Innocent. Too busy watching my BFF have her two kids or me having my son.
Have you ever had sex in a public place? (I'm sure it was asked already)
The tags help a lot. Usually, if a story can catch my eye in the opening paragraph, I'll probably read through. There are certain things I'm not a fan of, but I know not everyone will like what I write either.
Wow, most of what was said is what I would have said. I have myself set as "away" so I don't get bombarded by "chat requests". You can also set yourself as "invisible" which I do if all I want to do is read & not be bothered by even the "on-line" chats (the little 100 character limit window).
Now, everyone has a different opinion about the cyber thing, and I respect your opinion in this. Happily, most of the folks I chat with have taken the time to get to know me first before engaging into a cyber session (and only a select few have cybered with me.) So, I think if you follow the advice the wonderful folks who have already given, you should be fine.
Oh yeah... and for those who think you're being a bitch... FUCK THEM! (not literally) You are here to share your stories and maybe read a few (I know that's why I'm here.) I stay because there are a few I love to chat with, and I get great feedback on my stories.
Stay strong hon! We might not agree in the realm of cyber, but I respect your opinion and desire to share your work.
Innocent. However, I'm guilty of being up too late to due to LUSH.
Have you ever had oral sex while driving a car & you were the driver?
Depends on the age. If he's under 18 (I teach so middle school boys sometimes get a crush on me) then I'm careful to let him down gently. However, there has been this 18 year old young man who more than once has flirted with me. Now, he is still a student where I work so I've done nothing to encourage it (I like my job thank you very much), but, if we were to meet and he continued to flirt, I'd love it. Actually, I enjoy it now... it makes me feel sexy.
Now, in all honesty, I'd let the guy down as gently as I could primarily because I'm married. However, when I was single, a guy that was more than 10 years younger was hard for me as any younger meant they were too close to my son's age and for me, that was just weird.
But... as long as it's just harmless flirting... it's all good. And it's a lot of fun.
I have cybered many times in a span of about 10 years or so, give or take. I have amazing 10+ experiences and horrid, shitty -10 experiences. The key to a good cyber session is communication. By this I mean, I and my partner need to pay attention to what the other person is saying or typing. I had one where the other person wasn't paying attention and I literally wrote myself out hoping they'd stop me. On the other side of the equation, the person was so careful with their word choice that I literally had an orgasm from reading their words. I like it when the person makes it clear what they like, and asks me what I like, or is willing to experiment a bit. I have found that good authors make good cyber partners as they get creative with what they write.
Now, I do need to be in a "cybering" mood to really get into it. If I had a shitty ass day, or I'm sick, I won't really be in the mood to play. Nothing I hate more than when the "other person" just assumes that I'm on like, ergo, I'm in the mood to cyber. I like to be asked first.
To me, cyber gives me some great ideas for stories, aids when I have writers block, and allows me to explore without breaking my wedding vows to my husband.
I do.
And honestly it's because I have found a lot of discomfort when I've shaved. My panties rub against my pussy and irritate it. The grow back is itchy and prickly. And the maintenance is a bitch. I know some ladies shave and/or wax and that is their choice. This is mine.
If a guy doesn't like it... then he can find someone else to be with. I don't tell him how to wear his pubic hair so why should he tell me how to wear mine?
I hope that answers your question... & I hope you hear from other ladies.
When I was younger, my mom told me only sluts masturbated. After my 2nd divorce, I realized that it was cheaper, safer, and easier. Not to mention totally natural. Now I'm happily married and my husband loves it when I help him get me off. Plus, when he's not in the mood, masturbation keeps me from fucking up my marriage. It's completely normal, natural, and it needs to stop being . I mean, guys do it so why can't we? Plus, knowing what you like as a woman can aid in your sex life. I can either tell or show my husband what I like, or help as he's only got two amazing hands and can't touch as much as four can (his two, plus my two).
Never really thought about the music but something soft, slow, sexy would be nice.
Personally, I like lying in the bed either on my side or on top of him... 69 is always fun as I get something as well. I dislike being on my knees as it hurts and I have issues with my knees already without sitting on them for a long time. However, I have just sat on the floor while he was sitting so I could suck his cock and I could sit on my ass... that totally fucking worked.
I've been here before and it really depends. I can say for myself personally, seeing my (ex) husband fuck another woman was hard for me. However, it depends on the relationship you have with your husband.
For me, a man looks good when he is well groomed. He can look hot in a t-shirt & jeans, or a nice suit as long as his hair is brushed, and he's either clean shaven, minor stubble, or well groomed facial hair.
Sloppy isn't sexy.
I have a bit of experience with this. My 1st husband was 19 years older than me. It wasn't our age difference that was the problem, it was his desire to change me, & his cheating that did us in. My 2nd husband was 9 years older than me. As with the first husband, it wasn't an age issue that caused our demise, but his drug use and cheating ass.
My current husband is almost 2 years younger than me, and we've never been happier. He doesn't do drugs, he doesn't cheat, he doesn't try to change me, and we respect each other. To me, age has always been just a number. It's about the relationship the two people share. It is harder for couples with an age gap as so many don't understand. But here's the thing... a good man is a good man, a cheating bastard is a cheating bastard. Doesn't really matter how old or young. Any man that expects a woman to change to what he THINKS he wants is doomed. Any woman who thinks she's going to change her man to what she THINKS she wants is equally doomed. My husband & I have accepted our differences, we respect each other, and learned from one another what works & what doesn't. We've even discovered new things that the other liked that we like.
The key is communication. I wish you luck in your relationship.
It worked great as no one saw him reach under my skirt, and yet, we were getting our freak on. 
I'm sick of abusive relationships..
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