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Nikki703
Over 90 days ago
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Quote by Hotbabeuk
Has to be glass for me. Mine sits on top of the radiator in our spare room with a towel over the top. Great in the winter because its ready and waiting nice and warm. In the summer I heat it in hot water.
Unlike silicone it stays hot for longer. Bever tried it cooled. Don't want to either.
Kimi. X
You should try it cooled, it is an amazing sensation. And if you have 2 glass toys, try one hot and one cooled. I like to use the hot one to get me to the edge then the cool one pushes me right over. Sometimes I use the cool one first too. So intense!
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Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
I usually grab what my hand touches first, unless something I'm wearing requires a specific type of panties or I want to wear a specific kind of bra...then it's the first I grab of that choice. Sometimes I'll feel like matching that day, so that's what I'll do. Other than that, it's not something I plan ahead or over think.
I am pretty much the same way.
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Sometimes if the guy has cum 2 or 3 times already, it is really hard to feel him ejaculate. So I guess it would be easy for him to fake it.
But as already said, WHY? I could never understand why anyone would fake it. If a guy can't make me cum, I will tell him (politely of course) so we can figure out why and fix it!!
But as already said, WHY? I could never understand why anyone would fake it. If a guy can't make me cum, I will tell him (politely of course) so we can figure out why and fix it!!
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Quote by Magical_felix
Could you imagine if a guy would have posted this?
"I want my girlfriend to let another guy fuck her in her ass but she keeps saying no! Grrrrr! I keep asking her and remind her I did all she wanted but she says no. So frustrating!"
Leave his butthole alone and stop pressuring if he doesn't want another man's balls slapping into his, what the fuck...
You have such a way with words! HAHA
Quote by lafayettemister
I have this fantasy of seeing my S.O. get fucked in the ass by a three legged mule, but no matter HOW many times I yell "hee haw" while I'm fucking her she still won't agree to it? I mean, what the fuck!?
I was thinking something similar.
You cant expect him to do something that far out of his comfort zone and if you were to withhold sex until he did do it would probably end your relationship with him. Like was already said, it is not the same as asking him to try a sex swing or have sex in public.
I am happy that you decided to give up on pressuring him. Maybe if you were to try the group scene where some of the men were bisexual. If he is in a situation where there are Bi men but he is not being pressured into doing anything with them, he may relax and be a little more open minded. If he sees 2 guys together with a woman also involved and how it turns you on, who knows what might happen!
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Quote by Metilda
Well, there has to be an established trust or commitment component for it to be violated.
True. But if the you call the person your BF or GF a level of commitment and trust is implied, at least it is to me. I would not call someone my BF or GF if I looked at it as a casual relationship. And if either I or the person dated someone else at the same time I wouldn't consider it cheating.
One of my daughters dates a few people but nothing is serious and she made it known up front it was not an exclusive relationship. Is she cheating on each of them? Not in my eyes.
Quote by curvygalore
To further that point one could argue that "cheating" isn't just about the sex, but about one partner lying to the other, the betrayal being at least as much emotional as sexual. So in a mutually agreed open relationship, there may be lots of sex with different people but no betrayal, depending on what has been agreed between the partnership which brings us back to that great point someone was making about communication.
I totally agree!
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Quote by Metilda
Having an affair is far different than cheating while dating, in my view. Worlds apart. My husband could break me as a human if he did that to me. I never did let someone have that power over me while I was just dating them.
Why am I pointing out the difference between the two? Because I've seen some people talk about 'cheating while dating' in the same heft as 'an affair during marriage' - and 'people always get hurt' . . . and that, really, depends on who you are.
I really don't see the difference, Cheating is Cheating!! I agree the consequences are much greater when married but in both instances you are betraying your partners trust.
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I have never knowingly been with a married man nor would I ever do that. I have had one nighters where you never really know the guys true story. I have had a little fling with a married woman but her husband knew about it and was cool with it so that really isn't cheating right.
But overall I don't believe in cheating, but who am I to judge what others do!
But overall I don't believe in cheating, but who am I to judge what others do!
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1) There's nothing quite like a soft, sweet..... Cock growing in my mouth
2) I would give anything for a..... Klondike Bar!
3) If anyone ever found out.....I was back in the USA, Id be in trouble, LOL!!
4) I wish that just once he would.....let me control the remote
5) I hate it when......I forget to take my soaked thong off my desk before I leave work for the day
6) Oh, my God, I absolutely love it when..... a ventriloquist dummy gets run through the wood chipper
7) The one thing I've never done, but desperately want to try is.......to have sex with the entire cast of Cirque du Soleil
8) How the hell did I ever.......get such a twisted mind!!
9) I wonder what it would be like to get paid for... Sleeping
10) I really wish Tex would just.... lose the make up. Clowns are EVIL............but at least he's not a ventriloquist dummy. Or is he?
2) I would give anything for a..... Klondike Bar!
3) If anyone ever found out.....I was back in the USA, Id be in trouble, LOL!!
4) I wish that just once he would.....let me control the remote
5) I hate it when......I forget to take my soaked thong off my desk before I leave work for the day
6) Oh, my God, I absolutely love it when..... a ventriloquist dummy gets run through the wood chipper
7) The one thing I've never done, but desperately want to try is.......to have sex with the entire cast of Cirque du Soleil
8) How the hell did I ever.......get such a twisted mind!!
