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OldDog_BlackHeart
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 73
United States

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I know this is A question for the Gals, but I think the question is A bit vague.It might help to be more specific as to what kind of slave you desire. Are you talking B.D.S.M. or Sissification, perhaps forced Bi. Please elaborate.
And the pot calls the kettle black. Like I said believe what you want, you will anyway. All I can say at this point is, Quote:
" I'M just sayin I understand. " ( Criss Rock )
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I was glad to see some pics. of Women in this thread, like this one. As opposed to a lot of girls. Some appeared to be barely legal. And a few were questionable. If your A middle aged to older man and your looking at pictures of naked teen aged girls, and getting hot & bothered. you could be A pervert. As for this woman I would say natural not small. I would say normal but normal is A controversial term & I know how some people love controversy.
I don't do relationships any longer, I'M Jaded. Many people that think they know me, Think it's because of my X wife. Their wrong. She was as they say, " Just the tip of the iceberg. " The fact is after over half A century of being lied to,cheated,used & manipulated by people. I have learned you can trust everybody A little & no one completely. My favorite quote " A wise man believes only in lies, Trusts only in the absurd, And learns to expect the unexpected." ( Ronald Dahl ) ( Tales of the unexpected ) Getting back to the thread at hand. My longest L.T.R. my marriage of 23 yrs.. The biggest problem wasn't about eccentricities or faithfulness or mental cruelty As my wife claimed. Irreconcilable Differences, Perhaps I never could get used to the idea of pissing money away. I guess that's an issue that could be considered beyond reconciliation. But no I believe it was about Trust. As mentioned by so many others in this thread. It's hard to believe you can love someone you can't trust,but it happens.It doesn't matter if it's about sex or money or secrets told in confidence. The outcome is the same. Heart break.
After my divorce the Union I belonged to for 25 yrs.S.M.W.I.A. suspended me for non payment of dues. My feelings F/U & good riddance. (Another bunch of lying bastards) I went back to what I did before I joined them. Driving A truck. I got an apartment put A desk in the living room for my comp. above it A plaque "To rely on others is to be disappointed " Don't know the person that made that quote,but I'd like to thank him. In summation, Trust no one, Rely only on yourself & believe only in you. One more quote " Love Kills Slowly "
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You clearly support what went on, makes you as bad as him. did offer to chat but you chickened out, thats cool.

you know nothing about it, you have a downer about women unless they have a cock lol now is that a little too much one way ha ha

Talk to ME or not at all

zzzzz



Your wrong. I sent you A private message explaining why. I will not discuss or argue this matter in Forum any further. Forum is not for arguing.XlgZBOaLyv034OPw Believe what you want. You will anyway.
I don't have A problem with meeting them. The problem is getting them to agree with meeting me.
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I have met many wonderful people on Lush and have thought about actually meeting up with a few. But not sure if I ever will. Sometimes it is better to leave fantasy as just that. We may meet up and not like each other and ruin something wonderful we had. And since I am not looking for a relationship, more to lose than gain.

But I thank LUSH for letting me meet so many Wonderful, Interesting, Sexy People!!



Perhaps it's because we can't figure out how to get to the other side of the mirror. Please keep in mind there are other people out there that are also not looking for A relationship. And theres always the chance you might meet up with someone and you do like each other. Perhaps you might ending up having some fun. You'll never know unless you try.oovHfCj3EdAIfGII
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This post only tells part of the story, basically got married too young, like a silly cow i was pregnant everyone said we well suited, but nope we were not. all sorts of problems, you do know the half of it, including violence and , so milking him financially is revenge and to help me and my lil girl start a new normal life.

dont pick on me without knowing me ok

if you want to talk sometime look me up ok x Jelly



Sorry but your original statement made you sound like A gold digger. Perhaps if you were more descriptive I would have been more understanding. And not to get on your case, but divorce is not supposed to be about revenge. Theres A term divorce attorneys use loosely & they shouldn't, Amicable. ( look it up ) It doesn't mean milk him dry.I'M sorry you had A bad marriage, but divorce isn't about getting even, It's about getting on with your life. Not about destroying his. Good Luck with your new life.
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the one word that puts me off is husband, hes a low life and because he has gone off sex why should i go without, well i cant . i get it all i can mmmm
our divorce is due yippeeeeeepeeeee just in the process of milking him dry financially then off for a new life yessssss Jelly xxx



