Quote by Dancing_Doll
Hmm... I think it depends on the connotations you associate with that word. Some people take offence to it, some people love the word when it's used as part of dirty talk, and other people celebrate the word as a female who is in control of her own sexual needs and desires (similar to how the word "bitch" has come to be a term of empowerment among some women).

Personally I can't stand when people denigrate or insult women for owning their sexuality and doing what they want and when they want to do it. We've moved out of the dark ages. It's no longer acceptable to call a guy a "stud", but a woman a "whore" (if it's being used negatively) when it comes to people who are free and open with their sexuality.

I think it's all semantics (ie. whore, slut, fuckdoll etc.).... I don't see anything wrong with what you're doing. If you're enjoying sex and not hurting anyone, then who's to say how much is too much in terms of promiscuity?

I think it would be sad if your friend is considering herself a "whore" but uses that term in a negative way and as a form of self-punishment for having such an open and active sex life.

Own what you want and what you do. It only becomes a negative thing when you, yourself, start to morally judge your own actions and end up feeling guilty or remorseful because you feel that you're acting outside the norm of what is "allowed."

This is more of a curiosity thing than anything else. I am quite happy with who I am, see nothing wrong with how I act or things I do and have no intention on changing. I enjoy sex and enjoy my life. I have never had sex for monetary gain or anything such as that. The reason for the question is more wanting to know what others think about it. If everyone who responded said I WAS A WHORE, I still would not change anything at all. I totally agree that as long as no one gets hurt, then whats the harm.

But thanks for the response. You made very valid points!

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