I don't use Lube a lot but I always have it handy.
I agree with Dani's comments regarding water based and petroleum based products. I used them for years - no more.
I tried the Silicon based one on recommendation of the pharmacy girl and I could kiss her. She smiled when she said it really is far better, for both the real thing and the pleasure givers (toys).
I gave it a good road test.
Even the guys like it better.
I wasn't aware of the toy problem and have had not noticed any problems so far.
I don't do anal so I wont comment there.
Girls do you keep a diary and how much personal stuff do you write in it.?
There is no Ideal time for me. If its just being together and doing what comes naturally - often, then I have enjoyed hours of pleasures with my partners(s).
Sometimes it can be a quick lick or an hour. My mood and the opportunity and the time available determines how long that I want to be pleasured.
The shortest is about 30 seconds and the longest single experience I can remember is about 40 minutes before I called time. I think the lube ran out.
For me its the person I am with that determines how long I want to enjoy the session time of being 'together', whether it be male or female.
If its just being in bed and going as often as he can - then that has been hours.
It could be five seconds, five minutes or five hours. God help you if its five days.
Badly - but I am fortunate and have a ready made supply on hand and and on call.
I don't know the answer but don't push it too hard.
Do you get around naked a lot or does she complain about that if you do?
I know of one married couple whose sex life was apparently satisfactory and she had no problems with nudity in the bedroom, and occasionally would dash from bed to bathroom naked - if the kids were in bed. Eventually the kids left home - that was more than 13 years.
Then she changed and they are now both members of our nudist community. Patience paid off there.
Many men I have done it to enjoy it.
I often use that trick to speed them up. My guys love it and they can cum pretty soon after I start doing that.
We really enjoy Kale many ways but microwaved and a bit of cheese through it is our most regular method.
I will be trying Dani's slaw it sounds great.
Believe it or not - The Australian Open tennis. Looking too.
Twice - overcum more than powerful.
I was younger, willing, sexually experienced and surprised how well I handled it. I wont say it was the most enjoyable experience I have ever had but an experience I was willing to have.
After the second event I said never again - I felt used, and I haven't.
I love a cuddle - Before - during - and particularly afterwards.
Why wouldn't you?
Over the past few years I have noticed a trend toward oral being preferred by the guys more often than in the past.
Have things changed in your experience.
I was fucked from behind (vaginally) under my skirt while looking over a balcony. It was at a party in a crowd. I have no idea who he was and believed it to be one of my male acquaintances as it was all so well done and so discretely. I was relatively sober and thought it was a friend. None of my friends ever confessed despite my attempt to find him and I assume it was a stranger who was aware I was generous.
After he came he withdrew and disappeared into the crowd quickly. I don't think anybody realised what was happening it was all very discrete. I was in the throws of an orgasm when he withdrew and took my time to turn and face him, but he was gone. I was astounded I had no idea who he was. I wished I had known and maybe returned the favour.
To this day I wish I had known who he was. I don't think it was a mistake but I will never know.
I was never keen to try it but until you do you never know.
I did and found it painful and anything put pleasurable.
After a few more requests to try it again I did it three more times and the result was the same - unpleasant and painful. One guy came in there and that was the end. I was disgusted. I decided enough was enough - no more.
I really enjoy sex and have done all my life. I don't consider that pain is a part of pleasure.
I can and do enjoy being rimmed there and up to the first joint of a finger inserted during foreplay., but nothing bigger or further.
I don't object to others doing it - that's their choice and obviously many enjoy the experience - I am not one of them.
All my FWB have tried it - some are accepting of it but it would be rare in our menu of pleasures.
Being one of 6 FWB (3M,3F - not couples) we all share and share alike.
I live with my gf and there are no closed doors in our apartment. The others visit and occasionally sleep over.
We all do what we wish with whom we wish and occasionally in company. We are all Bi. Threesomes and foursomes are enjoyed by all. Occasionally all six of us enjoy a party together.
It took a while to find the right group to accept our way of life, but we all enjoy the pleasure of each others company without any problems, both sexually and socially.
I have always sought same age + a year or two, or younger - I am not into much older men or women - yet.
Actually I believe that maturity counts more than age. A younger person M or F can be more mature in their outlook (and performance) than an older "mature" person. Not that I have had a lot of bedtime experience with the older set. My opinion is based mainly on my business associations.
I have never reached my limit.
One on one I have had about eight or nine with a guy over a couple of hours. He could maintain the performance but not the orgasmic rate. Then we ran out of time.
With my girlfriend - not sure but certainly six or more. Many multiples.
On my Sybian the sky is the limit, probably a dozen or more.
Once naked I take it from there. There is no favourite for me, it's all good.
I have all I can handle so prowling is not on my agenda.
I would say I am far more receptive to an approach from a woman than a man, but she would have to have something that interests or intrigues me to go beyond a chat.
No way.
My uniform is pants not skirt so they would have problems. when I wear a skirt/dress I also wear pants underneath.
Then, when I am at the beach they can see it all.
Executive position in International Hotel chain.
More than happy.