I have never been happier and like Beth my bucket is frequently overflowing.
I could say I have been there and done that, and if there is anything else to learn Lush is where I will find it.
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Meggsy
3 hours ago
Bisexual Female
Australia
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Recently I was asked how did I learn about sex.
That stopped me for a few minutes.
After thinking about it I was amazed how I did learn.
My knowledge was sparse and trial and error, and learning from experience played a major role.
Hearsay was a major but extremely confusing, and inaccurate source.
I used a library to expand my knowledge and answer many of my own concerns. Later my teacher helped me enormously.
The internet could not help in the ways it can now.
Have you ever thought about the early days and how much you DID know. It frightens me now to realise how naive I was then.
Fortunately I was introduced to oral contraception early in my sexual life and probably this contributed in some way to my extremely promiscuous experiences. I knew I was safe in one way. I also learned how to identify STI indications and I was always extremely cautious there. I have never had any infection of that type fortunately.
I have enjoyed many books about position play such as Karma Sutra and have enjoyed the experiences they can describe.
That stopped me for a few minutes.
After thinking about it I was amazed how I did learn.
My knowledge was sparse and trial and error, and learning from experience played a major role.
Hearsay was a major but extremely confusing, and inaccurate source.
I used a library to expand my knowledge and answer many of my own concerns. Later my teacher helped me enormously.
The internet could not help in the ways it can now.
Have you ever thought about the early days and how much you DID know. It frightens me now to realise how naive I was then.
Fortunately I was introduced to oral contraception early in my sexual life and probably this contributed in some way to my extremely promiscuous experiences. I knew I was safe in one way. I also learned how to identify STI indications and I was always extremely cautious there. I have never had any infection of that type fortunately.
I have enjoyed many books about position play such as Karma Sutra and have enjoyed the experiences they can describe.
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Yes often. We have a strapless strap on - Fuse Tango and it is amazing, Far better than all the straps etc.
It doesn't need all the Kegal tension and control to hold it in. One end is designed and virtually hooks in for the giver and a cock is there for the receiver.
We love it and it is often in our playtime together.
For the guys who like it from their woman its perfect.
It doesn't need all the Kegal tension and control to hold it in. One end is designed and virtually hooks in for the giver and a cock is there for the receiver.
We love it and it is often in our playtime together.
For the guys who like it from their woman its perfect.
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My first experience with another girl. That awoke in me something I had never experienced before, and it still can.
As for IT geeks - I know a few and they check the My Pictures files while they are there and they soon know if there is an opportunity, particularly if they find selfies..
As for IT geeks - I know a few and they check the My Pictures files while they are there and they soon know if there is an opportunity, particularly if they find selfies..
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I have a number of battery and plug in 'toys' that I enjoy regularly. I also have a Sybian which is a 'real machine' when it comes to machine driven fucking and orgasmic pleasures. Multiple orgasms are amazing. I dont know how Lindsey could bear to be strapped to it, that would kill me. I have to be in the mood to be able to take a long session on it. A couple of times I have gone beyond the bounds of pleasure on it and have almost passed out with the intensity of an orgasm that begins and never ends. Generally I use it with my gf and we share the pleasures and controls.
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In my teen years almost every day as I was in a boarding school. It was interesting to notice the changes in female development as the months progressed. Nothing sexual occurred there that I was aware of. There were always a teacher or senior student there to ensure nothing untoward occurred.
Now I live with my live in lover and it is not unusual for us to share the shower together. Occasionally the mood takes us and we enjoy a little bit of naughtiness under the shower which can be quite good fun.
Now I live with my live in lover and it is not unusual for us to share the shower together. Occasionally the mood takes us and we enjoy a little bit of naughtiness under the shower which can be quite good fun.
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
Is this a repeated reaction, or just the first time you offered? If its the first time, she may just not be quite ready for so close an intimacy, but if this happens every time, she has an established preference, and/or a reason for not wanting it, so don't push it, and just enjoy what you've got with her. Just last night I was with a girl who had never been with another girl before, and she was self-conscious about me wanting to go down on her. So we kissed, sucked each others nipples, and brought each other to climax with our fingers, but she said next time she thought she would be willing to try it (cunnilingus), she just needed to get used to the idea of being that intimate with another woman. So, talk about it when this objection comes up, and without pressure or judgment, find out whether she's hesitant for a temporary reason, or adamant in her preferences.
She could not have chosen a better partner to begin with.
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Providing she realised what she was doing and what was going to happen. Many girls have enjoyed their first time with another girl with me.
With a guy, I have entertained quite a few in my early days another one would not bother me. He would know a lot more than he did before we started.
With a guy, I have entertained quite a few in my early days another one would not bother me. He would know a lot more than he did before we started.
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Intelligence and performance are my criteria generally in men my own age.
After some searching and experimentation I have managed to meet three wonderful guys who meet both those criteria and display a couple more attributes as well.
I have had no experience with much older men and will leave them to women of their own age for whatever purpose.
After some searching and experimentation I have managed to meet three wonderful guys who meet both those criteria and display a couple more attributes as well.
I have had no experience with much older men and will leave them to women of their own age for whatever purpose.
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I have recently found the condition that to vote one must comment, and activated it. It may reduce the score but it is more meaningful.
I believe this is the only way a vote can be substantiated. You have to comment as well as score.
Do you like this condition or not.
Comments please.
I believe this is the only way a vote can be substantiated. You have to comment as well as score.
Do you like this condition or not.
Comments please.
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I can kiss without it becoming intimate - but is is so hard not to go to that next level.
Kissing is an essential part of foreplay and the action. I could not enjoy a good session of sexual intimacy without it.
Casual sex used to be a regular experience for me and kissing was ALWAYS a precursor. Often the way they kiss was an indication of how they made love.
Now kissing is just one of the pleasures I enjoy with my FWB and not only on the lips.
Casual sex with other than my FWB is behind me I believe , but I can still enjoy a kiss, particularly with another woman.
Kissing is an essential part of foreplay and the action. I could not enjoy a good session of sexual intimacy without it.
Casual sex used to be a regular experience for me and kissing was ALWAYS a precursor. Often the way they kiss was an indication of how they made love.
Now kissing is just one of the pleasures I enjoy with my FWB and not only on the lips.
Casual sex with other than my FWB is behind me I believe , but I can still enjoy a kiss, particularly with another woman.
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Tchaikovsky's 1812 Overture is always fun, if you want to time your climax to bells and cannons! :-)
I agree it is a great tune to use for that purpose.I enjoy the 15 minutes of build up and the Finale. I just wish I could cum in time and as frequently with the canons. I certainly can have all the bells ringing though.
My real favourite is Bolero - which is about the same length as the 1812 and I can save my climax and have them in tune with it.
