Quote by Dancing_Doll

If you're looking for no-strings sex in a bar, go for the drunkest girl that's still on the dancefloor at 2am, preferably one that doesn't have a protective mother-hen girlfriend watching over her and giving you the evil eye as you make your approach.

As far as what to say... to be honest if I was looking for a one-nighter fuckfest, I would base 80% of my decision on how hot he was with 20% going to confident approach and those subtle nuances and conversational openers that would make me think he would be good in bed. You don't want to come across as overly aggressive or desperate. You make your pitch and then assume that 'take it or leave it' kind of stance and then let her come to you. Of course that's assuming she's coherent enough to get conversation in...

If not, the old "hey, want to come back to my place for more drinks (drugs/hot-tub/movie-watching/food/hang-out or whatever else you think might make a decent lure)" is the best way to go. Once you get her leaving the bar with you, even under the pretence of something non-sexual, chances are HIGH you are going to get laid. A lot of girls feel slutty about going home with a guy for sex and like to "pretend" it's for something innocent until the very last minute, at which point she will deliver the requisite "I swear I never have one night stands or just go home with guys" speech while you nod agreeably and show you understand that she's really a good girl at heart no matter how dirty she acts that night.

Otherwise maybe try a site like AFF or AshleyMadison where 'attached' or married women are looking for some fun on the side. They will be looking for the ride, not the headaches.

DD, Nothing like getting straight to the point!!LOL. God Love Ya!!!!

If all you are looking for is no strings attached sex, may be the way to go. And I also dont think the bar scene has really changed much over time either, except maybe us women have gotten a little more aggressive and are not afraid to make the first move. That was frowned upon when I was young(er).

Another thought is to look for the girl who is by herself. If she is drinking in a bar alone late at night, she may be ready for some fun.

BTW, I was in Cleveland once, I remember going to this one area that had a lot of bars,was a lot of fun. Wasnt far from the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame I think.

Good Luck!!

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