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NOLAHotGal
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 67
United States

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I ave several collars that I wear while in a BDSM scene. When not in a BDSM scene I have several checkers I wear. One has a cameo, another has an emeral, and another has a rube, another a peridot and a tiger's eye.

Brandie
Yes we have and it has worked several times. Once with one of the dancers at a club in Mississippi. She invited us to the VIP room. Her and I played and Hubbie fucked her while she was eating me. After she finished her shift she came to our motel room with us. We played, got a little sleep with Hubbie in the middle, played some more, got a late checkout. When we checked out the three of us went to lunch together. The other times we were looking for guys.

Brandie
I very seldom wear panties. But if I had a pair on and things got hot and heavy they are coming off before before penetration.

Brandie
Don't see anything very exciting about humping a sofa or counter unless they are equipped with an embedded vibrator LOL. Especially when my toys do a much better job. I think the closest, and it really ain't very close, was riding a horse bare back a few times. There is a bone that moves back and fourth as the house walks, trots, or runs. The faster the horse the faster the bone moves. With out a saddle one can sit right over the bone.

Brandie
HELL NO, ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!! I don't like to see it in the porn movies. After over 42 years in the lifestyle and in swing clubs on a weekly bases I have only seen it done a couple times. And each time it was not a pleasant experience for the gall on the receiving end of a shitty cock.

I doubt very seriously that in the porn movies it actuall happens without a cut from the ass fucking scene to sucking scene. Time to wash and sanitize that shitty cock.

Brandie
HELL NO, ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!! I don't like to see it in the porn movies. After over 42 years in the lifestyle and in swing clubs on a weekly bases I have only seen it done a couple times. And each time it was not a pleasant experience for the gall on the receiving end of a shitty cock.

I doubt very seriously that in the porn movies it actuall happens without a cut from the ass fucking scene to sucking scene. Time to wash and sanitize that shitty cock.

Brandie
If I'm not wearing my nipple clips I do like my nipples rolled, pinched, or pulled especially while starting an orgasm and until it subsides. I prefer someone else to do it I will if needed.

Brandie
I see that plenty women have answered this so I will too. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend behind the maintenance building at a public playground in the middle of a summer afternoon. It was an awesome rush and super great orgasm. Since then plenty times in various places like a US Highway up against a car, in the middle of an active runway at night, several places just off the Natchez Trace. In several lakes and rivers some with people around.

Brandie
We do not have any children so we have had cats ever since we got married. At the present time, Hubbie and I have 4 cats that stay inside 100% of the time? All four of them are very affectionate. They were all feral and rescued as small kittens, three were around 6 weeks old when they found Hubbie, one was about 3 months. He also feeds a couple feral / stray cats that hang around our hanger at the airport where he goes at sometime during each day he is in town. He built them a heated cat house to get out of the cold or rainy weather.

Some of my employees and I feed one that lives around my office. She was probably a stray cat as she came to me the first day she showed up, and likes to be petted. We have a patio out back for the smokers and taking a break or lunch. She will jump in peoples lap As soon as they sit down in the patio. She is smart and knows who's lap she is welcome in. We keep a flea collar on her and take her to the vet once a year. Hubbie built a cat house for her too, and during the winter a light bulb keeps her warm.

Brandie
Quote by DamonX


First of all, that is not what a massage therapist does. You might as well go to a urologist and ask him for a hand job.

Go to the chat rooms and lurk there. You're in the wrong forum.


Try the yellow pages under Massage or Spas.

Brandie
Both equaly. I have an orgasm of my own when giving a blow job.

Brandie,
score 100. I answered the questions as the owner of my business not as Hubbie's sub. I'm his sub because I want to be.
What does your score mean?

You have no problem standing up for yourself, whether it's in a romantic, work, or personal situation. Essentially, you don't take any crap from anyone! You've got a strong backbone and don't hesitate to put people in their place if you feel you're getting the short end of the stick. This is a great skill that will get far you in life, as long as you keep it balanced with a cool head and a healthy dose of etiquette. People are far more likely to listen to what you have to say - not to mention respect your opinion - if you remain considerate and give them a chance to express their views. Assertiveness is a valuable trait, but there's always the danger of bulldozing your way through life. You should also keep in mind that sometimes we just have to let go of the "little" things, and can't always get our way - compromise is the key. So as long as you keep these pointers in mind, you're on the right track!
Yes a blow job to compleation would mean until his last rope of cum is in your mouth. A blow jobup to just before the orgasm then he jerks off on your tits or face is a blow job and jerking off to compleation.

Brandie
Quote by Magical_felix
it's gross, and messy, and a waste of half a roll of paper towels.


LOL. Stop using paper towels. We use a bath towel. If at home it will probable be the one I dried of with after my bath and shower. If it is not my towel from my bath it will probable be the one under my ass to keep the wet spot from getting on the bed, sofa, or back seat. It's going in the wash any way, so no extra cost or washing.

Brandie
Quote by Kinkme
I can't say hot or not, but this topic used to be a controversial topic between the wife and I when we would watch/discuss porn "squirting" videos. She insisted that they were pissing -

"You can SEE where it's coming from" she would say and then she showed me an illustration very similar to this one and asked me.... "Where is all that 'CUM' coming from?! There are only two openings in the female vagina - THEY DO NOT CONNECT ANYWHERE - where is that much fluid 'squirting' from!?"

