Quote by mxxx
Just ignore those guys and keep this question the way you wanted. I am glad woman are so open to discuss this.

Quote by Dancing_Doll
I've never understood this issue, and how/why girls don't initiate, unless you are intimidated by your man, in which case you definitely need to be communicating more in general.

I've always just reached out and started touching him, or whispered something dirty in his ear.

Sometimes, I put a cute spin on things (like when woman ask their man if an outfit makes them look fat), where I'd be in the bedroom and call out to him in another room, "honey, can I get your advice on something?" And then I'd walk out stark naked except for a hot little thong and ask innocently, "Do these panties make my pussy look wet?" I can't think of a time where that didn't get an instant reaction.