Anal is not fun for me - I have tried twice and it was so painful I had to get him out of there. Yes we tried as much lube as was possible to get on both of us.
A finger in a bit during foreplay or masturbation is ok but no more.
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Meggsy
4 hours ago
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I really enjoy a good warm up and foreplay really is the icing on the cake.
The resuly of good foreplay means a far more enjoyable experience with sex that follows.
As a teen that was the only way they would get what they were after. Slam bams were not for me.
Like a tennis player I want a warm up - then get into the serious game.
The resuly of good foreplay means a far more enjoyable experience with sex that follows.
As a teen that was the only way they would get what they were after. Slam bams were not for me.
Like a tennis player I want a warm up - then get into the serious game.
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I have a weakness for watches - and have a few I have bought in HK.
I bought one in South America some years ago as a fake but it works like an original, only the case seems to be cheap and is showing signs of wear. I have had one battery replaced and it is going fine.
I bought one in South America some years ago as a fake but it works like an original, only the case seems to be cheap and is showing signs of wear. I have had one battery replaced and it is going fine.
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True love would be impossible for me. I cannot commit to being faithful to any one person.
Have I loved anybody - yes and I believed what we had going together was wonderful but unfortunately I was tempted and could not control the urge to find out what I could be enjoying.
I had to admit what I had done as my conscious would not allow me to conceal it. It was hard and we remained together for a while until he too was tempted and in view of my indiscretion took the opportunity. It was good for both of us but we both realised that we were not going to make it together.
Have I loved anybody - yes and I believed what we had going together was wonderful but unfortunately I was tempted and could not control the urge to find out what I could be enjoying.
I had to admit what I had done as my conscious would not allow me to conceal it. It was hard and we remained together for a while until he too was tempted and in view of my indiscretion took the opportunity. It was good for both of us but we both realised that we were not going to make it together.
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The maxi is something I wear to the beach with absolutely nothing underneath. It comes off in one go and I am covered in sunbeams once more.
Mini, not for many years, even though I am told I have the legs to wear one. I found I was forever pulling the them down. I prefer shorts to mini's.
Mini, not for many years, even though I am told I have the legs to wear one. I found I was forever pulling the them down. I prefer shorts to mini's.
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Definitely my nipples.
They get so touchy and I love it - they have to be part of any sex play I have. all my partners know this and keep me satisfied.
On one occasion I was sooo close to an orgasm just on nipple stimulation and my gf touched my clit and i hit the ceiling - it was one of the most amazing orgasms I have had - quite different to most of my normal ones.
They get so touchy and I love it - they have to be part of any sex play I have. all my partners know this and keep me satisfied.
On one occasion I was sooo close to an orgasm just on nipple stimulation and my gf touched my clit and i hit the ceiling - it was one of the most amazing orgasms I have had - quite different to most of my normal ones.
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Best is subjective to me.
I have 5 friends with benefits. All 5 have their special aspects. Each is best or better at one thing than another, lets say. The girl I share my aprtment and bed with is certainly the one we share the benefits together with most of all but we are not 'best' friends, we all tend to be equal.. The others all visit regularly and sleep over wnen its convenient. There is no preference given when we are together.
We have been friends for over a year and have shared many different aspects of life without fear or favor.
I have 5 friends with benefits. All 5 have their special aspects. Each is best or better at one thing than another, lets say. The girl I share my aprtment and bed with is certainly the one we share the benefits together with most of all but we are not 'best' friends, we all tend to be equal.. The others all visit regularly and sleep over wnen its convenient. There is no preference given when we are together.
We have been friends for over a year and have shared many different aspects of life without fear or favor.
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I dont like tattoo's on either men or women. To me it is nothing more than body graffiti.
I have seen a couple I could probably tollerate on a partner. Those above the ass crack when wearing low rise jeans, providing it is not extensive. Even then I am not convinced it is either necessary or desirable.
