Quote by WHR43
Many of us have been in that position and were not certain just what direction we should go in. I now look back and only wished that I had found the wonderful experiences that women can enjoy together earlier. You may find that you are, the term generally used is Bi-Sexual, one I don't care for. Or You may at some point find you are actually a Lesbian. Or maybe your really are straight. It seems to me that you need to explore your sexuality and find just where you are most comfortable.
You certainly need to explore these feeling with you Fiancee. He needs to know of these feeling and how they may effect your relationship with him. He may not be able to handle the idea, but many men are really turned on with the idea.
You are young and should not be thinking of any long term relationship until you know who you are and exactly what your sexuality is.
From One Old Enough to be your Mom!
I couldnt agree more!! You need to find out who you are sexually, if you dont you will never be totally happy. But you also need to discuss these feelings with your fiancee if you truly love him. I found out at a very young age that I loved being with women sexually, but repressed these feelings throughout my marriage. I never discussed them with my husband(although I doubt the asshole would have approved) but I now regret not telling him. There is nothing worng with experimenting to find out who you are. It is all part of the "Journey". You may find you love being with women or maybe you wont like it. but not knowing is not fair to yourself.
I too am old enough to be your mom and I have encouraged my daughters to experiment if they feel like it is something they may want to do. Some people may say that makes me a bad mother, but I just want them to know who they truly are. And today, it is not the it once was, at least for women. Good Luck with your journey!