9) I wonder what it would be like to get paid for... Sleeping
10) I really wish Tex would just.... lose the make up. Clowns are EVIL............but at least he's not a ventriloquist dummy. Or is he?
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I like both. Glass is great because it is hard and smooth and you can heat it or freeze it and it is also very easy to clean. Silicone is much more life like and can be bent to hit the right spots. A silicone double dong is great for playing with another woman. And the best vibrators on the market are made from medical grade silicone,
They both have there place but remember you get what you pay for too. There are some really good and really bad toys on the market made from both materials.
They both have there place but remember you get what you pay for too. There are some really good and really bad toys on the market made from both materials.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Something like this has probably happened to all of us at some point. When we try to warn a friend or give them advice about a guy, it's not always appreciated and can sometimes lead to resentment.
In her case, she obviously doesn't want to hear these things about her guy. I'll bet deep within, you've hit a sore spot (red flag) with her because she probably has those kinds of doubts about him already. Girls who date players are always at least somewhat aware or wary of what he might be up to. Right now, she doesn't want to acknowledge them outright because if she does she has to confront the situation. She's probably not ready to do this or contemplate calling him out on it and losing him. So instead she desperately looks for reasons as to why you are wrong and comes up with a truly ridiculous one - "you're not that into guys anyway" - as though this somehow would affect your eyesight or ability to accurately observe two people making out. lol. From there, she may have talked herself further down the rabbit hole and might be thinking you're trying to break them up because you're crushing on her or something. When we don't want to see the truth, we have to find ways to explain it away. That's what she's doing here. Unfortunately you're just on the wrong end of her panicked thought-processes.
At this point, in her mind, she is supporting and standing by her man - and you are against her man - therefore she is against you. I know it sounds ridiculous, but that's where her mind is going. In her warped thinking, being friendly with you is like her consorting with someone who is against her relationship, which she obviously is very wrapped up in at the moment. It also, on some level, makes her feel awkward because she thinks you are probably judging her too for denying the truth and staying with him. So if she avoids you, she's able to secure her happy bubble and not have to be reminded of reality.
I would back off and let her sort through things for a couple of months. I suspect she will slowly start to see more red flags in her relationship and eventually shit will hit the fan and they will probably break-up or she will catch him in the act. Then guess who she will come running to. You, of course - because you already know he's a shady guy and can now commiserate with her, support her, give her advice and rebuild her ego. Wait for it, it's coming. I've been on both sides of this coin and it always ends the same.
This is very sound advice. I have also been on both sides of it.
It is similar, to a lesser extent of course, to an abused wife. When her friends try to help her, she turns on them saying they are trying to ruin her marriage. If she admits there is a problem she has to deal with it so she rather put up with it than be alone. Your "friend" will eventually see the light and come to you for help. Whether you are there for her or not is your call but I have a feeling you will be.!
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Who is most likely to make you shiver, quiver, and wanna deliver?...
Now Let's See
...a Cop? Most cops I know are either control freaks, arrogant or both
...a Fireman? Not big on uniforms but he has a shot
...a Lawyer? Well, he's a lawyer..................enough said
...a Doctor? See Cop
...a Construction Worker? I do like guys who work with their hands
...a Teacher? Don't want someone correcting my grammar every minute.
So if I have to choose Ill go
#1 - Construction Worker
#2 - Fireman
#3 - Lelo!! HAHA
If you only would have added Musician or Athlete!! HAHA
Now Let's See
...a Cop? Most cops I know are either control freaks, arrogant or both
...a Fireman? Not big on uniforms but he has a shot
...a Lawyer? Well, he's a lawyer..................enough said
...a Doctor? See Cop
...a Construction Worker? I do like guys who work with their hands
...a Teacher? Don't want someone correcting my grammar every minute.
So if I have to choose Ill go
#1 - Construction Worker
#2 - Fireman
#3 - Lelo!! HAHA
If you only would have added Musician or Athlete!! HAHA
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Quote by Mazza
For fucking, about as thick as my wrist. If he can stroke my G with the head as he pounds me, even better. Mmmmm
For sucking, thinner... No way I could accommodate such a big cock in my mouth, in saying that, I'd give it my best shot and practice, practice, practice...
That's all part of the fun, right? Rrrrr
Guess I need a choice of cocks ;)
Here ya go Maz, Pick your favorite type!!
Then your size requirements
You know I always thought Washington was filled with a lot of Big Dicks!! HAHA
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I have never heard of any guy saying this. If his cock is soft all it means is it isn't aroused. It doesn't mean he CAN'T get aroused. It doesn't mean he ISN'T a man because a camera didn't make him hard.
Maybe if he is really small or if he is more of a "grower" than a "shower" I can see him being a little self-conscious about it. But we all know a soft cock will get hard, and a hard cock will eventually be soft!!
Maybe if he is really small or if he is more of a "grower" than a "shower" I can see him being a little self-conscious about it. But we all know a soft cock will get hard, and a hard cock will eventually be soft!!