I have seen a couple at the beach that I believe have their body completely covered, not a square inch was bare. Even his penis and her vagina,as well as the soles of their feet and head had been tattood.They were so extreme. They thought they looked beautiful. To most of us they were disgusting.
I can only imagine what they will look like when they are wrinklies.
I have seen a couple I could probably tollerate on a partner. Those above the ass crack when wearing low rise jeans, providing it is not extensive. Even then I am not convinced it is either necessary or desirable.
I have seen a couple at the beach that I believe have their body completely covered, not a square inch was bare. Even his penis and her vagina,as well as the soles of their feet and head had been tattood.They were so extreme. They thought they looked beautiful. To most of us they were disgusting.
I can only imagine what they will look like when they are wrinklies.
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Yes. - Remembering but not forgetting some wonderful times we shared.
I cannot tell somebody I love them in a committed way but I can say at times "I loved that".
I can remember fondly some relationships I have had but I would not return to an ex. When its over for me, it may be painful, but it is over for whatever reason.
I cannot tell somebody I love them in a committed way but I can say at times "I loved that".
I can remember fondly some relationships I have had but I would not return to an ex. When its over for me, it may be painful, but it is over for whatever reason.
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I am bi and I have tried it twice and it no more for me. It did nothing for me and was painful. It doesn't stop friends asking if i will, but are rejected.
The guys in our group will do it very occasionally in a threeway MMF.
Of my female friends one is prepared to get into it with a guy in our group, but it rare for her to get pleasure from it.
The guys in our group will do it very occasionally in a threeway MMF.
Of my female friends one is prepared to get into it with a guy in our group, but it rare for her to get pleasure from it.
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Not quite the answer you were expecting.
I got involved with cyber and it had me hooked.
I was a 17yo gullible girl unknowingly dealing with a very much older married man.He was nearly 4 times my age.
I had sent a photo of myself naked and he replied with a guy who looked 20 from somewhere.
At times we even masturbated in graphic detail on-line together at times. I know I was, and believed he was too.
It lasted almost 3 months before his wife found out. She emailed me and was not very pleasant, and sent me a real photo of him and said he had a daughter older than me. She was disgusted with both of us - and claimed I knew who I was dealing with.
I was very dissapointed at being duped and admitted things I would never normally admit to a man that age.
Would I cyber now - no way. I get my kicks in real time, face to face, body to body..
I believe that he was cheating on his wife and his daughter. He certainly was cheating me.
I got involved with cyber and it had me hooked.
I was a 17yo gullible girl unknowingly dealing with a very much older married man.He was nearly 4 times my age.
I had sent a photo of myself naked and he replied with a guy who looked 20 from somewhere.
At times we even masturbated in graphic detail on-line together at times. I know I was, and believed he was too.
It lasted almost 3 months before his wife found out. She emailed me and was not very pleasant, and sent me a real photo of him and said he had a daughter older than me. She was disgusted with both of us - and claimed I knew who I was dealing with.
I was very dissapointed at being duped and admitted things I would never normally admit to a man that age.
Would I cyber now - no way. I get my kicks in real time, face to face, body to body..
I believe that he was cheating on his wife and his daughter. He certainly was cheating me.
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I worked with a guy who picked a girl up in a club and was all over her but never got her pants off. She invited him back to her place.
He showered. She was in bed when he was ready and the passion recommenced. Her breasts were perfect and she kissed like an angel. This time he got his hand down to finger her and found a cock. She was a lady boy. A very pretty one and had no evidence of male characteristics like a deep voice etc. He lost it. She started to cry. He cleared out.
Two weeks later he returned to work. A month later when he and I got together after an office party, we talked amongst other things, and he admitted he had booked himself into a mental hospital for therapy. He could not face himself after being all over a man he said. Our experience, which was very sexual, did much to restore his faith in women. We met a couple more times before he ended the affair. He had found a new lady and was planning to take her a lot more seriously than I was prepared to go. He is married now and he and his wife are friends. I have agreed his experience will remain just between the two of us. We have never had sex together since.
