Are “Followers” still notified of a story that is published. I have noticed a big drop off of readers after my story moves off the recent publications. (Page1 etc)
In the past I was getting comments up to weeks later which indicated some followers were reading well past the published date.
This subject is raised often. From my point of view -No.
There has to be a consideration though. Providing the older person is not coercing/pressuring the younger one into the relationship. If it’s the other way around then I don’t see a problem. I have a situation where I do have a relationship with a much older man as a casual affair. He is a widower and I knew his wife (deceased) and we both agree she would be happy for him to do as we do. I am prepared to give him satisfaction and he appreciates it. I initiate each affair and he is more than happy with the frequency.
It’s not quite a thing of the past but at this time any affair I desire would include my partner. It therefore would be a foursome with another couple. The suggestion is not something you come straight out with, it takes a little bit of teasing , before you can determine if the other couple are interested. The discussions are always interesting and usually develop after the other couple realise we are only FWB and not partners in a permanent sense. The bait is set and depending on how hard they bite determines if the discussion is worth continuing.We have managed two successful partnerships in the past couple of years. Both were enjoyable and only lasted for the weekend.
Does it matter? I dont think so.
If you are both happy to enjoy the relationship then do not hesitate.
I have only had a couple of relationships with much older men - my first older guy was 40 years was older and it was amazing. I was a teen.
Many years later and he was much older again, it was wonderful.
What you wrote is a ‘story’ of a relationship that possibly could be true in some place or other, never the less a story.
Unfortunately ‘social media’ has spawned a group of these Fuckwits. He didn’t have the guts to continue the discussion obviously as you imply a misguided youth.
Forget him and keep writing.
As a nude model I worked for a professional photographer for two years frequently in public view. I had no problems but we did need security in places to avoid a few onlooking ‘prudish’ cranks and overexcited males. No doubt there were some sneaky shots on phone camera’s etc. I would also pose for a stranger if requested provided the posting was tasteful - not porn. I ‘retired’ from profession some years ago due to age etc.
I use nudist beaches so nudity is natural for me.
My experience at nudist beaches is if a guy gets a hard on he is very quickly told to cover it.
Erections and sex displays at nudist beaches are not generally tolerated. It is years since I saw one - teenagers who did not realise nudist beaches are not for the sexually promiscuous. Many of our beaches are family oriented with children and enjoyed by all. Some are mainly gay men who behave themselves - or they are told to leave.
Most people at our beaches are there for the pleasure of being nude and swimming, not sex.
If there is any problem it’s quickly stopped as the authorities will remove the clothing optional status given a chance. Our beaches are self controlled by the regulars as they do not want problems.
If paulfromma were to be seen parading at our beaches he would be thrown off or the cops called. The water police would be there in minutes.
For me there is no sexual arousal in doing so. Probably because I have been doing it for most of my life. My girlfriend and I regularly do the maintenance on each other and very occasionally we may test the smoothness with a lick or two.
Probably the most erotic part of the process is looking in the mirror at your or your friends handiwork if you have decided to change the pattern.
Many many times. As a teen I was always the first one in naked at pool parties followed by topless girls who emerged naked. The boys at the time usually disgracing themselves.
Since then I have and still enjoy a nude party where it is interesting to watch the first timers and the reactions. Outdoor parties are by far the best where there us space to mingle and enjoy the fresh air over your body.
The most common comment - why did we leave it so long to start.
I was giving him what he wanted as we drove the motorway and both enjoying it.
A coupe with the top off, the wind blowing my hair while I blew something else.
My bum in the air and his lollypop in my mouth.
He had slowed a little to make sure that something that was imminent didn't happen at 110kph,
We were overtaken by a busload of young guys with their noses pressed hard against the glass, cheering us on.
I didn't lose contact but managed to wave to them as they gradually passed us.
If they had been two minutes later they would have seen nothing was spilt or wasted.
It was not the first time and won't be the last one either.
