this, CD. I'm not expecting to find the solution to my "problems" in a Lush Forum; I'm just hoping to be able to take away enough from some of the comments to be able to take at least one positive step forward. I value highly the experience and advice of many Lush members but, naturally, this is something I ultimately have to figure out for myself. You're all wonderful for even taking the time to read this thread.
She would understand and I think you're probably right - I need to talk to her about where I'm at. I think I'll get Christmas out of the way first...
You have friends here, same as anywhere else, C... We're not here to blow smoke up your ass and the comments you've gotten so far, as far as I can see are genuine and helpful (that's because we care about you as the person we've come to know)
I think that after Christmas, if you can talk to her and explain how you feel/are struggling still with the situation, I reckon that the two of you will be able to work things out to a point where you're both comfortable.
You obviously can't cut her out of your life, that would make things worse for everyone by the sounds of it; you, her and the group of friends and fellow students you spend time with, but maybe a little distance of the more personal kind would afford you the space to collect your own feelings, become grounded again (because goodness knows, affairs of the heart do have a way of bringing out both the best and worst in us).
One thing I would like to say though... Do be very mindful of this other, new girl, if you're still dating her. Please be careful with her feelings if you're still emotionally tied to your ex. It's very easy to hurt someone unwittingly in a situation like this. Be honest with her, don't lead her on or let her think that there's a chance for more... It's easily done, but also easily avoided...
Practice your meditations, find ways to nurture yourself at this time. You know yourself that you'll feel better with a quiet mind and more able to know what you want, need and also to deal with more stressful stuff...
I wish you well and please do keep us posted...
(I would have a cider with you, but I'm not allowed... Oh fuck it, it's Christmas!)
Mazztastic
Quote by crazydiamond
Hey! my "Massage" functions have never worked , where's my happy fingers liar!!! hahahahaha
That's not what you told me last night!!!
As a matter of interest, I keep getting rogue black boxes. They aren't from anyone and they seem to just pop up as I refresh a page and they say something along the lines of: ERROR, malfunction ERROR
or something like that...
Weird...
I'm loving the virtual arms which come out of the laptop screen and massage my temples, shoulders and boobs though... That is my favourite function of all...
(This is what it feels like)
Thanks Gav!!!
Mazztastic
Quote by overmykneenow
Right so she still gets to be friends with you but she doesn't have to do all the relationship rubbish and she sure as hell doesn't go through the whole sleeping with you stuff. Good for her.
Sucks to be you, however.
Seriously, she's taking you for a ride - and not the good type. Put some distance between the two of you, you pretty much already realise that she's no good to be around. If she's texting you or asking to meet up - it's just attention seeking. Avoid it.
I'm in full agreement with DD - get some rebound sex in - nothing heavy.
I agree, C; DD and OMKN have said it best...
Time, distance and distraction are probably what's best for you right now...
I agree that less/no contact would make it easier for you to move on, get some perspective, because while you still have a close relationship with her, I don't think it will be easy to do that. It will just perpetuate the feelings of hope, loss, regret etc...
You'll always notice things that will remind you of her; songs on the radio, things that you see which you'd normally share with her, times of year.. all the usual stuff...
You need space now, to get your own feelings in order, perhaps even to grieve, process and let go.
Perhaps once you've been able to do that, you'll be able to pick up a relationship with her? Perhaps you won't want to or maybe she won't. I think though, without taking a break from it, you won't be able to get to that good place...
Go have fun, get your end away! It gets easier, the more you do to fill the gap.
Good luck! xxx
Mazztastic
Quote by clum
What if you have no regrets because you recognise that even the things you could have done/said "better" were sources for your own growth and development as a human being? If we learn something from every mistake we make (and cause no one any real harm) then why should we have regrets?
Besides, regrets are all about looking back. Let's look forward and ask, "What can I do better next year? How can I avoid making the same mistakes?"
So instead of saying, "I regret having not studied as much as I should have this year," I'll say, "I'm going to study more next year."
I like this way of looking at it Clum...
Thanks for the thread OMKN
