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Nikki703
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57
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Quote by nicola
Thanks, it's going to be tough!
That's always the danger with these "good intentions" acts, like crash diets and the like. People often end up binge drinking / eating at the end of it. I have more self-control than that, so it should be fine.
I don't think I can last the distance though, something so habitual for over 20 years, that's a tough nut to crack. We'll see.
DAY 2: Woke up Saturday morning at 5am, clear head, and had a good night's sleep. Long may it continue.
Giving up Alcohol for a month means............................................I died!!! LOL
At least you picked a short month!! Good Luck
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Quote by jeremiahbull
"I want to suggest that sex, be it adulterous or premarital or deviant or polyamorous, is a good thing, not a bad thing, and that sex itself is the moment of grace."
This is a quote from the current issue of Esquire which seems very appropriate for this site. It is written from a man's perspective. I am interested in the thoughts of Lush ladies on the ideas in the article. Link below.
You need to have a minimum number of posts first, 10 or 20 I think. Try typing the link so we can cut and paste it
I also disagree with the statement. Some very deviant acts are not good in any way or form!!
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
I don't know if other girls experience it this way, but at first I'm aware I have a full bladder but then once I'm sufficiently turned on and progressing towards an orgasm, the 'need to pee' goes away and you're just left with this different sensation (tighter/fuller - almost like a distinct kind of pleasurable sexual ache). I believe the mechanism behind this is that the bladder is right behind the gspot so when the bladder is full it pushes against it. Since it's moved slightly forward into the vagina from behind, it allows more sensitivity and contact through thrusting or other mechanical stimulation. Plus it just feels good when something is pushing against it in general. After the orgasm subsides, it's not like I'm desperate to run to the bathroom either. It takes a little while for that 'need to pee' to return.
I have been known to drink a big glass of water if I have time to think of it before sex or solo-play - just because I know it's going to make the orgasms more intense. Plus this is another benefit of having morning sex just as you're waking up.
Im pretty sure that is exactly how it works. Kind of like hitting the G-spot from both sides.
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Quote by LaniWhore
Most men that I have been with seem to attack my clitoris like they are in a rush to get on to the next phase. They may well be.
If he is not doing what you want, you have to teach them, the poor dears do not know any better.
So if you are not getting what you want from you guy who is to blame. Most guys I have know want to please us and will do most anything we want.
The question, I am in the latter group do not give my clit too much attention until I am right at the edge. I fact you could back off a couple of times and then rebuild the stimulation again.
Promise you will be part of a tremendous orgasm!!!
I pretty much agree. I like my clit stimulated but then maybe go inside, then my lips, then my ass (never forget the ass, lol), back to the clit. Lick my clit and finger my ass at same time. Explore every part of me. It is all connected.
It seems like most guys either attack the clit and neglect everything else or forget about the clit entirely!! Guys, dont be afraid to ask us what we like. I personally will not think you dont know what you are doing. Just the opposite, Ill think you care more about me then your ego!!
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Quote by JohnC
And from a guy's point of view... at least THIS guy's..... I find a full bladder to be very distracting and sometimes extremely uncomfortable when having sex; let alone having an orgasm. ;) I like to pee first if possible. Sometimes that is not an option when it is early in the morning though, so I like it best if I am not VERY full. LOL
And no, I have never passed out when orgasming... I HAVE however seen stars and had a partial white-out. But not often.
Its not like Id be thinking "I really have to pee, but Im gonna wait and have sex first". But if it just plays out that way, then the orgasms seem a little more intense.
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Quote by BelleduJour
Thankfully my orgasms, about 90% of the time, are extremely intense and insanely pleasurable be it on my own or especially whilst with a partner. As for having an orgasm that caused me to fall unconscious or become unresponsive, not yet (haha) BUT I have had orgasms where I have come close to blacking out and/or saw stars circling my head from the sheer force of it all. Those kinds of orgasms usually only occur when I'm engaging with a painfully full bladder Yes, you heard correctly - please tell me I'm not the only that loves climaxing this way??? Climaxing while having a full bladder not only exponentially intesifies my orgasms to the point where I nearly black out/see stars as it but when finally go to relieve myself, provided I catch the 'wave' at just the right time, the sensations only prove to extend and enhance my already mind-blowing and toe-curling climax! Yeah, it's about as good as it gets I think *sigh*
In have also found this to be true, especially about when I relieve myself afterward. But maybe not quite this extreme difference since I usually have pretty intense orgasms. But my orgasms are definitely more intense when bladder is full.
I think its the full bladder that it puts pressure on just the right spot and brings on an even more intense orgasm. And from what I have read, this is fairly common in most women.
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I always get very light headed after having a run of multiples. One time I became unresponsive for a few seconds but not sure if I actually passed out. But very intense orgasms, especially when you have 4 or 5 in succession can really knock you out, especially if you squirt too.
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Quote by thunder256
Happily married BI guy, planning on taking it up the ass for the first time with a good friend. Any advice?
Start out slow. Maybe have him use his fingers first or maybe a small toy. You can do this yourself in order to get used to the feeling. And make sure you are relaxed and turned on.
There are many threads about the first time for a woman. Much of the advice given there will apply.
Three very inportant words to remember are Lube, Lube, Lube!! Have Fun and Enjoy!!