Feelings on being seen naked: All my life I have engaged in nudity and have no shame in exposing my body - but unless you are invited - keep your hands to yourself. I patronise nudist beaches and as a teen was always the first one into the party pool naked. Girls followed topless and emerged naked. Boys usually had difficulty controlling themselves but soon learned by bitter experience and humiliation there was nothing sexual about public nudity in itself. I worked as a nude model for two years exposing myself in some very public places to be photographed naked. I never experienced any problems - but there was the photographer's crew as protection.
Others seeing him nude: If they are not concerned then neither are we. All males are built differently and there is always some interest and curiosity. The vision is completely different to the performance. It is all in the mind - until it becomes the bed. My guys do not adorn it with jewellery as some do. Not always a pretty picture.
Comfort over him seeing other women nude: As a young teen, many guys embarrass themselves. They gain maturity very quickly after being humiliated. Once they adjust to themselves being naked in company then they begin to realise there is nothing necessarily sexual about others displaying themselves in their various ways. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I have yet to meet a man whose eyes do not take in everything a woman possesses and displays. From my experience they will comment more about how a girl appears dressed than undressed.
Men tend to make more comments about other men's equipment than women's treatment of their pubic region unless the girl is exposing something extraordinary.
Lockdown caused my girlfriend (who I live with) to work from home. I have been doing that part-time for ages In the beginning, our relationship went gangbusters and because we were so close the opportunities were there. We couldn't leave each other alone and we were enjoying the pleasure of being together sexually to the excess. After a while, we did slow it down. After a couple of weeks, we were almost back to normal - which was pretty frequent anyhow.
Things are pretty much back to normal but there are occasions where things just happen a little more than average.
I know quite a few escorts and it is not unusual for either the mother or father of the guy to arrange for their sons first experience with a professional woman. Usually the guy is in his late teens and understands the situation. The women I know treat this as an honour and ensures the guy is not embarrassed or humiliated.He is encouraged to relax and take his time and understand what is about to happen. Their aim is to get him to enjoy his experience and often has a second experience if he cums too quickly the first time. I would suggest that you make contact and discuss this with the woman and explain your situation. I am sure she will accomodate you thoughtfully and ensure that you are satisfied with what happened. This will prevent any misunderstandings that may otherwise occur.
You will then have the confidence to entertain other women in the same way and enjoy the pleasure that having sex can be.
Go for it and I hope you enjoy it. You will walk tall and proud afterwards without doubt.
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I'm not into lingerie very much. I sleep nude, have sex nude, and I pose nude for photography. So when I see something I really like, I buy it myself.
Ditto.
As a younger woman, I was often asked to give the guy my pants. I would if he would replace them with something sexy.
It was interesting and I always modelled them for him but now - I am following Beffers routine.
I am older but no wiser than you. My older gentleman is more than twice my age. Your story resonates with me and I commend you for your actions and revelations. You have a big heart.
I have written briefly in the “Age Gap Fans” section in the “Groups” section of my experience for those who may be interested.
I don’t believe age is a major factor. Like cock size it is the guy behind it that I feel provides the satisfaction I desire. I have been extremely satisfied by many guys in the 20/30 yo bracket in my early sexual years and as I have grown older moved into the 30/60 bracket and enjoy that experience as well.
In my experience the younger guys usually are more interested in their own satisfaction and performance and the older ones in my satisfaction. I won’t be discriminating - if I feel I will enjoy the experience their age will be immaterial.
I can't get my own nipple into my mouth but enjoy offering mine to anyone else.
I have achieved two nipple orgasms in my life and they are the most amazing experiences I have had. My nipples are my second and third clit.
I get so much pleasure from nipple tickle as I call it with my clothes on. I have been seen on a number of occasions giving them a little tweak when I thought nobody was watching.
I was living with my girl friend after we both had a disastrous FWB breakup. She quickly found a new ‘Friend’ and it wasn’t long before he became a FWB - he enjoyed both of us. Then he suggested a blind date for me with a good friend of his. It worked. The four of us are now a long established FWB group. They don’t live with us - long story. We now enjoy the life and times of sharing with each other and have added another couple to the group. It is a most enjoyable arrangement and never boring. Variety is the spice of life.
