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Nikki703
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57
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Quote by FireAngel12
Thank you all for your suggestions, I really appreciate it and have tried a few out. Luckily, we didn't hang out many places so for the most part it's easy to not go there, but we did meet up at the front of my house a lot so...can't avoid there haha. I don't drink so can't do that either lol. However, I know I'm not ready to date, but I have been talking to this one guy I met. We met almost 2 weeks ago and have skyped every night since we met. It's been a great distraction.
I'm gonna do the best I can and be happy for my friend too though. It's really hard because she didn't even like me hanging out with him as a friend to begin with so I don't like the idea of him being with someone who tries keeping him from me just because I'm a girl. It's just not fair and it's not fair that I know if i were 18 just a year sooner, he would've been with me and not her. Even if we broke up, I'd be happy knowing he'd give me a chance. It also hurts because he told me over the weekend that he still wants to have a 3some with me and our guy friend. If he's willing to cheat on her, why can't he just break up with her? Grrr...
Either way, it's time to move on. I need to keep reminding myself that if he really wants me, he would be with me... :P
I know I really dont know the entire story but he says he is very happy meanwhile he is willing to risk what he has with this girl to have a 3some with you and his friend. Like I said, I dont know the whole story or the guy but he seems like he is just looking to have a good time and is not serious about his relationships. Maybe he will break up with her and go with you. But then will he be having a 3 some with her and that guy, or maybe with one of her friends too?
I know it is easy for me to say, but just go out with some other guys and Im sure you will find someone who makes you forget "what's his name"!! You have your whole life ahead of you!! Why worry about 1 guy at 18!! Enjoy your life!!
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Quote by FireAngel12
The problem that I've been having is I don't have a license yet and my doctor is a 20-30 minute drive from my house so I can't get there yet. Then I've been looking into Mirena instead of just going on the pill. I was thinking Mirena because it lasts for 5 years and I know that if I miss a single pill, I can get pregnant. I don't always remember to take my medicine so I don't wanna risk missing a pill for birth control. Will definitely use a condom too, I just want double protection in case there's a hole in the condom or for some reason the birth control doesn't work.
Another thing is that I just switched doctors so now I have the same doctor as my both my parents and my brothers. We met for the first time last week and she completely chewed me out because I decided to wait a year before going to college. I don't wanna get chewed out about sex which is much worse than waiting a year for college.
Last problem is if I use the insurance, since its under my parents' names, will they get notified that I went to the doctor(if anyone knows)?
Thank you guys soooo much for your help so far!
It will depend on the insurance plan whether or not your parents get notified. If you have a co-pay for a doctors visist or for prescriptions, they may not see it. But if the insurance pays a percentage of the cost, then they will get billed for the non-covered portion of the expense and they will see it. Check to see if there are any clinics near you that offer free birth control.
I have heard some good and bad things about the Mirena IUD. I know they had a recall and there are some serious side effects. You seem like you are pretty together on this so make sure you check all the options before deciding what is best for you.
As for the doctor telling your parents, I think if you are over the legal age of consent she legally can not tell your parents. It would fall under doctor/patient confidentiality, but I am not positive about that and the laws may vary from state to state. She still may chew you out though! Good Luck!
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Quote by Marc_Mozz
If you were going to be picked up by a random guy, what is the best way that guy would go about accomplishing that?
Oops!! I didnt read the entire post, just the title. I responded thinking he meant if I met a guy that I felt was nice and we hit it off.
I never go out looking to get picked up by a random guy!! Even a Ferrari won't help there, LOL!!
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I have never asked a man to cum on his own stomach and chest but I love it when he cums on mine. I love top watch the cum spurt out of him and the look on his face as he cums. Then he gets to watch me either rub it into my boobs or scoop it up with my fingers and lick it all off. It is a great visual for both of us.
But if he did cum on his own stomach I would certainly lick it off of him!!
But if he did cum on his own stomach I would certainly lick it off of him!!
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Quote by sprite
get him good tickets to his favorite sports team game and go with him and be enthusiastic about it - totally get into the game and make it a wonderful day for him.
I agree with this. I once got tickets to a football game for a guy I was dating. I intended him to take one of his brothers or a buddy but he wanted me to go with him. I love football so it was great. We made a whole day of it, tailgating before, dinner afterward.
The only negative was that I had to give it to him the week before Christmas as the season was over after Chritsmas. But he really loved it!!
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Quote by sliltrim
responses are expected to narrate their real opinions, please don't make it big issue but it will be appreciable to ponder on life. where we generation of electronic media going .......................................?
If it wasnt fun then why the fuck would we do it? No one is forcing us to be here! Its not like its my job. Next Question?
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With me it will depend on my mood, who I am with and what we are doing.
If it is a somewhat romantic situation, maybe some classical music on low in the background.
But if it is a hardcore lusty raunchy no holes barred all out fuck fest then nothing beats some raunchy hard rock like say Motorhead or Metallica!!
And if we are doing it by a fireplace on snowy winter night, then Pink Floyd is the way to go............................dont ask!! HAHA
If it is a somewhat romantic situation, maybe some classical music on low in the background.
But if it is a hardcore lusty raunchy no holes barred all out fuck fest then nothing beats some raunchy hard rock like say Motorhead or Metallica!!
And if we are doing it by a fireplace on snowy winter night, then Pink Floyd is the way to go............................dont ask!! HAHA
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Yes I have. But it wasnt like I went out with a guy, dumped him and picked up another guy and went home with him.
One time after my divorce I went out with a guy on a first date and it really was boring and I knew it wasnt going to work out so I made up some excuse to end the date short. After the guy took me home, I called a friend that I had a casual relationship with and we ended up having sex later that night.
One time after my divorce I went out with a guy on a first date and it really was boring and I knew it wasnt going to work out so I made up some excuse to end the date short. After the guy took me home, I called a friend that I had a casual relationship with and we ended up having sex later that night.
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I guess I fit into the mature woman age group but not sure if I am really mature. My daughters say I am 43 going on 16, HAHA!!
I prefer guys that are younger than me but not real young, like 30 up to around my age.
BTW, when it comes to women, all ages are great!!!
I prefer guys that are younger than me but not real young, like 30 up to around my age.
BTW, when it comes to women, all ages are great!!!
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
This was my first thought too.
If you have a hot girl that's really eager to start cybering right out of the gate, that should probably be a red flag.
Since the OP is a guy, Im not really sure how many guys actually pretending to be girls want to cyber with other guys. I imagine there are a few. But I am wary of the many of the 18yo lesbians on Lush. I am sure many are who they say they are but once in a while, one will slip up and you can tell they are playing you!!
As for me, I really dont cyber much. In fact, I cant remember the last time I did. Sexual talk and flirting, well thats a whole different story!!
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They can be fun and sexy for foreplay. The visual of having sex with heels on is pretty hot but the practicallity of it is not good. Usually I like to try different positions, so while Im flipping around on the bed I would hate to kick him in the head (or worse) with 5" heels!!
