I think you should talk to her and explain your dilemma. Suggest the things DD mentioned. It will be much worse if you dont talk to her and she begins to think you arent concerned with her likes and wants. Maybe when you talk and tell her that it really isnt your thing but you are willing to try for her because her feelings and desires are very important to you. And if you still cant do it after trying, tell her but at least that way she sees that you cared enough to try.
Another idea maybe to shower together and wash each other back there as part of the foreplay and then you will have confidence and know its very clean. As someone who loves receiving it and doing it, especially to women, I think you can get past this if you try. And when you see how much she loves it you will be rewarded Im sure!!
Good Luck
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Quote by seeker4
I'm game to test this out. I'll suck a cock with a condom, without a condom, and then a dildo and let you know if they are the same or not. Any coc...er...guys want to volunteer to be my subject?
Or maybe I'm just horny and desperate to explore my bi-curiousity...
Whether they feel the same or different is irrelevant. If you suck a cock, a real cock, you had oral sex with a man. There is nothing wrong with doing it and you can call it or rationalize it any way you like. But it is what it is!!
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The bands I chose are bands I just think suck musically. There are many bands I dont like but i think are very talented musicians and/or song writers. Someone mentioned Prince. I dont like his music but he is actually a very talented guitarist which never seems to be mentioned. Bob Dylan's voice is awful but he is an amazing songwriter. Same goes for many others..
As for Rap/hip-hop, you may love it which is cool. But you cant say that the rap artists are great musicians or even musicians for the most part. Of course there exceptions.
And as far as bands like Led Zeppelin, if you say you dont like them i can respect that but to say they are not a talented band is rediculous.
And for the guy who said Pink Floyd sucked without Syd Barrett, why do you say that? He was very talented but also very one-dimensional. When he had his meltdown and left the band, Roger Waters' Lyrics and David Gilmour's guitar playing took them to a whole different level they never would have achieved with Syd, especially once the Psychedelic era ended.
BTW, LM, Kurt Cobain is a fucking GOD!!! HAHA
But this is JMO, except for Kurt and Floyd, LOL
As for Rap/hip-hop, you may love it which is cool. But you cant say that the rap artists are great musicians or even musicians for the most part. Of course there exceptions.
And as far as bands like Led Zeppelin, if you say you dont like them i can respect that but to say they are not a talented band is rediculous.
And for the guy who said Pink Floyd sucked without Syd Barrett, why do you say that? He was very talented but also very one-dimensional. When he had his meltdown and left the band, Roger Waters' Lyrics and David Gilmour's guitar playing took them to a whole different level they never would have achieved with Syd, especially once the Psychedelic era ended.
BTW, LM, Kurt Cobain is a fucking GOD!!! HAHA
But this is JMO, except for Kurt and Floyd, LOL
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I get that some people don't like the word 'slut'.
But again - I don't care about the 'word' - more that the intention behind the word exists at all in today's world.
And the assumption that a promiscuous woman isn't enjoying herself or possibly has some mental issue that she's trying to escape from by having sex with lots of men. The notion that she's being "used by them". Who makes this assertion or assumption? Society. Because we (as a whole) still say promiscuity is bad.
The act itself is "woman having sex with multiple partners". That's all we know about her. Who are we to say this is unnatural or negative or a symptom of an underlying psychological problem. Everything else we put on that is judgement. Why are we judging?
That's what I'd love for society to get beyond. That any person might want to do something boldly sexual or controversial (whatever it is) but thinks twice, hesitates or fears being labeled as something negative/shameful or seen in a certain light by people who have no business pointing fingers at all. Cause really it's just sex. It's a physical expression. We shouldn't impose limitations on ourselves based on social labels.
Hope I'm making sense. The word itself is irrelevant to me.
Words we should all live by. Sex is just that, sex!! Its not love. Most people just cant make this distinction. If you believe, you should only have sex with someone you are in love with, I can respect that even if I disagree with it. But to say it is OK to have sex with one or two people you dont love but if you have sex with 10 people you dont love you are a slut, tramp (insert word of choice here), well that doesnt make any sense to me.
