When I am on top - it doesn't matter - they are both extremely pleasurable.
Being female I dont have one.
However-----my boyfriends do and we have a girlfriend who is a nurse and she occasionally gives the guys a prostate massage and they rather amused by the lack of control that occurs. They have a discharge which they can not control. It isn't an ejaculation that they normally have in conjunction with an orgasm but it is different to cum.
They have had anal sex which they say was an experience but not one they enjoyed and did not stimulate the prostate.
The male doctors prostate examination during their annual medical does not cause any discomfort only embarrassment.
I could in no way be monogamous. I began to enjoyed sex with many boys at a very early age. I was 16 when I experienced my same sex relationship. and enjoyed the experience and I have never regressed.
Our FWB (3M3F) group was established by myself and my girlfriend a couple of years ago following many unsuccessful attempts to get people willing to share the pleasure of sex without becoming possessive. This arrangement has been working without any problems since. All of us have agreed that we can enjoy the pleasure with others outside the group providing we advise everybody else that we have and the circumstances. Two of our group have found they can live as a couple and still enjoy the experience within our group and continue to do so without fear or favor.
We have FWB group and we enjoy having sex with one another and it does not bother us if one or another of the group is there and can see us. More often than not the others are involved and swapping is quite normal after we have enjoyed one partner.
I wont say that we actively watch another couple specifically but as we are often all together the opportunity does arise and happens. Nobody gets upset about us being visible.
It will be up to you to make the first move I believe. Next time you are close and alone raise the subject of no longer having her husband to satisfy her sexual needs. She obviously has a 'need' to use her toy and to mention it to you. The upgrade could be to enjoy the better than a toy YOU have. Convince her it would be better than anything else she could upgrade to.
Then there is your wife to consider - would she be happy if you began to provide the male comfort your friend desires even in a friendly recreational way. There is always the chance your wife may agree to your casual affair or maybe join in with you. That is going to be the hard part sowing that seed in her mind..
Lets know how things work out - or 'in' as the case may be.
He knows better than to even try - That is not for me.
Would you or have you masturbated in front of your boyfriend or husband for their entertainment?
I often masturbate with my partner (female) and my boyfriends. Not for entertainment but for mutual pleasure.
How about a stranger?
Not my scene.
How about another female?
No problems providing she is known to me and would not be offended.
No. Not that I haven't been asked.
A few years back I did provided some advice for the daughter of a friend. We then allowed her to see my boyfriend and I enjoying sex together, but didn't involve her in the physical experience..
It happens from time to time but we dont usually try for it. If we coincide it does add a certain pleasure to the experience. We both enjoy our own time but it doesn't normally trigger a similar response.
Probably the most frequent time we both cum together would be a 69 with my girlfriend.
I have had a variety of time periods. the quickest was the moment his cock touched my lips and he came before he even got the head in. His second attempt lasted only a minute or two.
The longest has been about 40 minutes before he came. I was a bit sore after that one. There may have been longer ones but they would have been too long ago to remember and obviously not memorable.
My preferred period is between 10 and 15 minutes, 20 at most. In that time I can cum at least twice. The second+ time with him, I am well lubricated and I lay back and we just enjoy ourselves. If he is taking a bit longer than I am liking I have my ways and means to bring him on. Rarely do I need to prolong him but I have done so in the past when I want it to last longer.
It is years since I had a guy use a condom with me - to me it made no difference. Most seem to be able to fill it without much problem in a reasonable time of about 10/15 minutes.
In my past I have occasionally had expectations and on more than one occasion - a dissapointment.
I have never let a guy go as long as HE wants to so I have no idea how long it is possible. I always bring it to a climax once I feel I have had enough.
For me being outdoors naked in the Australian sunny country side and enjoying an uninhibited sexual affair with one of my FWB partners in the sunshine. That has to be the ultimate turn on and best fun for me with only the birds and bees watching us or maybe a Kangaroo . It also improves my all-over tan.
Then a dip in the creek (cold) to revitalise "everything" - and gets my nipples as hard as rocks.
In my youth I have frequently been fucked over the boot (trunk) of a car in a car park at the Golden Arches- KFC or supermarket. Sure it's been at night but there were always other cars and people about.
