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Nikki703
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57

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First you have to find out if she also shares this kink and if she is interested in doing it if she's part of the primary couple.

Basically you just have to ask her... start some fantasy role-plays, maybe watch some threesome porn with her and talk about it. Or you can say "hey, my friend just told me this story about how he and his girlfriend just had a threesome..." to break the ice in a more cautious way. It's not going to ever "just happen" until you can have an honest conversation with her and set the ground rules.

Then if she is willing... you can try finding someone online, at a club/bar, going to a fetish, swinger or sex party, hire an escort, or try to hook things up on a vacation when everyone tends to be a little more adventurous.


As usual, DD was right on target. Talk, Talk, Talk, then Talk some more. Make sure you both know what you want and what you expect from it and how far you are comfortable going. And if you decide to do it, make sure you pay attention to each other and not just the 3rd person. I am friends with a couple who have threesomes with other women but they have rules where the girls can be together, but the man and the other girl can only do oral. But they really enjoy it. If you have threesome make sure this is all spelled out before hand.

For your first time, doing it on vacation can be great. Maybe to an Adult Playground resort like Hedo or Desires. That way, you will be with like minded people and you dont have to worry about anyone you know finding out and if it turns out that you were not comfortable with it and it is just a one time fling, then it can be forgotten. And if you did enjoy it and want to make it a part of your sex life together, you will have more confidence pursuing it at home.
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Just a question for all those that profess to love ass-licking (which there seems to be a healthy representation of on Lush), how are you then repulsed by the idea of sucking a cock or dildo that has been in your ass? I don't really get how you can love one but be turned off by the other. We are talking about your ass too... you know how 'clean' you are before engaging in anal, right?

I'm surprised rimming seems to be such a huge hit on Lush, but ass-to-mouth is considered a major to avoid (at least based on the answers in this thread so far).

I guess I'm going to be the first to admit to enjoying it! Personally, I love sucking a cock that's still slick with cum after anal... or even after using a dildo while being watched. I think there's a hot, uninhibited sensuality to it.

And... unlike some of the other women in this thread, I'm not really into chopping off balls after sex... I find that during the haze of afterglow, castrating your partner kinda spoils the mood.







I definitely understand that some won't do ass to mouth. I get it. But in reference to some of the previous remarks, after anal sex a cock isn't covered with s*@t is it? It's been a long time since I've had anal. But I don't recall it looking like it just came out of Hershey,Pa. Experienced anal lovers know to have the area free and clear of any obstructions. DD, is that correct? I understand that of not wanting something in your mouth that's been in your ass. I get it, but lets get teh facts right shall we?


I can only speak for myself, but... I do have a vibrator designated especially for anal play, as well as a glass dildo that I use when in the mood and I have honestly never seen anything on it after playtime is over. Nor have I seen anything on a cock or on the sheets after anal. Clearly it would not be going in my mouth if there was any 'mud on the helmut' (to coin Magical Felix's term.. lol). And no, there is no 'taste' of anything foul either. All I really ever 'taste' is cum or lube.

I think Nikki summed it up perfectly. As a woman, you know how clean you are. Some of us girls maybe take more care to be cleaner than others... and those are probably the girls that have enjoyed a little more uninhibited ass play.

And as far as ass licking goes, I guess I was assuming tongue-fucking would be included, but I know many just stick to the superficial outer rim so maybe they can rely on the technicalities of it to remain squeamish about ass-to-mouth. I personally don't really see it as a major or shocking, but maybe that's a generational thing.


I also meant tongue fucking, but even then, my tongue(even though it is pretty long) doesnt penetrate as far as a cock would, unless it is a micro-cock or whatever that was called, LOL! And I have also never seen anything or smelled anything funky on a cock or a dildo that came out of my ass or my GF ass. I surely wouldnt put it in my mouth if I did.

I do not see anal play as either so being that I am substantially "older" than you, not sure if it is a generational thing or not.

And I also agree that as a whole , at least in North America, we are too uptight regarding sex. Most tend to over think it and may worry about what others will think. Fuck them!! Just Enjoy It!! I am not saying you should do anal or ass to mouth or anything you arent into. But just enjoy what you do to the fullest and dont over think it.
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It is not a bad thing or a good thing. Not knowing why you are still a virgin makes it hard to give an opinion. Are you waiting for true love? Are you just very shy? Lack confidence to approach women? If you are waiting until you find a girl you truly love, then I think that is very comendable.

But whatever the reason, I don't think it is something you should worry about. If it really bothers you, I am sure you can find someone to take your virginity. And I am also sure there are probably a lot of women your age who may have waited also.

I think in someway, a lot of us may wish we waited a little longer.
I thouroghly enjoy having my ass licked and licking my partners ass too, especially if it is a woman. But I do see a big difference in licking an asshole (no pun intended guys, LOL) and sucking a cock that was buried 5 or 6 inches inside. Having said that, I will also admit that personally I have performed ass to mouth with several guys and also with dildos and like it. After all it is my ass, I know where it has been! And if I know that anal sex is a probability or even a possibility, I always make sure I am extra clean back there. Actually cleaning deep inside is a something I do regularly anyhow as I find it very pleasurble as well as very sanitary.

I think for some women wont admit to liking it because society as a whole finds it gross or in many ways a deviant act.

And as far as chopping off balls, I agree that it can be kind of a mood breaker!!
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