Quote by TheDevilsWeakness


I think Dom/sub relationship should go BOTH ways.
I don't want a bully (this is not a Dominant - this is someone that abuses the trust and faith the sub has placed in their hands)
A truly good dominant has been a sub or switch in the past (this is just my opinion mind you)

From your posting (again this is just my opinion and I tend to call a spade, a spade) you sound like you want a slave. Someone you can own mind, body and soul and be damned their opinions, wants or needs. I personally think this abusive. Submissives are people, too. We have wants, needs and desires.

If I say APPLE (this is just an example of a safe word) I fully expect my Dom to hear it and immediately stop.
We allow a Dom to play by OUR rules. Because we set the limits and the safe word for if/when you may cross those limits.

In hindsight a submissive actually holds the most control.
I expect my Dom to push my limits and see how far I'm willing to go. This is a journey only the two of you can discover together. Its what makes a Dom/Sub relationship so alluring to me. To allow someone with my best interests to push me where I would never go myself. To allow me to grow as a person, sexually or not. Sometimes its that little push that gives me the confidence to take on that new job, or get that outrageous outfit and take it on with that confidence.
My Dom is my sexual cheerleader that has the ability to impact the rest of my life.

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