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Nikki703
Over 90 days ago
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Quote by Magical_felix
Usually I don't give bullshitty answers like I'm about to give but when it comes to the way a woman dresses I like seeing her in what she finds the most sexy, if sexy is the goal. If she is in what she feels the most sexy in then it will translate over in her body language and attitude that evening.
To answer the question though, I prefer cute. Shorts, tank top and her everday hair will always look sexier to me than some expensive gown, high heels and an elaborate hairdo like a high priced escort.
I know this is for the guys but I agree with MF. The girl should dress in whatever makes here feel comfortable. If the goal is to be sexy than whatever makes her feel sexy. As for me, I love to dress csual sext like in shorts and tank tops. And thats how I love to see women dressed too.
As for the original posters poll, I am no expert but it seems to me that a high class escort/prostitute does not really dress slutty but rather classy sexy. Its the street walker type that dress like ultra sluts!
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DD pretty much hit the nail right on the head. I have 2 FWB and me and my GF have shared them and there was never any issues. They did not want relationships and were in it just for the sex. And we usually only got together with them for sex and nothing else.
But lately, one of them has been calling Annie asking her to have dinner with him and has shown he is is more into her than just as a FWB. Now we have a pretty open relationship so I have no problem with her getting together with just him for sex if she wants to but she really has no interest in a "relationship" with him. So things have gotten complicated and we thought it was best to end our FWB relationship with him totally. He still calls her occasionally but he seems to have gotten the message. Too bad as it was really fun being with him.
At least we still have the other one, LOL
It is a beautiful thing when it works, but can be very troublesome when it doesnt.
But lately, one of them has been calling Annie asking her to have dinner with him and has shown he is is more into her than just as a FWB. Now we have a pretty open relationship so I have no problem with her getting together with just him for sex if she wants to but she really has no interest in a "relationship" with him. So things have gotten complicated and we thought it was best to end our FWB relationship with him totally. He still calls her occasionally but he seems to have gotten the message. Too bad as it was really fun being with him.
At least we still have the other one, LOL
It is a beautiful thing when it works, but can be very troublesome when it doesnt.
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Quote by Ravyn
The first date is all about possibilities. The secret wants and lusts, the passion that could be building over a nice intimate meal and an exquisite bottle of wine. Watching the candles burn as the wax melts down the long slender candle, watching the flicker of light shining in his eyes. Scanning him from head to toe with your eyes, wondering what lies beneath that suit, the muscles the flesh.......Its all about the build up and getting to know each other. The ravishing will come in good time. But first take the time to get to know each other on a mental level, the brain is the largest most sexy organ in the human body. If you can't capture my mind and thoughts you do not stand a prayer in having my body.
Perfect!! This is what it is all about. This can all happen on the first date or it could take lots of time, but I like to know that we connect before going further. Now this is assuming that the goal is a relationship and not just a lustful encounter!
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I have three 18yo+ daughters so its a little different. I make it clear that they may be considered adults now and I really cant nor do i wish to control their lives. But they live in my house and they must obey my rules. I have been pretty liberal with them to a point since I know there are things they are gonna do anyhow and to be honest, they havent given me any reason to discpline them severely. But they also know I am their mom and must be respected. I think the best way is to talk to them as adults and explain my point of view, not just tell them this is the way and that's that!!
I did come home one evening and found one of them having sex in our pool. I told her I understand she is sexually active but it is my house and she has to respect the people who live here or she can find her own place to live. She appologized and it hasnt happened since (at least to my knowledge).
I did come home one evening and found one of them having sex in our pool. I told her I understand she is sexually active but it is my house and she has to respect the people who live here or she can find her own place to live. She appologized and it hasnt happened since (at least to my knowledge).
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I love anal too. It is hard to put into words why. Maybe it is knowing it is considered somewhat or dirty by many but it also feels so good too. I love the feeling of being full. I get my most intense orgasms when I have something in my ass as well as my pussy!!
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Thats hard to do as no 2 orgasms are identical. But mainly mine are like riding a rollercoaster. You start out with the buildup of the slow climb with the anticipation of what is to cum until you reach the peak of excitement then you get the thrill of small quick descents, each a little more intense then the previous one until you get to the point of no return and then that final climactic rush that you spent all that time waiting on line to experience!!!
