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MrAvg
Over 90 days ago
Fluid Male, 70
United States

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I think it all depends on how rough. My wife needs me to be gentle, so for 30+ years it is what I am use too.
Prior LTR was more playful as well, had more self esteem, she liked and needed more position and body contact than my wife can tolerate.

What do you define as rough may I ask?

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If your girl dropped hints and even asked for you to get rougher during sex would you? For those who are more gentle would you find that a challenge to act in a way you're typically not?
Only if they have spurs...

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I sleep always in the nude, but keep a pair of shorts and robe rear by just in case.
My wife does, but only during intense oral, I think she would more often during oral but worries that it hits my face. Which does not bother me.
There are times she is far more wet during oral than other times which makes me wonder if she is not seeping.
My wife of 30+ years has never squirt during intercourse, she enjoys intercourse, but only gets a orgasm with oral stimulation.
Earlier in my life I was engaged and my past fiance did squirt when we had intercourse and also oral, she was less inhibited than my wife.
I have never been real fast for recovery except for a few occasions when the sex was hot and the attraction was magnetic.
My first time with my wife we did it 4 times in one night, I had waited to bed her and wanted it special and turned out as I had hoped.
Youth being age 20 or so was about 1-2 hours, now it is more like a day or two, it all depends on how long in between and mood.
I never have left a lover unsatisfied, oral is my best forte and my wife as well as past partners have all have mentioned my above average skill level.
Briefs or commando. as well here too, I own some boxers but only wear them in the house as shorts in winter.
The short answer, yes.

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I am very interested in this as well. Is there truly such a thing as a "prostate orgasm" or just leakage from the prostate being massaged? I have had some leakage along with a great feeling while my prostate was being stimulated but I wouldn't call it an "orgasm". If there is such a thing, how does the volume of cum compare to a regular orgasm?
Just a thought for the ladies, men enjoy the whole package massaged during a hand job.
Men prefer blowjobs and intercourse, but a great hand job beats a poor blowjob.
Short answer, Yes, long answer the person would have to earn the total trust and honesty with the person they were in love with.

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This refers to any girl who doesn't find it morally wrong to sleep around with a plethora of strange men/women.

So basically, would you marry a girl like me? ?
Short answer, Yes, long answer the person would have to earn the total trust and honesty with the person they were in love with.

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This refers to any girl who doesn't find it morally wrong to sleep around with a plethora of strange men/women.

So basically, would you marry a girl like me? ?
I have not ever felt it, or tried it. But it would be interesting.
Having either or, I would like to try both, no pain thou, not into that.
I do have a lot of old neck ties ...

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Or would you rather be the one doing the tying?

If you've tried it, did you enjoy?
Interesting, I enjoy planting the seeds, giving birth was not on my radar.

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Multiple orgasms.... also I guess more control over the amount of sex.

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What is one thing you guys envy that women get to have or do that you wish you could have or do?
I always seemed curious about both sexes as young as I could remember, played with other guys when a teen.
In part that is likely why I was an easy target for a neighbor male abuser, I was young he was well respected, made it easy to manipulate me.
I always wanted and liked girls and I and married, but from time to time I crave man on man sex, I enjoy sucking cock.

I can go years and not have these feeling, though when younger the feelings were stronger, as I was hornier.
Nothing is more pleasing that pleasuring my wife with oral and intercourse, I crave that as well.

I have no doubts I am bisexual, it all just depends on which was the pendulum is swinging, mine is more hetro of late.
Not been with another guy for 4 years but I do now have the craves for oral with a man.
Being spoiled 20 years ago with have a guy just like me for truly exploring our sexual fantasies.

For me sex with other guys is like a game of sports, no real emotions just lust.
Where with all the women I have been with any length of time emotions were/are a huge part of the sex.
I have had both and being with a mature woman that know what she wants and how to give.
Trumps the skinny firmer body.


