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OldDog_BlackHeart
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 73
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Quote by MLogan
My boyfriend is a lot younger than me, and I would like to know what you guys think..
what age difference do you think would be too much?



I would say yes it does matter. No more than 20 years I would say. Think about it, more than that Your having sex with someone that could be your child. Would you want your children to have sex with someone your age?
Quote by CDslut
Would I be able to all of them? Top, bottom, switch, men, women, another t girl. Love them all.



OK I shouldn't have to explain this ,but no you can't. The third choice switch( obviously your choice)
Means both of the first two.So the question is Top Bottom or Both. Hope this answers your question.
I post this question for the Cd,TV,TS,& TG portion of our community. Which label best describes you? Top, Bottom, or Switch
And do you prefer Men or Women. Or another T?
My profile name used to be Night Man because that's when I liked to come and read here at lush. Late at night into the early hours of the morning.
As an infant the first thing you will focus on is your mothers eyes. You will search for those eyes through out your life, when you are looking for A suitable mate. ( From the Time Life book series ) Understanding Human Behavior (1979)
Quote by ChuckEPoo
Sure I love eating eating pussy. But... Like everything there are parameters. Good hygene is important. A hot chick helps a ton. She should be ready for me to stick it if I lick it.




Well that's putting it kind of bluntly, but I agree It depends, Especially if she's wearing Depends.
Thanks but I'll pass in that case. I like mine A bit fresher TY.
If at first you don't succeed try again but try it differently. It may not be the message, but the way it's worded or how your sending it.
Reminds me of A plaque I saw on A wall somewhere. It read, God grant me patients & I need them rite now.
It fits I consider myself an old dog & I like whiskey, The hat & tie just add some character. LOL as for the Black Heart in my user name, It's explained in my profile bio.
Quote by MrNudiePants
It's me. Nothing fancy - what you see is what you get.




That's you? I thought it was A picture of Johnny Cash.
Quote by sprite


a few things.

one. Lush is primarily a story site. it's grown into a social sexual community site over time, but it's primary function is publishing erotic stories.

two. Lush is run by one woman with the help of a handful of volunteers. all the tech/coding/programming changes are done by one man, without any assistance. there are a lot of projects in the works for the site, some are public knowledge, some are not. sometimes, you have to set priorities.

three. i'm a mod. I'm currently on sabbatical due to school. to some that might mean i'm not doing any work. i still do quite a bit - just not as much as i used to. most of the mods here spend a large portion of their free time working here, and very little time playing here. that's just how it is. busy, perhaps, but apathetic? i'm going to take the high road here and choose not to be insulted.

four. read Skunky's post. some of the member-made rooms have become pretty much as close to permanent fixtures as is possible over time. if it's really something feel so strongly about, then build it, and they will come.

sprite.


OMG It's like the whole Piss on my leg & tell me it's raining thing, All over again. You keep telling me to go into chat rooms that have nothing of interest to me. You want to lean towards an either or scenario, fine. If I don't like it build my own. Look if I want A hamburger I go to A Burger King. I don't build one. When I want to chat I go to A web site that has the kind of chat I'M looking for. I don't expect Long John Silver to start serving hamburgers just for me.I know just like Long John you have your own agenda, fine. I also don't expect Long John to tell I'M wrong for not eating fish or building my own Burger King.You don't want to admit that your bias, fine. You don't have to.You want to say it's my way or the highway, Fine. But don't get your panties in A bunch when I fire up my rig & head on down the road. As A professional driver I have spent A lot of years on the road. One thing it's taught me is, theres always another joint to check out around the next bend.I hope this will bring this ment to A close. Because quite frankly it's getting old fast.
When I was 17 I purchased A Gillette single blade double edge razor.( Like my Father used) It even had the comfort adjustment option. Cutting edge at the time. (pardon the pun ) It gave me A very smooth shave & I really liked it. Over the years from time to time I would try other razors, always went back to my favorite. I also tried various other electric razors, like Norelco & others, even the Remington shaves as close as A blade or your money back. Yea I got my money back.Every time I went back to my old stand by. Blades were A lot of baloney too All stainless steel blades are about the same. At present I'M using Wall greens brand shaves as good as A Wilkinson sword blade. Anyway about a year ago my old stand by broke 44 years old & it broke. Try getting that out of an electric razor. I didn't think I would be able to replace it. I checked some drug stores they didn't sell them anymore. So I did an internet search. Rick from Pawn Stars is promoting one similar to mine but W/O the comfort adjustment. About $20 plus shipping. not bad. The rest were ether high priced or used. Theres quite A few of them out there. Then by chance I found A guy in St. Petersburg Russia.He said he had A case of Brand New in the box Circa 1967 Razors. Only $15 plus shipping. Huh? Cheaper than Ricks. With the travel case like mine came with & the comfort adjustment too. OK I know it sounded too good to be true but I figured I'd take A chance. It took about 10 day's ( I didn't want to pay for express shipping) I was already gambling as it was. When it arrived I couldn't believe it, not only was it made as good as my old one. It was better. I have been using it for A year now & I couldn't be happier. If you can find his add on the net I highly recommend it. You will not be disappointed.