I have done it on balconies and it would have been possible to see us but I could never tell if we were.
I love it - and particularly in the surf.
At pool parties I never have a problem skinny dipping and am usually the first one in.
The guys usually follow and then then many girls will go topless and remove their bottom bit in the pool emerging later totally naked and unashamed - and join the crowd.
I have never had this problem due to wetness - and I can get quite wet. I think he is inexperienced, over enthusiastic or has a short cock.
Lubrication of anything will reduce friction but I can cum reasonably easily even after he has cum once and is back for seconds.
My name is Megan and as a teenager I was usually referred to as Meggsy.
When I joined Lush Megan was already registered so I just used my teen age name. Nobody refers to me a Meggsy anymore though.
To me I believe size DOES NOT matter. Its the way he/we use it.
I would say my longest was about 9+ inches. I didn't enjoy it as he pounded my cervix and made me sore.
Thickness is the best measure of pleasure to me. I can feel most going in but a really thick one really feels great. I usually make a habit of watching him insert it if we are in the missionary position and that gives me two levels of pleasure.
Very short ones have also given me a great deal of pleasure as the guy is aware of the lack of length and makes sure he uses it to the best of his ability. Being on top is a real treat then, as I have to use a completely different action. I rarely fail to cum on a 3-4 inch one as it hits the spot every time.
Ejaculation is different thing. Obviously I am aware that he is cumming from the sounds and actions he is engaged in. Usually after the first couple of spurts I can feel the difference in the moisture level and enjoy it for as long as he can maintain it. I have never 'felt' the spurt internally but orally I have.
Yes- In Kalgoorlie Western Australia they have tours of the brothels there. I have toured twice but neither time was a male in the tour. Women seem to be fascinated with the experience.
On one occasion the tour leader - a madam - mentioned some days they make more money from tourists than from customers.
It was a very interesting experience with various "theme" rooms extremely well appointed.
My guys trim and keep their hair short. Their balls are always shaved bare. Thats the way we like it. Mine is a wide strip.
The reaction can vary however the G spot is certainly more vigorous and my whole body shivers and shakes and my thighs will clamp the stimulating device be it fingers or a toy. Depending upon the position I am in I can sit straight up as my tummy muscles contract with the intensity of their fingers.
Vaginally it is less intensive but still extremely enjoyable and as with the G spot I shiver and shake and buck a little. Again the position can determine the intensity.
Orally is clitoral and that is probably the most intensive and enjoyable depending upon how sensitive they have made my clit during their arousal of me.
My most intensive and prolonged orgasm is a combination of all I think when I am on a Sybian. My whole body becomes completely overwhelmed from the tip of my head to my toes. Once I begin to cum I cant help myself and dont want it to stop and I have been close to passing out with the intensity of the pleasure. My pussy tingles for an hour or so after that.
For me it is usually two and occasionally three before he cums.
Whenever the mood is there - often for me.
Lets say it has three figures in it and the first one is not ..1.
Lets say businesswoman by day - with no evidence of my desire to achieve what I do with my lovers at night.
I quite enjoy tarts - the edible kind.
To be called a tart is certainly uncomplementary. If your definition is correct ie if a girl likes sex she is a tart - then I am a tart before during and after sex, but if you want sex from me you had better not refer to me as a tart.
Oh the term " Grub" seems to be the male equivalent.
I prefer his penis in my vagina so it would not fuck my brains out unless he managed to get it through my ear.
I had been masturbating and had introduced things into my vagina before I actually had sex with a male. Sharing my virginity with the boy was exciting but completely painless and no physical discomfort at all. It was one of the best days of my life.
I vaguely remember the day I broke my hymen masturbating, it scared me as I began to bleed and thought I had done some damage internally. I cant remember there being any noticeable pain and the blood stopped quickly and there was hardly a flow. No more than an average male ejaculation flowing back.
After I had recounted my experience with another girl I was reassured that what I had done was only spoil it for a later and more exciting time, and denied the boy the satisfaction of seeing the virgins blood on his penis.
All but the cupboard.
If I were THAT horny - masturbate.
No married - never will be. Openly Bi.
All the members our FWB group are Bi so the guys and Gals all are comfortable entertaining each other.