Why should we deprive ourselves of pleasure if we want to enjoy multiple partners? I know this whole discussion is more about the word then the meaning, but we as a society are just too hung up on labels and sex in general!!
Sorry for the rant!!
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Quote by crazydiamond
First bold- I'm not judging, for I could be judged, I just hate the word.
Second bold- Sex is not dirty in any way, it's human, I just hate the connotation and disrespectful tone of the word slut. Simple. And with that I really should go fold some sexy fucking slutty towels. JOY!
How dare you call your towels slutty!! Have they been fucking the pillow cases again?
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I know this is ask the guys but I couldnt resist. There is a big difference between sucking a dildo and sucking a cock with a condom on. Sucking a cock, whether it is covered with a condom or bare is oral sex with a man. No ifs, ands or buts!! To say it is not is like saying if a virgin girl fucks a guy wearing a condom she is still a virgin.
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Slut? Promiscuous? These are very subjective words. If you go by the true meaning, slut generally implies a prostitute. But everyone has their own definition. I know a woman who says her daughter, her 27yo daughter is a slut because she has sex with her BF. That any woman who has sex before marriage is a slut. And promiscuity? What does that really mean? Sex with 2 people? With 5? 10? Anyone with a pulse?
It all depends on the context in which the word is used. But either way they are just words. I dont care waht people label me as long as I know what I truly am. I always use the phrase sexually adventurous to describe myself. If some people take that to mean Im a slut,so be it. Im a Slut, well 78% of one anyhow!
BTW, I say Im a slut on my profile only because I dont like the other choices, LOL!!
It all depends on the context in which the word is used. But either way they are just words. I dont care waht people label me as long as I know what I truly am. I always use the phrase sexually adventurous to describe myself. If some people take that to mean Im a slut,so be it. Im a Slut, well 78% of one anyhow!
BTW, I say Im a slut on my profile only because I dont like the other choices, LOL!!
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I have on many occasions. Sometimes they wake me up and other times they dont but I can tell the next morning that I came. I assume that when I was dreaming I was masturbating in my sleep (I have been told that I sometimes do that and yes that is more common than you may think) so it wasnt some type of non-contact orgasm. I dont always remember my dreams but several of the times where it woke me up I did and it seemed so real and very intense. The human body is amazing but can be very mysterious at times.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
I've been listening to this one since my early teens and I still love it. Her voice, the melody and the lyrics are timeless.
Fade Into You by Mazzy Star
I havent heard this in ages and it brings back a very special memory!! Thanks for posting it!
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I really dont have a #1, But of the ones I really love, one that I will definitely make a reality someday is to have an all girl orgy with 10 women and have each one of the make me cum!!
Do you have any fantasies that you know you will never make a reality? Do not include sex with Angelina Jolie, sex on top of the $500 million in cash you just won or something totally far fetched like that, LOL!
Do you have any fantasies that you know you will never make a reality? Do not include sex with Angelina Jolie, sex on top of the $500 million in cash you just won or something totally far fetched like that, LOL!
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Quote by clum
Can I assume you feel the same about the term "gay sex"?
I've never thought about this before. Must ask some of my gay friends.
Interesting thread; I look forward to the responses.
Absolutely!! I was going to add that in but really didnt know if there are any gay man here.
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Any band that uses autotune. Though Guns n Roses kinda went downhill after Slash left. :/
They didnt go downhill, they DIED!!
But Appetite for Destruction and Use Your Illusion I and II was enough to say they were a great band. Although I do admit it would have been better if they just made one Use Your Illusion with just the best from the 2 albums.
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i always thought it would have been really exciting for someone a little older and more experienced to show me. By letting me watch her with someone and by watching me do things to myself(and help me too) to make sure I was doing it right.
Are there any sexual activities(sounds so clinical, LOL) you waited a long time to try that you wish you would have tried much earler?
Are there any sexual activities(sounds so clinical, LOL) you waited a long time to try that you wish you would have tried much earler?
You Take That Back!!!