Note * This razor is meant for the head & face not recommended for more sensitive area's like legs or under arms etc.
Quote by LadyX
1 Dog and 1 Husband.




If your anything like my X wife the dog is probably your favorite. L.O.L. I live alone now & have A dog & A cat. The dog (A sweet heart brown female pit bull with white marble on her chest & white tips on 2 of her paws.) The best behaved most good natured dog I have ever had. She wont even bite the cat when she messes with her just barks at her.She's 8 years old ( real time ) & I spoil her rotten. The cat is cute but A bit of an ass pain. she's mostly for mouse control. My daughter lives with my X and between the 2 of them they have 5 dogs & 12 cats. most of the cats belong to my X so I call her crazy cat lady. When we were married we had 3 cats & 2 dogs for the most part, when 1 would die she would go out & get A replacement. And I pretty much took A back seat to all of them.
Quote by sprite
you DO know you can make a room, right?



Read farther back we have discussed this. Besides I believe the point of the create A room thing is no more than A brush off. I believe what Lush is doing is taking 4 factions LGBT & reducing it to just 2 L/G You have to be 1 or the other. I believe they have what I call, An Apathetic Attitude.Because moderating such A room would be A task they don't want to deal with.
I would say nothing is impossible. However I believe it is unlikely, What would be more likely is in love with 1 in lust with the other. Or in lust with both. In love with both, like I said unlikely.
Quote by simplyjohn


We have a BDSM room, a room for ladies and a room for men (albeit ladies can enter but its not common). The lounge is for general chit chat and well the bedroom speaks for itself. In addition there is always one room focused on pictures/videos. Member created rooms only collapse/get deleted when they become empty. I know nothing of the other site you mention but here, in my view, if we tried to create more rooms with specific themes they would not be well populated and thus the experience would be negatively impacted. Having said all this everyone at times uses the bedroom and the range of conversations is diverse including those that you would more expect in the first three rooms I mention.



OK your not getting it. So lets look at the LGBT aspect of it. First theres the lesbian room. I'M not sure what goes on in there as I'M not permitted in there.They have the same thing at alt. I will go out on A limb & say it's the same. Then theres the Mens room, I don't why they call it that ,theres no plumbing in there. What is in there is Gay men mostly looking for cyber sex. So you should just call it the Gay room.At alt they call it the Steel Mill.( not sure why) lets face it most CD, Transsexual, Trans Gender & Transvestite's consider themselves in A class of their own. Hanging out in the mens room is uncomfortable, because they view themselves as women. That's why at alt there is the Gender Exchange, for CD,TV, TS, TG & their admirers. Just like many Gay Bars now have A third bathroom. The chat circuit should have the same as A courtesy. However Lush must feel that this group is insignificant. So they extend no courtesy to them.Your Excuse of not enough room to add 1 more I'M sorry to say, I think is pure
I believe it to be A matter of apathy bordering on even prejudice perhaps. At any rate if you can't provide the desired menu then theres no point in patronizing your establishment. Does that explain it any better? Let me just add 1 more thing I dislike being blunt or insulting. I like to let people down gently so as not to hurt their feelings. However some people are just so persistent, you have no other choice than to come out & say, No it's not raining your urinating on my leg.
Quote by simplyjohn


I think many feel the same way when they first use the rooms. I would encourage you to persevere and like almost everyone who joins the rooms I bet you will enjoy yourself in them in time smile.



