Does it sound like to you all that she is talking to someone else?
.....Probably - she may have found a new girlfriend who is doing what she is doing. Who did she go to the toy party with?
Maybe its a test to see if YOU are interested in a three way. I can recommend them. I prefer FFM but never reject a MMF and that appears to be her aim. Be wary of sex parties they can get a bit dangerous unless you can enjoy watching her perform with many other men. Been there done that.... but no more.
Do you think she possibly is seeing someone else which is why her sex drive and experimentation have increased?
....Not necessarily - (see above) I know mine had its ups and downs but I haven't been married - or even enjoying sex for 21 years - yet.
As she says she doesn't want you to get stale - or does she think you are ? Doing it with the kids around is a bit dangerous - are they teenagers? Not sure even I would be doing that. Kinky though.
And what do I make of her putting her dildo in my mouth and her excitement over that.
...It happens when sex takes over - I know I do and have done many unusual/exciting things while sexually intoxicated. I have never needed the funny stuff to get me high either.
You never mentioned you performing oral on her - could that be a hint she wouldn't mind a bit of tongue where it counts.