If he was such A low life why did you marry him? Oh yea thats rite you explained that the whole milk him dry thing. Thats not being A low life is it?
I swore when I started reading this thread I wasn't going to post A comment. However after reading all this stuff. ( Is that A turn off too?) I just felt compelled. First off the word most complained about was Cunt. I can understand this one because it stands for, (Cant Understand Normal Thinking) which most can't.,but I digress. Bitch runs A close second. Now this is dead wrong. Everybody knows that refers to A dog. Women are not dogs. Men are dogs. Now slut on the other hand Depends on how it's used.Terms like Baby & who's your daddy, I can see the indications there. Quiet or Shush I can see the furry there. One thing women are famous for is never knowing when to shut the hell up. Stop Talking! Are you out of your mind? You might as well say don't breath.And Whore again I could see this being bad, A terrible remark if your not paying for it.( Although we usually do in one way or another) What really shrinks my bat & balls is now I'M hearing complaints about words like Honey or Dear. It's like the perfect man is A deaf mute.If I ever sleep with another woman I'M going to get me A bicycle horn & pretend I'M Harp o Marx. Threads like this one make me want to change from Bi to Gay.E3BRaMoMcxbAmebv

PS. I'M not going to complain about the love or lover thing being Jaded myself, I can see how that might press on a nerve.znGofRFPnfZicLo1
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One of my moderator colleagues shared this YouTube video the other day.

I couldn't stop laughing




LMAO That Gilbert is funny. The only thing I could think of that would be funnier, would be James Earl Jones reading it.
I'M still hoping for A post with A bit of mayhem. Seems like there ought to be someone out there thats had A close call.
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The problem is that guys can judge our breast size by shamelessly gazing at them
but we grls have no such privilage to judge whether the guy is telling the truth unless we sleep with them



First of all I'd like to say it's A shame women are so hung up on size. After all it's not how long you make it. It's how long you can make it for. (say huh?) OK so let me explain the guy's got A ten inched cock, but he cums in ten seconds. How great is that? Another guy only has six inches, but he can go for an hour or more. Which one do you want?
Second I can't speak for every male but breast size doesn't impress me. In fact too big is A turn off. There again the size of A womans breast is probably more important to her than most guys. They claim men are more shallow than women, but I think that's debatable.



Look Ma no spelling errors. I guess thats why laptops & desk tops are better than your so called smart phones.
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I prefer a bear's cock!



Your such A slut. I think it's your most adorable quality.AoTEOMIHbrpZMZdo
Well this thread is definitely controversial. My X wife insisted on using A condom she didn't like the taste. I used to have to buy non lubed for just that reason.I myself love the taste & agree if your not sure of the person you probably shouldn't be sucking them off. However you can never be 100% sure of anyone. As for feeling I don't think it's as bad as getting A foot rub with your socks on,but yes it is less pleasurable. Sometimes you have to be willing to make small sacrifices for the sake of your partner.
It's A shame our greatest artistic talents only come out at times when our emotions run high. Times of extreme happiness or sadness or anger. However thats the way it is. Show me an artist without emotions & I'll show you an unaccomplished artist. My advice is embrace your frustration's & you will be A great artist. Perhaps an unhappy one, but everything comes at A cost. To quote Bob Dillon "Everybody must get stoned" As far as rejection goes every artist is rejected at one time or another. It's part of the process. Sometimes what is rejected at first can be accepted later. Don't let it bother you just keep on going.
I had tried cross dressing at home when I was single.Gave it up when I got married.I tried it with my X wile when we were only married about 5 years, as part of A role reversal game. to see if it would turn her on. she was OK with it but I could tell it wasn't A turn on for her. So I/we never did it again. I decided to keep my desires to my self & never dressed again. By the time we divorced after 23 yrs of marriage I felt too old to pick up where I left off. Besides it"s an expensive hobby.
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When I was younger I gave a BJ while driving and received one also. Have not had an opportunity recently. Plus most cars are built with a console now versus a bench type of seat in the past which was much easier. Guess I am showing my age.



