No, I just had him play with my wife's tits and kiss her while I had sex with her. Then watched her jerk him off. I never touched him.

I absolutely would. I have caught her sending pics and flirtatious texts with men in the past. I used to be jealous before we were married, But when she told me that sometimes I masturbated to her when she took her clothes off her hand on camera, took it out a jerked off right in front of her and told her to go into the details.
I also saw a message to her that she looked hot today, and she responded "if you think that is hot look at what I have on underneath and sent a pic of her in her underwear.
I told her that she wanted to have sex with these guys that I would be more than OK with it. She told me that she couldn't go that far. I really wish that she would.
It more than just looks. Alot of "hot" girls are hot because they are obsessed with their looks. Also, the definition of hotness changed as we get older. Some of the girls I crushed on in high-school, I would never look at now.
Honestly, I think my wife is superhot. She's not the classic high-school skinny petite girl. She's got curves in the right places.
I love my wife, and feel bad that I was jealous at first but it really turns me on with my wife and men exchange pics or even when I see her flirting. I would love to watch her have sex with someone else but I would probably not really participate. I think sex is a natural honest thing, and realizing thar sge would leave me if she had sex is evidence of how strong our relationship is, not a factor.
I would live to see my wife fucked by another man. I have seen messages where she flirts and shows off for other men and won't take thar extra step. One time I had a friend come over. I was hooking up with him and asked if he wanted to help out. That was the closed we got. He sucked her tits while I fucked her. She said it didn't feel right. I told he that I would love to see guy have sex with you. It's a no go so far.
First love was a girl I met in a bar when I came home from college. She offered to come up the next weekend. It lasted for about a year and then she wanted to see other people. Thrn we got back which was a mistake. She went back to school. Ended up sleeping with a few guts from class. She told me that she was finding other guys attractive too. I told her, that that's OK as long as she wasn't sleeping with them. She told me, she kind of was.
If that happened now. I would have been more accepting. But she was only the second woman I had sex with and the first I really loved.