Not sure if this has been covered here already but when giving a blow job, do you normally just concentrate on sucking the cock or do you like to suck and lick the balls too. A few girlfriends and I had a discussion about this recently and I was surprised to find that the balls are often left unloved.
Guys, feel free to answer too. Do you like having your balls sucked when getting a blow job or do you prefer her to concentrate on your cock? And I would be interested in hearing what any Gay/Bi guys think too.
As for me, I love to lick, suck and fondle the balls too. As long as they are not to hairy, HAHA!
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Nikki703
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I also agree with overmykneenow. Sounds like she has the best of both worlds and probably has no desire to change that. Online exclusivity is a tricky thing. I know some people have had online relationships turn into very happy and succesful IRL relationships and even marriage but in most cases online line relationships are fantasies. It is someones way of having fun and being the person you want to be without having to make a real commitment to any one person
I know of course there are exceptions.
I know of course there are exceptions.
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I dont really like it. When I go the the gym , I am going to work out and nothing more. I once was a member at a gym where I got hit on so often I had to quit, it became so annoying. And it wasnt just me, it was most women members. I swear half the guys there were there only to hit on women and not work out.
I dont mind if guys/women talk to me while we work out and after we get to know each other they become a little forward just as they might in other situations. That is cool, but its the constant come ons that bother me.
I dont mind if guys/women talk to me while we work out and after we get to know each other they become a little forward just as they might in other situations. That is cool, but its the constant come ons that bother me.
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That's cause the sexologist who said it, probably has a small one.
Seriously though, kegals are great and definitely can help but when you factor in a naturally wet lubricated pussy and a very small penis, it's still not going to be satisfying because of lack of friction. Kegals are like rhythmic contractions but you don't want to constantly be doing this around a small object the entire time you're getting fucked. It might help for women after childbirth to tighten up what went loose but for someone who is already naturally tight, I don't think they can somehow get tighter than what her body will allow.
I totally agree. You can only be 'so tight". Kegals are great and I do them regularly. I think I am pretty tight for a woman who has had 3 kids and how do I put it, has been around the block a few times, LOL!! Kegals have made me a little tighter maybe but the thing they do most for me is improve my muscle control and being to able to contract and relax the vaginal muscles during sex is very pleasurable for both of us.
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Online, just show you are intersted in things I like and what I have to say and show respect. Do not tell me how hot I am and that you want want to fuck. Do not tell me how big your cock is or how hot you are. Treat me as a person and not some fuck toy. And do not tell me how much you love me after we chat one time! But the main thing is to read my profile and respect what I am a asking. This goes for men and women.
IRL, there must be a physical attraction but other than that, the best way to attract me is to be confident but not arrogant and to make me laugh!!
IRL, there must be a physical attraction but other than that, the best way to attract me is to be confident but not arrogant and to make me laugh!!
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I like being dominated by men but have never taken part in any reluctance role play. Based on real life experiences it just may hit a little too close to home for me.
When with women though I like to dominate more than be dominated although its usually more of a 50/50.
When with women though I like to dominate more than be dominated although its usually more of a 50/50.
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I have a few questions. Your online relationship you said has gotten more serious but what exactly does that mean? Has it become a cyber sexual relationship or just chat and sharing your lives? Have you talked about hooking up IRL?
The other guy her BF, Is he a real life BF or online also?
If he is IRL which is what I assume, then I think she just tells you the worst of that relationship but she is pretty happy with him and has no intention of leaving him at this time. And you are a nice guy who she really likes and cares for but maybe you have slipped into the "friend zone".
I really dont see you becoming exclusive with her anytime soon. Sorry about that!!
You also said he was "emotionally abusive and a total ass despite being muscled pretty boy". What does one have to do with the other? Based on my experience there is a better chance he would be a conceited ass if he is a pretty boy, not despite that fact. Just curious about your take on this
The other guy her BF, Is he a real life BF or online also?
If he is IRL which is what I assume, then I think she just tells you the worst of that relationship but she is pretty happy with him and has no intention of leaving him at this time. And you are a nice guy who she really likes and cares for but maybe you have slipped into the "friend zone".
I really dont see you becoming exclusive with her anytime soon. Sorry about that!!
You also said he was "emotionally abusive and a total ass despite being muscled pretty boy". What does one have to do with the other? Based on my experience there is a better chance he would be a conceited ass if he is a pretty boy, not despite that fact. Just curious about your take on this
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I read a lot of stories on Lush and unfortunately I sometimes forget to score and comment on the story. Many times I read multiple stories in one session so I go onto the next story and intend to go back and comment but then I forget.
Many times too I find the story to be such a turn on I get "occupied" after reading and never get back to scoring it. Actually that is the best comment I probably could give since it really turned me on, LOL!!
I really need to make a better effort at scoring every story I read. The authors work hard on the writings and deserve to know what we think!!
Many times too I find the story to be such a turn on I get "occupied" after reading and never get back to scoring it. Actually that is the best comment I probably could give since it really turned me on, LOL!!
I really need to make a better effort at scoring every story I read. The authors work hard on the writings and deserve to know what we think!!
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Actually my mom approached me. We had a discussion about sex and she asked me if I was sexually active and when I told her I have had sex, the topic of birth control came up. I was very lucky that my mom was very understanding and open minded. She didnt condone having sex at a such a young age but was smart enough to realize it was a fact of life.
And I have been the same way with my girls!
Thanks Mom!!!
And I have been the same way with my girls!
Thanks Mom!!!
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I have also given and received it from both men and women (only fisted a woman though, LOL!). It was nice with the women but a man's hand is just too big for little ol' me so he never eeally got his whole hand in me.
It is like anal in many ways, kind of and must be done gently at first and you need to be very wet for it to be pleasurable.
And yes I would do it again.
It is like anal in many ways, kind of and must be done gently at first and you need to be very wet for it to be pleasurable.
And yes I would do it again.
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whos your favorite porn star?
Not sure I have a true favorite but I really like some of the women from older porn in the 80's and 90's. They are just so much sexier than the girls today. Could do without the hairy bushes though, lol! Most of the girls in todays porn are just so fake and I dont only mean their bodies.
A few I really like are Tracey Adams, Kay Parker, Kylie Ireland, Julia Ann and Janine. I think a few of them are still performing.
There are a few newer ones that are good too, Sascha Grey is really hot and actually a decent actress too.
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Thanks for all your comments ladies. Guess there are others out here that don't think it's that weird after all.
Not weird at all. I actually have the same fantasy but would have to be a very feminine shemale. I have seen some in porn vids that look like men with breast implants and that is a big turnoff. But some are just so feminine and hot and YUMMY!!! Not sure if I would actaully do it but it is a super hot fantasy for me!!
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What if it was a good hot steamy cyber fuck? Or a plain old phone fuck?
But actually I am not really into either all that much. I much prefer to either cyber chat or listen to someone describe experiences or fantasies while I masturbate (sometimes I tell them, sometimes I dont). This is such a turn on for me!!
But actually I am not really into either all that much. I much prefer to either cyber chat or listen to someone describe experiences or fantasies while I masturbate (sometimes I tell them, sometimes I dont). This is such a turn on for me!!
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It really doesnt matter as long as the story can keep my interest. The only negative (if it really is a negative) I have with long stories is that sometimes they are so hot I get "sidetracked" while reading and I dont finish them in one session. Not that Im complaining!!