My experience at nudist beaches is if a guy gets a hard on he is very quickly told to cover it.

Erections and sex displays at nudist beaches are not generally tolerated. It is years since I saw one - teenagers who did not realise nudist beaches are not for the sexually promiscuous. Many of our beaches are family oriented with children and enjoyed by all. Some are mainly gay men who behave themselves - or they are told to leave.

Most people at our beaches are there for the pleasure of being nude and swimming, not sex.

If there is any problem it’s quickly stopped as the authorities will remove the clothing optional status given a chance. Our beaches are self controlled by the regulars as they do not want problems.

If paulfromma were to be seen parading at our beaches he would be thrown off or the cops called. The water police would be there in minutes.

For me there is no sexual arousal in doing so. Probably because I have been doing it for most of my life. My girlfriend and I regularly do the maintenance on each other and very occasionally we may test the smoothness with a lick or two.

Probably the most erotic part of the process is looking in the mirror at your or your friends handiwork if you have decided to change the pattern.

Many many times. As a teen I was always the first one in naked at pool parties followed by topless girls who emerged naked. The boys at the time usually disgracing themselves.

Since then I have and still enjoy a nude party where it is interesting to watch the first timers and the reactions. Outdoor parties are by far the best where there us space to mingle and enjoy the fresh air over your body.

The most common comment - why did we leave it so long to start.

That takes me back too may years.

yes, if he started it, I finished it.

I was giving him what he wanted as we drove the motorway and both enjoying it.

A coupe with the top off, the wind blowing my hair while I blew something else.

My bum in the air and his lollypop in my mouth.

He had slowed a little to make sure that something that was imminent didn't happen at 110kph,

We were overtaken by a busload of young guys with their noses pressed hard against the glass, cheering us on.

I didn't lose contact but managed to wave to them as they gradually passed us.

If they had been two minutes later they would have seen nothing was spilt or wasted.

It was not the first time and won't be the last one either.

Feelings on being seen naked: All my life I have engaged in nudity and have no shame in exposing my body - but unless you are invited - keep your hands to yourself. I patronise nudist beaches and as a teen was always the first one into the party pool naked. Girls followed topless and emerged naked. Boys usually had difficulty controlling themselves but soon learned by bitter experience and humiliation there was nothing sexual about public nudity in itself. I worked as a nude model for two years exposing myself in some very public places to be photographed naked. I never experienced any problems - but there was the photographer's crew as protection.

Others seeing him nude: If they are not concerned then neither are we. All males are built differently and there is always some interest and curiosity. The vision is completely different to the performance. It is all in the mind - until it becomes the bed. My guys do not adorn it with jewellery as some do. Not always a pretty picture.

Comfort over him seeing other women nude: As a young teen, many guys embarrass themselves. They gain maturity very quickly after being humiliated. Once they adjust to themselves being naked in company then they begin to realise there is nothing necessarily sexual about others displaying themselves in their various ways. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I have yet to meet a man whose eyes do not take in everything a woman possesses and displays. From my experience they will comment more about how a girl appears dressed than undressed.

Men tend to make more comments about other men's equipment than women's treatment of their pubic region unless the girl is exposing something extraordinary.

FFM gets top billing by me(us) I get to be with my favourite two people. MMF is often good but never as great as FFM. Either way I get my satisfaction.

Lockdown caused my girlfriend (who I live with) to work from home. I have been doing that part-time for ages In the beginning, our relationship went gangbusters and because we were so close the opportunities were there. We couldn't leave each other alone and we were enjoying the pleasure of being together sexually to the excess. After a while, we did slow it down. After a couple of weeks, we were almost back to normal - which was pretty frequent anyhow.

Things are pretty much back to normal but there are occasions where things just happen a little more than average.

Heavy breathing, a sigh and a few well-chosen words that only my lover can hear are enough for me.

It's the feeling of release when his/her/my orgasm is the epitome of our union that gives me pleasure. - I don't need to let the world know I have cum - again.

I go for as long as I can before I cum. Some days it’s half an hour of gentle pleasure others five minutes. I would be guessing to create an average as each one depends upon my mood .