Then you rush to get back on line for another delightful ride!!
Then you rush to get back on line for another delightful ride!!
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The few times I have cybered I did get off but I am really not into cybering. To be honest, I find cyber sex to be very awkward. I do however sometimes enjoy masturbating while chatting with someone about sex or fantasies, most times without the persons knowledge but sometimes I will tell them afterward.
I would cyber again with the right person, a few in particular I can think of, but so far they havent offered, LOL!!
I would cyber again with the right person, a few in particular I can think of, but so far they havent offered, LOL!!
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My mom caught me when I was a teen. I guess I was lucky as my mom appologized and later told me it was natural and nothing to be embarrassed about. I have also been caught a few other times too and was a little embarrassing but not too bad. Actually was a little exciting too!
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Not only is OK, I think it is great that you care enough about your mom to do this. But it may be best to discuss it with her first so she isnt embarrassed. And if she seems interested, I agree it might be best to get her a catalog to look at and let her pick what she thinks she may like to try.
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You should feel him out about having a FFM threesome and see what he thinks about that. And if he is into it (I assume he will be), then maybe you can mention the FMM. Or maybe you could ask him how he would feel about having a guy watch you and him having sex and then take it from there. Maybe watch some porn with a girl getting DP'd or just being with 2 guys and tell him how excited it makes you.
I have had a few threesomes with 2 guys but it was never with anyone I was in a serious relationship with. Each time the guys were totally straight but had no issues with the other guy being involved. There was no contact between the guys!!
I have had a few threesomes with 2 guys but it was never with anyone I was in a serious relationship with. Each time the guys were totally straight but had no issues with the other guy being involved. There was no contact between the guys!!
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I am just under 5'5 and with heels can be anywhere from 5'8 to 5'10, although the heels dont matter when in bed. I like guys who are tall and the tallest I have been with was 6'4. There was no problems there but not sure I would want to go much taller so maybe 6'6. But unless he was like 6'10+, it wouldnt be a deal breaker for me.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
I've done it in a pool... to be honest I don't really have a desire to do it again. The water doesn't allow you to naturally lube properly so it felt like this hard rubber dick stabbing me.. lol.. not that comfortable - I was kind of sore afterwards.
WOW! I finally found something I disagree with DD on, HAHA!!
I love sex in a pool or jacuzzi. Although I think it is more about the freedom and excitement.
But I do agree that lubrication can be an issue.
oh my yes
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If I was with a guy who really wanted me to do it then I would. Why wouldnt I do something for him that will bring him pleasure. I have always been adventurous and willing to try new things.
Now I would never suggest it to a guy, I think that is a situaltion where he would need to be the aggressor. I joke about doing it to some of my friends here on Lush, but in reality it really isnt a big turn on for me. But still, if it makes him happy.........................................!!
Now I would never suggest it to a guy, I think that is a situaltion where he would need to be the aggressor. I joke about doing it to some of my friends here on Lush, but in reality it really isnt a big turn on for me. But still, if it makes him happy.........................................!!
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Quote by blazestcyr
diabetic guys have shots that will give him a stiffy for hours
perhaps the pills have horrible side effects or put his health in peril?
(trouble is getting the right amout for sometimes a visit to the ER is necessary)
i have to agree with littlemiss bitch
if he was getting me off with other items that would be ok
would u leave your hubby if he was paralized??
however if the interest in sex is out the door...
i would have to give him a ultimatium...either fuck me...or hit the highway
sex is love...when u marry or commit..to love means sex.....
to deny sex is to deny love...for me
That is not a fair analogy!! He has no choice in being paralyzed, he can take the pills to get hard but chooses not too!
I do not think I could be in a relationship without sex, especially when the guy has issues but wont do anything to correct them. If he has any reason why he wont take the pills other than just being selfish, he should tell her. If they have a negative reaction on him then he should be honest about it. I think there are some other issues here.
I agree that I do not see any way this guy is planning on getting married to this woman. He seems content in what he has, but what that is I really dont know.
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Quote by pqhtm
The "smart wand" looks interesting. Will def have to try the Soraya. Haven't had anything like that. I normally stick with the wands and such
The only negative thing about the Soraya is that once you get it you may not leave your home for a week or so, LOL!! You will love it!!