While Hap was scrub-a-dub-dubbing in the bath, the other Lushies were looking thru the window and taking pics of Hap playing with his rubber duckie.
The Lushies were gonna delete the pics after having a good giggle, but Lola said.............................................................
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Nikki703
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57
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Quote by WHR43
I am older than most on this site and maybe more experienced than many.
Still I can not tell you what causes great sex, it is all nice, but not guaranteed to be great.
This I am sure of the failure to communicate is the fast lane to a failed sexual experience.
And it is certainly not completely the Guys failure to communicate. Remember ladies the poor dears have never been a woman. If you are too shy to tell them how,where,when, how fast or how slow who is to blame? We all are different and while he may know just how to put me into orbit you will be different. A quarter of an inch can do marvelous things.
The other side of the same coin, is doing all you can to make your partners pleasure at least as high a peak as yours is or better yet even higher than your partner could dream. I can't speak from a man's prospective, but I have talked to enough men to be pretty sure that they are not that different than we woman are.
If my partners has just taken me to a place that I have never been before, has just been in my mind. How hard is it to say no to a request to caravan to the next level of expermentation that I generally would reject before it get out of your mouth.
Just one woman's thoughts.
I fall into the same age group and I basically agree with what you are saying.
To me, in order to have great sex you must have a physical and mental attraction and spiritual connection on some level. You must be considerate of each other, dont be selfish! And most importantly there must be COMMUNICATION!!! Talk to each other, none of us are mind readers, everyone is different. What turns me on may not do anything for you. Experiment. It could be what is boring sex now could become amazing sex with just a few changes that he/she can tell you.
If its bad, it could become good. If its good it could become great. If its great it could become AMAZING!
Great sex is not just a destination but the journey to it. Enjoy the ride!!
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Think I have answered this already on another thread but here are a few.
1- Go to an adult playground resort like Hedo or Desires
2- A 10+ All Girl Orgy
3- Sex on tropical beach as sun rises
4- Sex outdoors in Hot Tub under the Northern Lights (hope to accomplish this one late this year)
5- Sex with 3 guys.
Many more
1- Go to an adult playground resort like Hedo or Desires
2- A 10+ All Girl Orgy
3- Sex on tropical beach as sun rises
4- Sex outdoors in Hot Tub under the Northern Lights (hope to accomplish this one late this year)
5- Sex with 3 guys.
Many more
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I have been with guys who were cool about having sex when Im having my period. And I do get horny as most women do. But now that I am in a relationship with another woman, we still are intimate but we dont do everything at that time. Although toys in the shower can be lots of fun!!! Luckily we are both pretty much on the same cycle so we kill two birds with one stone so to speak.
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Even though I love long hair on a guy, its not the hair that makes the guy. If I liked him, I wouldnt care what his hair or lack of hair was like. Although the comb over is a little pathetic, kind of like grasping at the last remaing strands. Im not into facial hair but a shaved head with a goatee is very sexy!!
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Me and my SO do not live together but when we share a bed to sleep, I always sleep on the left side of the bed. Usually we start off cuddling with her holding me from behind in a spoon position (no it is not one of us in position of control thing,just comfort. LOL) But by the time morning comes around she is usually on her side and we sleep like normal people. And we both love to sleep with a blanket even in the summer. I usually sleep naked and she either naked or in just a thong. Both are pretty quiet sleepers although I have been told I talk a little sometimes. We both have King size beds and have TV's in our bedrooms but we rarely watch when in bed together unless maybe Seinfeld reruns or some cable porn.
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Is totally OK! I have watched porn with both Men and Women and sometimes find it to be a great turn on. Wondering what it would be like to try that position, use a specific toy in a new way. Me and my SO like to watch porn made from a womans point of view. But even though we are both women, we also like MF porn, especially older porn from the 80's and 90's and some very kinky stuff too.
Porn is healthy as long as it used to enhance a relationship and not as a substitute for one.
Porn is healthy as long as it used to enhance a relationship and not as a substitute for one.