He showered. She was in bed when he was ready and the passion recommenced. Her breasts were perfect and she kissed like an angel. This time he got his hand down to finger her and found a cock. She was a lady boy. A very pretty one and had no evidence of male characteristics like a deep voice etc. He lost it. She started to cry. He cleared out.
Two weeks later he returned to work. A month later when he and I got together after an office party, we talked amongst other things, and he admitted he had booked himself into a mental hospital for therapy. He could not face himself after being all over a man he said. Our experience, which was very sexual, did much to restore his faith in women. We met a couple more times before he ended the affair. He had found a new lady and was planning to take her a lot more seriously than I was prepared to go. He is married now and he and his wife are friends. I have agreed his experience will remain just between the two of us. We have never had sex together since.
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Gay "exhibitionists"? Can you ellaborate please.
I've been to quite a few nude beaches and had no problem. I never get aroused on a straight beach, that's gross!
As you say it is unusual to see an erection even at a nudist beach, generally it is a fallacy that young men will automatically get an erection at the sight of a naked woman. The ones I have seen have been deliberate unfortunately.
There are a number of legal 'clothing optional' beaches here I visit, and one is the favourite of the gay community - young and old.
Any problems are rare but occasionally a 'rough' group get together one will begin to masturbate or engage in oral sex and the others will encourage or join in.
I have only on one occasion been made aware a gay couple were engaging in intercourse actually on the beach. (So called discretly) Normally any that desire to cohabit, move into the surrounding bushland to enage in their pleasure. It becomes very obvious when they return and enter the water to "clean up".
There are some of the regulars I know, and like, that attempt to "police" their kind and curtail any unsociable behavior quickly. They themselves do not want the National Parks or Police attending to quell any disturbances (and subsequent press report).
These groups are not welcome and cause harm to the fragile acceptance of legal nudist beaches. There are many who would love to see clothing optional beaches prohibited. It is in our own interests to ensure any deviate behaviour is eliminated from our beaches and we try.
We have an increasing element (not necessarily gay) whose wish it is to do as they please, when they please, where they please, and it is not only on our beaches.
Sorry, you hit a nerve there.
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It is not my favourite position although I do like the way my breasts swing and sway while we are at it.
I found when I began doing it this way it was awkward and painful at times. I had to guide him in his movement and positioning. Then I realised it was up to me to get myself comfortable and had to adjust my position to suit the way he was thrusting, somehow it was never the same each time. Even now I have to reposition myself each time he wants it that way to get it comfortable inside me, so I can enjoy the pleasure of what we are doing together. Practice makes perfect but dont forget if it hurts its up to you to take control and change things. If he appreciates what you are doing together he will a always come to the party. Sex is a pleasure not a pain in the ????.
I found when I began doing it this way it was awkward and painful at times. I had to guide him in his movement and positioning. Then I realised it was up to me to get myself comfortable and had to adjust my position to suit the way he was thrusting, somehow it was never the same each time. Even now I have to reposition myself each time he wants it that way to get it comfortable inside me, so I can enjoy the pleasure of what we are doing together. Practice makes perfect but dont forget if it hurts its up to you to take control and change things. If he appreciates what you are doing together he will a always come to the party. Sex is a pleasure not a pain in the ????.
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How do you feel about public nudity.
I am a nudist and have been for many years. At home I am normally naked within the apartment as is my flatmate gf.
I/we visit nudist beaches and generally have no problems (gay “exhibitionists” annoy us).
Family friendly “clothing optional” beaches are wonderful. Dad and the kids are right into it. Mum takes a while.
