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Nikki703
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Ask her if she is interested in trying anal again.
If she is, it might be worthwhile to get her a butt-plug, an anal vibrator and a bottle of lube, and let her experiment on her own a bit. She'll probably feel more comfortable going at her own pace at first so that she can have a good experience with it and understand how amazing it can feel. It might also help if she's experimenting without the pressure of you sitting there with a hard-on, wanting to speed things along. If she experiments on her own a few times, she'll probably be more open to trying again with you.
Because she had a painful first attempt, she will be all nerves at this point. If she's the one lubing a butt-plug or toy and inserting slowly on her own, she has the option to go as slow as she needs to.
I have a friend who is "trying to get comfortable with anal" and this is what she's doing to relax herself to the experience, after several failed attempts with her man... A bit of anal-training without any pressure from you is probably the best way to go with this...
GREAT ADVICE!! Now why didn't I think of that since this is exactly what I did. I played with toys myself before I actually tried with a person. Then I knew exactly what it would be like and it became very enjoyable.
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I don't think you have ruined your chance forever. But you and your wife need to talk about this. Ask hear her fears about it, was it just because of her bad experinece getting fucked dry. Try licking her ass. go from her pussy to her ass and back and forth. Touch her ass with your fingers but be sure they are well lubed. Maybe watch vids of anal sex but try to find ones where it is done with passion and not just a guy pounding the girl. It may take time but if you discuss it with her, she may be willing to try it again. Since she did let you do it that first time, she must have some interest in it. Just be caring and considerate of her desires and try show her that she will like it.
Anal sex can be very pleasurable but it is hard to overcome a bad experience. Good Luck!
Anal sex can be very pleasurable but it is hard to overcome a bad experience. Good Luck!