I know quite a few escorts and it is not unusual for either the mother or father of the guy to arrange for their sons first experience with a professional woman. Usually the guy is in his late teens and understands the situation. The women I know treat this as an honour and ensures the guy is not embarrassed or humiliated.He is encouraged to relax and take his time and understand what is about to happen. Their aim is to get him to enjoy his experience and often has a second experience if he cums too quickly the first time. I would suggest that you make contact and discuss this with the woman and explain your situation. I am sure she will accomodate you thoughtfully and ensure that you are satisfied with what happened. This will prevent any misunderstandings that may otherwise occur.

You will then have the confidence to entertain other women in the same way and enjoy the pleasure that having sex can be.

Go for it and I hope you enjoy it. You will walk tall and proud afterwards without doubt.

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I'm not into lingerie very much. I sleep nude, have sex nude, and I pose nude for photography. So when I see something I really like, I buy it myself.

Ditto.

As a younger woman, I was often asked to give the guy my pants. I would if he would replace them with something sexy.

It was interesting and I always modelled them for him but now - I am following Beffers routine.

I am older but no wiser than you. My older gentleman is more than twice my age. Your story resonates with me and I commend you for your actions and revelations. You have a big heart.

I have written briefly in the “Age Gap Fans” section in the “Groups” section of my experience for those who may be interested.

I don’t believe age is a major factor. Like cock size it is the guy behind it that I feel provides the satisfaction I desire. I have been extremely satisfied by many guys in the 20/30 yo bracket in my early sexual years and as I have grown older moved into the 30/60 bracket and enjoy that experience as well.

In my experience the younger guys usually are more interested in their own satisfaction and performance and the older ones in my satisfaction. I won’t be discriminating - if I feel I will enjoy the experience their age will be immaterial.

I have often fucked a closest opposite sex friend as a friend knowing that it was just a nice way to share a friendship.

I can't get my own nipple into my mouth but enjoy offering mine to anyone else.

I have achieved two nipple orgasms in my life and they are the most amazing experiences I have had. My nipples are my second and third clit.

I get so much pleasure from nipple tickle as I call it with my clothes on. I have been seen on a number of occasions giving them a little tweak when I thought nobody was watching.

Jealousy was the cause of more than one of my breakups. I am not some exclusive product for anybody. So to answer the question - Bad for me and my relationships.

Light the wick and be prepared for a BIG bang.

I was living with my girl friend after we both had a disastrous FWB breakup. She quickly found a new ‘Friend’ and it wasn’t long before he became a FWB - he enjoyed both of us. Then he suggested a blind date for me with a good friend of his. It worked. The four of us are now a long established FWB group. They don’t live with us - long story. We now enjoy the life and times of sharing with each other and have added another couple to the group. It is a most enjoyable arrangement and never boring. Variety is the spice of life.

I was at a party and I was dared to kiss another girl publicly. I had never done that before and agreed to do it just to try something different - I had no feelings for her at that time. She was obviously willing. Whilst she kissed me she began to fondle my breasts and undo my blouse/bra. The people witnessing us began to chant "strip her". I realised I had been set up (by an ex) and stopped her immediately. A little while later the girl came to me and asked if I would be prepared to continue what we had started privately. I was curious and agreed and it was then I had my first sexual experience with another girl. It was amazing.

We agreed to meet each afternoon at her place and she began to educate me in the ways girls have sex together - she was a lesbian. We met every day until the Saturday when I had sex with a guy a few hours before meeting with her. When we began, she could taste him in me and ended the relationship. By that time I had realised how much I enjoyed sex with not only guys but with women as well. I realised I was bisexual.

I now live and sleep with a woman as well as we have our FWB arrangement with our guys.

I have always enjoyed it. My introduction was somewhat unusual but the both of us got a surprise and I swallowed it without realising what it was. Following that, I did it twice more to get the full experience and taste. He didn't complain. I can't say the initial experiences were the tastiest morsels I had ever experienced, however, it wasn't unpleasant, just unusual with a weird taste. Now I do it for both the above reasons because I like it, and it pleases him and it leads to him tasting me.

That is exactly how I got started - fucking my best friend of the opposite sex.

Now I fuck my best friends' regularly - both sexes.

A friend in need is a friend indeed.

Smartarse answer - with his cock.

