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Nikki703
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57

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My perfect partner!! She would be my best friend, my confidante, laugh at my warped sense of humor, be my sister (not literally, LOL). Love my kids and my family as if they were her own, allow me to be who I am, never judges me even if she doesnt agree with me, she would be very sexual, she would be very open-minded, wanting to explore our sexuality together, grow together, laugh together, cry together. She would always be there for me.

Oh, and she would be be about 38 yo, 5'6" tall, weigh about 120lbs, have blonde hair and be from Iceland.

And if I was looking for a guy, would want the same qualities except he would be much taller and have dark hair and I wouldnt care where he was from. LOL
I hate to say it but Looks Do Matter! You may be the nicest, sweetest most caring, fun loving guy or girl in the world but the physical attraction has to be there or you will never get to the point where you find out how nice that person is.

Are looks the #1 thing you look for, only trying to meet super hot women every other guy wants? Do you act like the guy that no one wants? If you think and act like no one wants you, then be sure no one will want you.

You can blame women or men, depending on preference, for your rejections and for being lonely. But in the end it doesn really matter why, you wiull still be lonely. Figure out the problem and fix it.

Find out what works for you. Live your life!!!
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Nikki, if you wore those outfits in the Wild West I think there might've been fewer gun fights...or maybe more????

Is it me or does LM look suspiciously like Tom Selleck? It's the pornstache isn't it???

Dude, might I say you're looking very cowboylicious!!

Tell, your date is looking absolutely lovely. Not overdressed at all.

SP, your pics scare me a little, just gotta say!!

You know what was bothering me? All of our pics are in color and don't seem from that time. Doesn't this cowgirl outfit look more traditional?




More Traditional, Maybe.

Yummy, DEFINITELY!!!!
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ever been with a married person( not your own)



Guilty...I think...forgot to ask...bar time decision you know!


Ever try to wipe going the opposite way you usually do....just because?


Wipe What?


I think he means "your" bum Nikki


Kinda Figured That! Was Just Hoping Maybe He Wasnt Being So Gross.
Or Maybe One Of These Would Look Hotter?





Or Maybe Me And A Couple Of Friends Can Dress Like This?

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Guilty

Ever just wanted to walk off your job?


Guilty

Ever Wake Up With Someone And Not Know (Or Remember) Their Name?
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ever been with a married person( not your own)



Guilty...I think...forgot to ask...bar time decision you know!


Ever try to wipe going the opposite way you usually do....just because?


Wipe What?
a shocked LM quickly pulled off the sock and he...........................................
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I agree with Scarlett about the genuine people thing. Also, as far as chat etiquette, "Hi, I'm horny" is not a good opening line AT ALL for me to hear. What am I supposed to say to that? "Oh, here then let me service you. I'll just drop my panties!" We are on an adult website, we're all fricking horny, we get that. My closest male Lush friends did not start the conversation that way. Getting to know someone is a good thing. Why don't you try talking to people about what you find interesting/in common in their profiles or why you wanted to be friends with them.

Regarding profiles, for the most part I don't talk to very many people with blank profiles. No effort by you, no effort by me. Some basic information is very helpful and usually means you'll be sticking around and not closing your profile in a few days.

The forums can be a great place to meet people, but I would watch and see how people post. Don't jump right in with "she can suck my cock" in AV above you, which I had a newbie say to me. He didn't get a very nice response from me either

Just be yourself, and you will do great! Good Luck, Fred!



I basically agree with everything Curlygirly said!

I really never go "profile surfing". I met most of my friends or at least the ones I call my closer friends through the forum. I can get a really good idea of what they are all about by how they answer and what questions they answer. I have also made friends from reading stories and commenting on them and maybe contacting the author to say how much I enjoyed them.

When I first joined Lush, when I got a friend request, I would look at their profile and if something caught me I would accept. But now, I generally will not friend anyone I have not had some type of contact with either in forum or chat room(I dont go to chat rooms that often any more). And I will never ask anyone to be a friend unless they know me a little, that is just not being respectful of them.

Best way to get me to want to chat is be freindly and respectful, not just of me but everyone on the site. Have a profile that tells something about you. Do not necessarily need any pics but show you made and effort. Dont start of with "wanna see my cock?" or "do you have any naked pics?" Those will be deleted.

Be genuine and most of all be yourself. That doesnt guarantee I will like you, but at least you arent being phony.
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But yes I'am bare down there. A Playboy strip is sexy to. Just nothing on the lips.


I agree. I always keep myself bare because it is just easier for me to just shave it all off in the shower, but I do think a lttle landing strip is very sexy.
Lets turn this a little.

When we act like ourself, we're being bitches
When we act the opposite of what we normally are, we are playing head games
When we cry, we are being too senistive
When you yell at us , we deserve it.
When you buy use gifts, we're high maintenance.
If we want to go out instead of staying home watching TV, we are selfish.



And You Wonder Why I Have A Girlfriend. LOL!!
With A Lushie If I Can Pick The Lushie, BTW, I Consider Some Lushies Close Friends!

WYR Watch Or Be Watched?
Definitely not something I would wear but not awful either. Personally I love the roundness of boobs, not points.

It is very much like the style worn in the 1950's.



he called for a shrink but when the doc got there it was actually Hannah pretending to be a shrink.

Dr Hannah told the officer that Tel needed to be immediately committed to Casa del Waco and be prepared for...................................
Can Accept

I Sometimes Hide My Fears By Acting(Or Trying To) Act Tough
Not That Often. I Love To Wear G-Strings, So Sexy! But Sometimes If Feeling Naughty Or If Very Hot Weather.
One In Mouth, One In Pussy......................And One In Ass......................So Im Greedy!!

WYR Have Sex With One Person Or Masturbate With Two People?
Like George Carlin Said, "Why Does A Dog Lick His Balls? Because He Can!!"

Of Course I Would!! I Love How My Juices Taste On My Fingers When I Masturbate So I Would Love To Taste My Pussy. Besides I Am Very Good At Eating Pussy, LOL!!

But Still Would Want Others To Lick Me Too
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Actually, mine's an f-spot.


Mine Would Be An O-Spot, Because When It Is Properly Stimulated, I Go OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!