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So, now I guess it's just Bottoms Up!
And Down The Hatch!!
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Nikki703
Over 90 days ago
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
It's kind of a balance of all three and it also depends on what you're looking for at that stage in the game.
If you're looking for a serious relationship and life partner, personality will carry a much heavier weight of importance.
If it's more of a casual thing, vacation sex or a fun fling, then I think looks/body are going to be the stronger draw.
Very True
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Quote by clayrider
Ladies, I must thank you. You have me at least thinking about what the female perspective is on this matter. Obviously, girls and guys think quite differently. i do not think that a make would ever feel threatened if he caught his girl watching porn, much less reading it. Maybe Harlequin does have a point, although a bit tame for me. Frequency, replacement and obsession are good indicators to women.
If you caught your girl constantly watching hardcore lesbian porn, not the "lipstick lesbian hope I can join" in porn guys(and me, LOL) love, that wouldnt threaten you? You wouldnt be thinking maybe she wants something I can't give her?
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Quote by clayrider
I appreciate all of the posts. If we were not discussing visual porn, would you get just as upset if it were reading stories? Honestly, if you came over to your boyfriends house and surprised him and he were online reading LUSH stories. What would your reaction be?
Thats an interesting question. I guess it would depend on why he was reading them. Like I already said, a lot would have to do with the frequency he did it and whether he tried to hide it from me. Everybody has their moments where they will do something like watch porn alone or go to a strip club (although going to strip club alone is a definite red flag to me). If he was up late watching porn alone then came to bed and fucked me silly, I dont think I would mind it very much, LOL!! Its when it becomes an obsession or a replacement that it would bother me.
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I never had a relationship with a man who was that into porn but if a guy I was with was watching porn alone all the time, Id feel he prefered that to me. Why watch other people fuck on video when you have someone who is ready to do it for real?
But that would be if he was obsessed with porn. Watching alone once in a while is cool.
But that would be if he was obsessed with porn. Watching alone once in a while is cool.
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I dont really have a favorite brand although I do have a lot of VS but have many others too. I am pretty addcited to buying lingerie, especially Thongs and G-strings. Love Hanky Panky G-Strings and Thongs (thanks DD for the recommendation). Favorite color is purple, love black and pink too!