There are no bad ways - there are so many moods and ways that I have experienced and each deserves a different response. Long slow loving experiences to a hard and fast quickie and everything in between.

Always naked. Love it outdoors in any way.

This subject interests me as I have worked as a nude photographers model - not porn, and made a comfortable living for a few years in regular employment.

Now as a nudist who visits nude beaches in male company - rarely is any notice taken of nude bodies by other nudists unless there are extremes. Breasts, penis etc. 

Sex on nudist beaches here is not tolerated. 

In public ‘clothing optional’ venues,(mixed bathing) I have noticed that more interest is taken and comparisons made of the men’s penis than women’s breasts.  The interest in the women’s vaginal area is more related to her pubic hair treatment or prominent Labia if they can be seen - more often than not on women who are completely denuded of hair (very prevalent) or reduced to expose that region. Young teenage bare top girls do attract most attention. 

A nude very pregnant woman is more often than not seen as a woman of beauty and most other extreme aspects are ignored as breasts and areola can be larger than normal. 

The next most commented form is the figure of a woman. Overweight, firm, shapely etc. obviously her breasts will cause comment if they are on the huge side or firm with uplift and perky nipples. Often enhanced to the extreme. 

Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. Some have preferences for the extreme features others for the firm and shapely form. 

As for men it is basically their penis. Rarely is a comment heard of their body unless he is firm and usually extremely well built. Fit. The overweight, flabby and man boobs do cause some comment at times. 

I have nude modelled many years ago and although my figure has now become fuller with age  and some droop has developed etc I still attract some attention when naked in company and I have no shame in exposing myself,  but not sexually. My pubic hair is manicured to a strip which exposes my labia but rarely do I hear it commented upon unless by other women when discussing the shaping of our pubic hair. 

More often than not it is my male friends penis’s that is mentioned when I am asked to comment. Neither are anything but normal, circumcised and nothing extreme although are reasonably well endowed. Their pubic hair is trimmed and testicles hairless and can be prominent in warm conditions. Their performance is most satisfactory and again that aspect can be a topic of comment by some women as I am intimate with both as FWB. 

I would agree with the opening comment - I cannot see why nude women can be more acceptable than nude males and I can only attribute that to the size of their penis being the “attraction” and the imagination or otherwise of their erection. Possibly younger children devoid of sex education and discussion can also be a concern.

Is it possible to restore the ability to print out a story.

I prefer to print and read away from the PC screen and could do this under Lush 1.

In my earlier days and I was looking for sex - I always liked to be charmed into it. 

A request like - "Wanna fuck" got them nowhere. 

I like your comment.

I have noticed a trend toward one sentence bios recently. Previously members gave fairly comprehensive descriptions of themselves which I used to decide if I would befriend somebody. I have rejected a few lately in view of the lack of detail. I believe this is a place to self promote yourself and let other members get an idea of your personality and desires. Would it be possible to put a comment in the panel  to suggest “Be Comprehensive in you description” or request a minimum number of words. 

Mail system

I cannot send a NEW MESSAGE message via the Mail system - I keep getting a message "Input a user" when I try and send a message to anybody

Is there a problem  ? To send a message I have to go to the person profile and send it from the mail icon there.

I can reply to anybody who sends me a message.

I have managed it but it’s not easy.

I had to be highly aroused and my nipples extremely sensitive.

By touching them I managed to get so close by rubbing and squeezing my nipples and rubbing around the nipple (Areola) and squeezing my legs, stimulating my clit in doing so. It was also intense concentration Basically it was a combination of nipple and clit but it was hands free. 

I have also had one when my gf sucked, licked and bit my nipples. It was also the extreme sensation when she bit them that took me over the top. Our lower bodies were naked and rubbing, when it happened. 

Both experiences were quite exhausting. 

Our guys do. - now. 

My gf and I decided that in a MMF the guys had to suck and swallow. They were not happy believe me. We said if it was good enough for us to do it for them they needed to know what it was like. We didn't admit that we enjoy it though - as we do, and I think they realise that.

It was do it - or we stop. They were very reluctant, but they believed we were serious. They don't complain anymore and are beginning to accept it is part of our three-way. Privately my gf and I believe they are beginning to like it.