One of the problems with the chat rooms here is there are too few and the subject matter isn't appealing to me. You can create A room but as soon as your no longer there to moderate it dissipates.
Alt on the other hand has rooms for different countries all over the world, so they can speak in their own language's, Then separate rooms by category, like BDSM Gay, Lesbian, Trans/ CD, Poly moray. voyeurism, etc. I have heard people here ask why there isn't a Gender exchange room here? The answer is always the same create one. as I said that doesn't work.(That which is created becomes deleted) So I go with what I know.
Quote by simplyjohn


I think many feel the same way when they first use the rooms. I would encourage you to persevere and like almost everyone who joins the rooms I bet you will enjoy yourself in them in time smile.



One of the problems with the chat rooms here is there are too few and the subject matter isn't appealing to me. You can create A room but as soon as your no longer there to moderate it dissipates.
Alt on the other hand has rooms for different countries all over the world, so they can speak in their own language's, Then separate rooms by category, like BDSM Gay, Lesbian, Trans/ CD, Poly moray. voyeurism, etc. I have heard people here ask why there isn't a Gender exchange room here? The answer is always the same create one. as I said that doesn't work.(That which is created becomes deleted) So I go with what I know.
Quote by simplyjohn


I think many feel the same way when they first use the rooms. I would encourage you to persevere and like almost everyone who joins the rooms I bet you will enjoy yourself in them in time smile.



One of the problems with the chat rooms here is there are too few and the subject matter isn't appealing to me. You can create A room but as soon as your no longer there to moderate it dissipates.
Alt on the other hand has rooms for different countries all over the world, so they can speak in their own language's, Then separate rooms by category, like BDSM Gay, Lesbian, Trans/ CD, Polyamory. voyeurism, etc. I have heard people here ask why there isn't a Gender exchange room here? The answer is always the same create one. as I said that doesn't work.(That which is created becomes deleted) So I go with what I know.
OK I know some of you think this is funny. It's not. Premature ejaculation is no laughing mater. That said first thing is quite often this is caused by refraining from sex too long, So masturbating more often may help. Second it could be A lack of muscular development. Try flexing the muscle you use to hold your urine til you get to the bathroom. Do it numerous times during the day while your sitting down. Try using this muscle during sex to hold back your ejaculation. Finally If all this fails you can go online to an adult toy site like Adam & Eve, they sell A type of cock ring I think it's called Dr. Richard's Ring. I hear it's supposed to work pretty well.

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PS. I must admit that thing Jillicious came up with about Rosie O'Donald isn't A bad Idea either. It would sure do it for me. LOL I hear some guy's think about baseball too, but i don't think it would be as effective.
Love is A deep subject. First off there are different kinds of love. You may love your Car or your Dog etc. but it's not the same as you would love your spouse or children. At least not normally. as for the whole love /lust thing. I can only speak for myself.Through out my life I have thought I was in love many times. Alas no, when I was young I thought I was in love several times when I was dating. When we broke up it didn't hurt as much as I expected. That's when I found out the difference between love & lust, By the time I met my X wife I thought I could tell the difference. We were married 23 years & had 2 children. We stuck it out way too long. When she divorced me the battle was about Money & custody of my daughter. We argued about who never really loved who, but I knew in my mind it was me, And once again I had fallen A victim of lust. I knew it between child 1 & 2 I should have ended it then. However for the sake of my son I decided to stick it out.Of course that's how I got child #2. Don't get me wrong I loved my children. However my marriage became like A prison sentence. Perhaps that's an over statement but you get the point. So in conclusion I came to the realization that I have never really been in love. ( I can't speak for my X) As for it happening here at Lush, I suppose it's as good A place as any. I would advise you to just be sure it really is love. However there is no real way of being sure. Life's A crap shoot so just roll the dice & see what happens. What have you got to loose? It's better to have loved & lost than to never have loved at all.
Quote by OldDog_BlackHeart
I don't understand why people are so fixated with zombies these days. If you want to see the walking dead go to an Unemployment office, or Public Aid office, or even the D.M.V. office, or any other government office.Their working behind the counter. And they all seem to miraculously come back to life every afternoon at quiting time.
I remember seeing A strap on by Taylor Wayne that had A vibrator for the wearer as well as the recipient. Why don't you give one of those A try I'M sure there are other mfg.s that have similar devices. That is if you have the nerve.
I don't understand why people are so fixated with zombies these days. If you want to see the walking dead go to an Unemployment office, or Public Aid office, or even the D.M.V. office, or any other government office.Their working behind the counter. And they all seem to miraculously come back to life every afternoon at quiting time.
Quote by SweetKing126
I am a drug dealer.




Really? What kind? I'M in the market for some.
" A couple of red's would be A groove man" ( Edward Chong ) of ( Cheech & Chong )