We were talking the other day to friends and they like most of us enjoy sex naked and are comfortable between the bedroom and bathroom. They are unwilling to disrobe in company, except with us it seems. They have been to and enjoyed a European “spa” where everybody male and female are naked enjoying the facilities in mixed company. Why – because they felt nobody would know or recognise them, but they were a little embarrassed at some of the sights. (Pubic hair treatment and various penis sizes)
We are curious – if you can be comfortable naked and enjoying sexual experiences together why cannot you be comfortable with others even when it is not a sexual experience. Nudists are not necessarily sex maniacs as many allude to. We don’t mean deliberately exposing yourself in public places where it is unlawful etc. More so around a private pool or at a party at a private residence etc where the age group is similar.
What are your feelings regarding nudity etc
I am a nudist and have been for many years. At home I am normally naked within the apartment as is my flatmate gf.
I/we visit nudist beaches and generally have no problems (gay “exhibitionists” annoy us).
Family friendly “clothing optional” beaches are wonderful. Dad and the kids are right into it. Mum takes a while.
We were talking the other day to friends and they like most of us enjoy sex naked and are comfortable between the bedroom and bathroom. They are unwilling to disrobe in company, except with us it seems. They have been to and enjoyed a European “spa” where everybody male and female are naked enjoying the facilities in mixed company. Why – because they felt nobody would know or recognise them, but they were a little embarrassed at some of the sights. (Pubic hair treatment and various penis sizes)
We are curious – if you can be comfortable naked and enjoying sexual experiences together why cannot you be comfortable with others even when it is not a sexual experience. Nudists are not necessarily sex maniacs as many allude to. We don’t mean deliberately exposing yourself in public places where it is unlawful etc. More so around a private pool or at a party at a private residence etc where the age group is similar.
What are your feelings regarding nudity etc
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Yes - quite often. I have my likes and dislikes though and avoid where possible the professional whores and regular porn stars.
There are a few sites where home made or amateur porn can be found and enjoyed. Some casting couch ones are not bad if the girl is truly amateur but experienced.
Being Bi I can and do enjoy many of the girl on girl shows. My gf and I have a few that really turn us on and we view and follow together occasionally.
I dont usually require porn in order to turn me on.
There are a few sites where home made or amateur porn can be found and enjoyed. Some casting couch ones are not bad if the girl is truly amateur but experienced.
Being Bi I can and do enjoy many of the girl on girl shows. My gf and I have a few that really turn us on and we view and follow together occasionally.
I dont usually require porn in order to turn me on.
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Fortunately mine seem to be perfect for me - and my lovers. I really enjoy having them included in our sex play.
I have on one occasion stimulated them to a point where I was a moment away from orgasm. My girl friend touched my clit and I was away - thanks to my nipples etc.
I had a girl friend who was huge at 17 and she was so embarrassed and uncomfortable. Clothing problems and Bra straps cutting her shoulders etc and a few uncomplementary comments from some. She like me is a nudist and it even embarrassed her there, where she was not altogether alone. Not now though, she is admired.
She had a breast 'reduction' and I have never seen such beautiful boobs in my life. Theywere perfect in every way following the procedure. A Year later and you could not see any evidence of her treatment apart from two beautifully sized and shaped breasts.
I have on one occasion stimulated them to a point where I was a moment away from orgasm. My girl friend touched my clit and I was away - thanks to my nipples etc.
I had a girl friend who was huge at 17 and she was so embarrassed and uncomfortable. Clothing problems and Bra straps cutting her shoulders etc and a few uncomplementary comments from some. She like me is a nudist and it even embarrassed her there, where she was not altogether alone. Not now though, she is admired.
She had a breast 'reduction' and I have never seen such beautiful boobs in my life. Theywere perfect in every way following the procedure. A Year later and you could not see any evidence of her treatment apart from two beautifully sized and shaped breasts.
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Eye contact is as important as mouth contact during oral.
It adds a degree of eroticism to a wonderful experience.
Our eyes can talk and they do.watching him orgasm as i look into his eyes and taste the wonderful semen he makes for me.....wow.
It adds a degree of eroticism to a wonderful experience.
Our eyes can talk and they do.watching him orgasm as i look into his eyes and taste the wonderful semen he makes for me.....wow.