Well....I didn't have an intelligent answer to defend the Pro Squirting argument after being presented with the illustration. If all of that fluid is coming from the urethra opening....that fluid must be whatever is in the bladder...Yes? That is it's only possible source.

And if it comes from the vaginal opening....well I understand that the vaginal canal does create fluid for lubrication when aroused - but is that canal able to produce large quantities of fluid under pressure? She thinks not and I can't disagree. She is always wet during sex, sometimes a lot when really aroused, but never like you see in porn and could never describe herself as squirting.

Maybe some of you who have experience here, could enlighten me and explain it based on the anatomical illustration.




I will admit that a lot of the so called squirting in the porn is probably pee. I have seen some that you can even tell it is pee because it is yellow. This is not squirting. It could be a golden shower, if it lands on the partner or partners rather they want one or not.

Squirting comes from inside the vagina. The vast majority of the time there is not an actual stream shooting out, just a large amount of fluid flowing out. While in the act of the penis pumping into the vagina this makes for a hydraulic type force. The exit path of the vagina is much smaller with it filled up with the penis. As the penis is pushed in it forces the fluids out under pressure. Obviously this is not visible in some positions so it is not seem. I have had guys say they can feel it though.

When the guy is on his back and I am on my back on his chest I have squirted a stream during orgasms and have seen other gals squirt in this position too. Also when doing it doggy style with the gal on her knees and elbows or hands.

All women won't be able to squirt as some do not produce enough fluid. I have always produced a copious amount of fluid. Just an erotic conversation can produce enough that I can feel it running down my inner thighs when standing.

There are some sex researchers that do not buy this explanation either. I recently hear a program where there are still researchers that believe the earth is flat. I put them both in the same category!!! I know what has happened to me and what I have seen with other women.

Brandie
EXTREMELY HOT!!!! I know this question was meant for the guys. After reading a few of the answers, I want to chime in to let the guys know, from my experiences and those of my lifestyle female friends, squirting only happens when we are super turned on. I squirted the first time I has sex with a guy.

Very seldom will I squirt when Hubbie and I are making love. Don't get me wrong here, Hubbie and I are very much in love after over 38 years of being married. We both have fantastic orgasms, but not as good as when we fuck. The "Sport Fucking", as we call it, is always more erotic, intense, and kinky. It produces a lot deeper turn on, that inturn produces a lot more intense, stronger, longer with more waves, orgasms. These are the type of orgasms that produces the squirting.

Some people believe this is only pee due to the loss of control of the bladder during orgasms. I won't deny that could be the case sometimes with some women. If so this is not squirting. I know that when I and my female friends in the lifestyle squirt, the fluid is clear, slightly viscous, with little or no aroma. Guys if squirting occurs when you are with a woman, rather it be from fingering, using her favorite toy, or from your cock, you are doing it right, both physically and mentally. Don't be embarrassed.

Gals should not be embarrassed either. If this is happening and you don't want to leave a big wet spot on your bed, sofa, or the front or back seat bring a towel. We carry large black bath towels when we go to the swing clubs or a lifestyle house party.

Brandie
Yes, as long as every one involved knows what the limits are. I have enjoyed it since my first lover. With him it was mainly rough talk, with him on top of me holding my wrist with my arms stretched above my head. Things really got a lot rougher when I became Teach's sub and I would be restrained and offered to others. The rougher and kinkier it got the stronger my orgasms got.

My stories are about when I became a sub and are based on real events.

Brandie
Yes, as long as every one involved knows what the limits are. I have enjoyed it since my first lover. With him it was mainly rough talk, with him on top of me holding my wrist with my arms stretched above my head. Things really got a lot rougher when I became Teach's sub and I would be restrained and offered to others. The rougher and kinkier it got the stronger my orgasms got.

My stories are about when I became a sub and are based on real events.

Brandie
We, Hubbie and I, do not care at all about who is nominated, or wins.

Brandie
Looks like we did not go to see any of the movies in 2017. We have a lot better things to do.

Brandie
My lifestyle friends know. My family and vanilla friends don't. Most of my employees that were with me about 3 years ago or longer know I'm in the Swinging lifestyle. One of my employees sent a copy of our profile on a swing site to the whole office when I refused to let him blackmail me into having sex with him.

Brandie
Quote by coryA
As sappy as this may be to some my happy place is with my wife.

Where we are and what we're doing doesn't matter as long as we're together.


I don't find that sappy at all. I feel the same about Hubbie. We do a lot together as often as we can. When he is not out of town we have lunch together nearly every day, rather it is at my office, a restaurant, out by the lake on a blanket, or at the house. BUT the best is when he is holding me in his arms after we had just made love, or finished a BDSM scene.

Brandie
Often in the heat of an erotic event. Not very often in my vanilla world. Then it is when I'm very, very angry. Like when one of my employees tried to blackmail me into have sex with him because he found a picture of me on Swing Life Style dot com. I was not recognizable, my face was not in the picture. He actually recognized our bed room because it is used as a coat room for both of our company parties.

Brandie
Quote by FindMyHeart2Night




I love the two cats. We have four. They are all rescues. They seem to have a way of finding Hubbie. Plus he feeds a few more at places he goes to often. He keeps a large jar of cat food in his truck and my SUV.

Bbrandie
Yes, a few. Enjoy life to the fullest! Do the very best you can! The Golden Rule! (The one about doing unto others.)

Brandie