Being someone who had loved this genre for years thanks to Anne Rice & her Sleeping Beauty Chronicles (not for the faint of heart) I did read these as well. I liked the first book and was pissed with the ending. I knew I had to read book two which of course forces you to read book three.
My primary complaint is how shitty Christian Grey behaves. In book one it made sense but by book three he's still a petulant child for all practical purposes, and Ana is a spineless wimp.
Was the sex hot? Yes. But it was so unrealistic too.
Was the story enjoyable for me? Mostly yes. But it seemed these were two almost perfect people. Christian is smart, wealthy, and a sex fiend. Ana could cook, cut hair, and was very book smart, but had no spine to Christian. And when she did, it blows up in her face (so to speak.) And why the fuck is she still treated like a child by so many people in her life. That bugged the shit out of me as well. For those who have read it, you know what I'm talking about.
I hate reading about spineless women. I understand she was naive, but still spineless is uncalled for.
I did like the way the series ended, but I do wish it showed Ana with more spine.
As for the movie, I will not see it the theater. I might rent it, but I kinda doubt it.
And to be honest, I've read better BDSM themed stories here on Lush... but that's my opinion.
My goals are simple... Author 50, EP, maybe win a Lush contest, and Ominum badge.
Truly, my ultimate goal is to take my work and publish them so I get paid. I'd love to retire on my writing royalties.
If anyone needed to see this today, it was me... thank you so much Banes.
I'm sure I answered this before, but I do like to sleep naked after my husband and I have made love. Normally, I do wear shorts & a tank top. But here lately, with the 100+ degree days and 80+ degree nights... sleeping naked is happening more & more often.
Congrats girl!!! I know how hard you worked to earn this one!
If I were still single and the opportunity were to arise, then yes. I've dated all kinds of men so why not try a "little person".
I only won't now because my husband won't understand.
I know an ex is an ex for a reason.
The sperm donor who helped create my wonderful, now adult son, needs to quit acting like this child is a burden. I asked him to pay for 1/2 of the vehicle registration for our son's car... a grand total of $50. He wasn't asked to pay for the car, only 1/2 the insurance after I paid it for 2 years without asking for a fucking dime. Our son is a good person, with a college degree, but in the process of trying to find a job like many other college grads.
He acts like he is a problem or a burden. Yet, he'll bend over backward for a child that is not his what-so-ever. Now, I'm not against being a father-figure to a young man who needs one, but I am against neglecting the wonderful child you fucking helped to create. Fatehrhood doesn't stop at sperm donation. I'm sure those fathers out there who actually do what they can for their child/chldren would agree that being a father is more than just fucking the mother.
My current husband, the man who makes me happy, has been more of a father to my son in the 6+ years we've been together than my ex has been my son's entire life (and again, my son is over 18.)
So, a page or so ago I posted about a "friend" who was whining on a public social network site about things then got all pissy with me when I called her out on her shit. Well, it seems the two-faced bitch has "unfriended" me after she posted publicly that she didn't unfriend people. I don't have a problem with people's opinions, even when I don't agree with them. But I do have problems when they are hypocritical and two-faced. Now, she didn't block me, and the way I figured out the unfriending was I tracked her through her wife/partner (no offence to my gay friends but I've heard both terms used) and saw that it said "add as a friend" instead of "friends". Her childish rants continue but now I no longer have to see them.
No names will be mention, but I'm tired of people who post a whiny post on a social network site (like Facebook) then bitch when you call them on their bullshit. A "friend" did just that but claimed they didn't care what I thought. If that were true... why did this person write a 5 paragraph response?!? Pure bullshit!!! If you post it on a public site where others can comment then act like a fucking adult and accept the response. Not everyone will agree with you (DUH!!!) but you don't get to whine about the responses you don't agree with.
For our 5th year wedding anniversary we had prime rib at Ron's Steak House inside Arizona Charlies in Las Vegas, NV.