Not to worry A lot of cars still have bench seats. In fact my Mercury has A bench seat. (hint wink)
I think drinking to an excess will alter anyones persona. Especially if their not used to drinking.When I was young & unseasoned my persona was escalated by drinking. For example if I was in A bad mood when I started drinking I became A mean drunk.& often got into fights. If I was in A good mood I would get silly & laugh & tell jokes. If depressed I would become quiet & aloof. Not wanting to talk to anyone.Times like those I was either contemplating murder or suicide. Never did either, just finished getting drunk & went off & passed out somewhere. Over the years I learned to control my self & the amount I consumed. Alcohol never was my drug of choice to begin with. Now When I do drink there isn't much difference. If I drink I almost never get drunk just semi drunk at best. I do sometimes slip & say something I normally would keep to myself. Usually nothing important, Just what some would call blunt honestly.Like when A woman asks does this dress make my ass look fat? And you blurt out yes without thinking. It doesn't happen often, but it happens. Other than that kind of thing I appear as normal as anyone else.
Thanks for the feedback so far. I would have expected at least one incident, but I guess not. At least not so far.
I was watching an episode of 2 & a half men the other day & Allen was getting A BJ while driving his car. i have heard of this on TV & movies but have never had it happen to me in real life. the few people I have felt comfortable discussing this with say they haven't either. The closest experience I ever had was when I was on A double date with A friend. My date & I were riding in the back of my friends conversion van. We started kissing, he hit A bump in the road & our teeth hit each others. Not wanting to give up we tried again, this time she accidentally bit my tongue. Not bad enough to bleed or anything but it was enough to make me decide this wasn't A good idea. Now I suppose if we were in A limo the experience would have differed, But I have never had the opportunity to find out.
So my question is, Have you ever had the BJ while driving experience? Did it go well or not? Were there any accidents or injury's?
Porn is A term used all too loosely. People have been arguing it's definition for A long time.And what should be considered as such.Some members here at lush do post images that may be considered as porn. However that does not define this site as A porn site. The site is advertised as adult erotica. And that is the best definition for what is found here. However like anything else you will always find someone who wants to argue about it.HSn6kd4P42oEpltN The only response I can think of for those people is
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It depends on the context. Who is saying it to whom,and how it's being said. It's not always A female, there are male sluts. In fact I think I may be one.L.O.L.
In the L.G.B.T. community it's usually A term of endearment, but not always. As for myself I think it's someone who is free of inhibitions & enjoys various sexual positions. With more than one other person. ( non monogamous ) Or more than one person at A time. It's all good to me.WcDBo0r0hxX4FtAP
Shut the hell up. I don't mind some moaning or groaning A little oh yea rite there, she can gasp & say fuck me,yes oh yes. But other than that no conversation.
The worse thing she can do is ask, are you done yet? (I'M sorry are you late for an appointment?) Or the ultimate turn off call you by another mans name.There ar A bunch of other things A woman can say in bed to kill the mood but you get the Gist. The best turn on I can think of, Lets 69 Oh yea.WBbPWCDCko0qZvfR
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It really is more about preparation, relaxation and lubrication than it is about size.

As for definitely, it does seem to be one of the most commonly misspelt words here.



I understand your point, but all preparation,lube & relaxation aside; I'd still rather ride the horse than have the horse ride me. Pardon the pun, but this is not my first Rodeo. L.O.L.
As for definitely, it was just an excuse to lead up to the joke that followed. Although it does amaze me that people seem to ignore the red underline that tells them they have misspelled A word. Believe me my posts would be loaded with errors if not for that. Thank You Microsoft for inventing spell check.8lYUHGb8nszws1AY
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I most deffinately am a bottom, love to get down and suck his cock and for me the best sex is being fucked deep and hard by a big cock



Let me start by saying I have read all the posts to date. I must say I'M just the opposite of this one.It's the reason I am A switch. I will gladly bottom & enjoy it if the cock is of A normal or average size. However I've had that Big Hard over sized cock. No I didn't enjoy it. It hurt like hell.If your hung like that, no way am I letting you get on top. As Clint Eastwood said " A mans got to know his own limitations" By the way I don't like correcting people's grammar but the word is definitely.One f- i not a. I bring this up because it brings me to the next question. What's the definition of the word indefinitely? Answer: When your balls are slapping against his your in definitely. ( from A top's point of view )
I'M A total package connoisseur. Women are like fine wine or art. You have to take in the entire view. Hair, face ears,neck.boobs, waist. ass, legs & yes even feet. Look at the whole picture then talk to her.( Like smelling the bouquet of A fine wine.) If she is the most beautiful Woman in the world. It means nothing if she has the personality of A Evil Bitch. Remember Beauty is only skin deep, and eventually fades. And Evil Bitch goes down to the bone. On the other hand if your into BDSM that might be just what your looking for. Hmm?