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Given the choice, would it be a hot teen or a sexy milf...and why?
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I love the bush. but arm hair, just can't do it


I can only deal with a short bush, as for arm hair it depends how long it is
I likely to when after ejaculating into my wife I go down on her, I have tasted salt it is not bad.
Nothing at all.... I prefer naked as a Jay bird
I would enjoy both but my wife does not wish to do this for me. sad
I love giving a great massage my wife loves them and we have added a new twist.
My wife will lay cow girl position on me while I give her a long slow oil massage while we are coupled.
Some slow movement on her my my part keeps me going inner, it what we call an inner and outer massage.
It is easier for me to massage longer and better in this position as I can do her hips easier where she has pain.
I would profess it is cheating when a bi married man steps out of the marriage.
But in most cases there is no emotion involved, it is two men or more who was to have sex, that is all.
For me it was like sports, a pick up game of one on one basket ball, so to speak.
Most of the married guys are not wanting to not have sex with their wives, they may not be getting much.
It is cheating, but unlike what for me is the emotional cheaters who end up breaking up a marriage.

What would most wives prefer as a choice, her husband playing around likes sports with the husband or
screwing the wife on romantic meet ups?

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Would you have an affair with a married man or woman?
I'm asking here because we're thought of as more promiscuous (true or not) and it concerns a hidden sexuality of the married person.
It also raises questions of monogamy, after all you'll be sharing them with their spouses.
I prefer well trimmed as that is all my wise will do, I did get her to shave for a Christmas present 5 years ago.
It is for her benefit as it allows me easier access to her button hot spot. I can live with short trimmed.
I could spend hours working her oral and play with her toy which adds some spice to our fun.
I like them all, some on the real small size or really large size have pros and cons.
If it is not communicated and you have not been with this person before I can see your point.
I seldom used the pull method when I was dating, all the lovers were on birth control and cumming inside was not an issue.
Today that is not as much of an option having unprotected sex with all the STD around and more serious.

My wife and I went the pull method route after the birth of your last child for health reasons.
She was still a smoker and taking the pill back then was still sketchy as to the long term heath issues.
I do not like wearing condom and with age have better control of my ejaculations, so we chose that route.
It is not a safe recommended method of birth control for most people but it worked for us for 20+ years.

Now we no longer need to go that route, both of us are sterile.
For me pulling took away some of the bonding when you can not stayed coupled when cumming.
Yes and no, all depends on being a kid or adult, as a young kid it was not the same.
I absolutely love it, there is no better taste than my wife's pussy as well as most other lovers I have pleasured.
The longer the better, I am 60 and told by my wife I am extremely talented with my oral skills, my past lovers all very much enjoy me.
Most important thing is freshness, I always keep my package clean and fresh just in case.
I have been reading about this since from time to time I have suffered PE and have been curious.

Being older now the problem is much less than when I was a young man, I barely lasted a minute or two at the best with vaginal sex.
Oral was not a problem I could last as long as I wanted, longer than most girls were willing and able to go.
I tried everything from rubbing one off before the date to the desensitizing spray, one medication I took helped.
But it was not for PE and the downside was it made it hard for me to climax and since pumping away was not doing it for my wife no benefit.

My wife can only orgasm with oral clit stimulation which for me is good, I had to become very talented with oral sex to please my lovers.
I had to learn special oral technics since I always want to leave my lovers satisfied, I have had no complaints.

She has had a O 3-4 times with me in her only and for some reason will not stimulated her clit during intercourse which I think would be great.
No one my wife had been with before was able to bring a O to her during intercourse and size did not make any difference, we are open about past sex partners
Seems many women I have been with and read about have the same problem, intercourse does not get them off no matter how long you go.

From what I read on average American men tend to last 4-8 minutes when doing fast penetration intercourse, that being the average.
Since now I am with only my wife I please her oral first then finish off with intercourse she gets tired if I go past 10-15 minutes.
One thing has worked well, laying on me cowgirl position after oral I give her a very long oil massage as she slowly moves up and down.
She really loves the massage and I really enjoy being coupled for as long as we want without worry of uncontrolled ejaculating

I call it her inner and outer massage
I am 60 and started having ED problems about 6 years ago it was not unexpected.
I have some unique complex health issues, so I use 1/2 dose of Viagra or about 50 mg
This has worked well for me and keeps me hard for as long as I need, even the next day I feel it

I am on TRT and do get very hard at night while sleeping and most morning I have wood.
Sadly my wife is not a morning person any more, it is good to keep the blood flowing to you penis.
Erections are like like exercise for your penis and I am lucky it does it nightly.