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I love the taste of cum but the excitement of having someone cum in your mouth is unbelieveable. I always swallow my own cum when I pop a nut but I love sucking it out of a hot studs cock.

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But if you don't label yourself, how will I know whether to hit on you or not? Too many people are afraid of labels. I've run into several women who've told me they're straight, and then later admit to having had sex with other women on many occasions. Presumably, if you're doing this, its because you enjoy sex with other women, but just don't want to be labeled bi-sexual for whatever reason. People many be averse to being labeled, but labels, like words, carry meaning. If you've never yet had sex, but only feel attraction to the opposite sex, are you straight-curious, or straight? Most would label you straight, even if you've never yet experienced straight sex. That's why I feel the expression 'bi-curious' is rather disingenuous, unless we start calling people straight-curious and gay-curious too. So if Lisa says she finds two women together arousing, and would probably sleep with another woman, the term 'bi-curious' just seems a bit sciolistic. If the desire is there, own it!

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If you read the op, she wants to see a guy fuck her boyfriend, not do the fucking. As it is an old post, I suspect he's an ex by now if she pressurised him.

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Freaking hell, don't you know Anything about human nature? LOL

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For anal you mean? I haven't gotten to try it yet with a real man. But I would want to feel everything!

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grits, eggs over easy, sausage, toast, and coffee, then more coffee.

for those of you who don't know what grits are, watch the movie "my cousin vinny" with joe pesci

except for the coffee it has been my breakfast everyday for most of my 27 years, i use to have to settle for milk

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I would do that for you.

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I get frustrated with some of my friends at times --- well the ones who know I am bisexual. I think they don't fully understand and I appreciate that they try. But they get this idea that if you are willing to be with a guy then you will just be with any guy who is bisexual.

We'll be out and they'll say you ought to get with so and so, we hear he is bisexual too. But the guy will do nothing for me at all.

I am sure it is probably the same way for bisexual women too.

Just wondering what kinds of things turn you on when looking for either a same sex partner or even the opposite sex partner. Do you prefer that they be bi too? Or can they be totally gay or str8?

Personally for me I do like them gay or str8. I do appreciate the bisexual partner just because they can understand where I am coming from better.

As far as what I like and don't like. I guess I am not the average bisexual man -- at least according to the ones I have met mostly in real life and on the Internet.

I like all types and have dated and had sex with many who don't fit my normal turn-on, but typically I like more feminine women and more masculine men. Just typically when I want a woman I want a woman and vice versa. I don't mind them being dominant or submissive in that role.

For instance I get more turned on my a woman in a hot pair of women's panties or a thong than I would in a pair of men's boxers. And the same for a man in a woman's panties. I would get more of a rise seeing him in his briefs or boxers.

I have found many others on the extreme to be very beautiful and even sexy. And even found the ones I have been with to be great lovers, but they are not generally what turns me on.

I also have one big turn-on in both men and women. That is being open minded and willing to experience new things. Not just in the bedroom but in life in general. New foods, new experiences, etc. I just find that hot when a person is willing to experience new things with me. At least willing to give something new a try.

Oh and edited to add -- individuality is a big turn on too. Someone who doesn't have to be cookie cutter like the rest. That is hot to me.

And I have to say I do love hair and I guess that is part of being an individual too. I don't want wild and bushy, but someone who keeps themselves well groomed esp. in their genital area. Esp. men these days who buck the norm and don some hair on their chest. That man really sticks out to me. I really love a wonderful landing strip on a female...neat and tidy. Or the same on a guy esp. if it has a nice happy trail that starts at his belly button and goes down.

So what about you?

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----- Original Message -----
“How do you deal with someone saying that erotica writers have no self-respect?”
-- Fellow Erotica Author
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Okay kids... Rolling up sleeves... It goes like this. You get in their face and say:
"Yeah, I write SMUT and I'm crying all the way to the BANK, you B*TCH!"

Repeat as many times as necessary.

Why do people say this crap to us?
There’s a couple’a reasons…

1) It’s all about THEM.
Ordinary people rarely think outside their own heads. They measure everyone else against their own perceptions.

“Well I hated that movie, so no one else will like it either."
"Don’t drink that! That brand of soda sucks, you won’t like it.”

It’s called Tunnel Vision or Narrow-mindedness. If they can’t do it, or they don’t like it, you shouldn’t be able to do it, or like it either.

"Well if that was me I would never...!"

Yeah well, you AREN'T THEM which is why you Do, and you Have, and you are getting CASH (or at least a lot of attention) for it while they are not.

Unlike the average human, the writer is a unique creature. We can get out of our own heads long enough to view a perspective Other than Our Own. In fact, in order to write successfully, we are forced to view MANY different perspectives, frequently opposing and usually simultaneously. Consider how many characters are in the average novel with ONE author to think for them all.

As a writer, USE that unique talent to step out of your feelings of rejection and get into Their head. As a writer, you have the ability to look at the character traits they are displaying and interpret pretty darn accurately what’s really going on in their twisted little reality tunnels.

2) Petty jealousy.
Ever spend time with someone who just bought a new car? Without fail, someone just has to come along and tell them what's Wrong with that make or model. This person will list fault after fault until the new owner is deflated enough to salve the bruised ego of the person who Didn’t have a new car.

The technical term is: SPOILSPORT.

Believe me, these nasty buggers are everywhere -- especially if you're Good.

3) “That's not real writing. Anyone can write a smut story…”
Oh yeah? Let’s see them TRY it! The results ought to be hysterical, and really, really bad.

Writing Fiction is freaking hard work. It takes anywhere from weeks, to months, to years of hunching over a keyboard word-crunching, plus research, plus plot-crafting, and character development, and dialogue, and sentence-structure, and manuscript formatting, and fighting with the computer…etc.

"I can write, I have a college degree to prove it."

They do? Oh, that's too bad -- for them.

College degrees won’t help anyone write good Fiction of any kind, never mind smut. (Unless of course, their degree is in something useful, like history or mythology.) Fiction writing is a CRAFT that takes unique skills that you just can’t get in the classroom.

Formal Education teaches you to stuff as many words into a paragraph as possible. Preferably using the biggest words available, (with extra points for obscurity.)

Fiction Writing is the total reverse. You want the most amount of information using the least amount of words. Think ‘Advertising Copy’ and you have a clue. And that’s just the Grammar.

Imagination is the real sticking point.

Even if you have perfect grammar skills, you STILL have to have an imagination beyond: “Hey I had one hell of a night with this kinky so-and-so I picked up!” Boooooooooring!

Writing good Erotic Fiction takes skills the average Literary author would cringe at. Let’s see one of THEM write a sex scene that holds the reader’s attention long enough to Really Satisfy and without repeating the word penis or vagina 5 million times, (personally, I’ve never used either word,) AND give it a Happy Ending.

So yeah, let’s just see them Try to copy your accomplishment. You’ll laugh for weeks!

4) Ordinary embarrassment.
Most people are raised to believe that Sex is bad, so anyone who actually Likes sex is a deviant.

Yeah, and us deviant's are Popular with the opposite sex too!

In Conclusion...
So what do we, as Purveyors of Fine Smut, do about this kind of “No self-respect” crap?

We DON’T take comments like that personally. Those comments aren’t meant for US, they are meant for the Speaker that opened their mouth, and drooled that filth out of it. Those words are a reflection of THEIR personal hang-ups – not yours. YOU are making friends with fellow writers, making the occasional buck or two, and generally having a good time making your readers squeal with delight, among other bodily functions.

So, some prissy-fingered prudes are have a problem with you writing smut?

So what? No matter the reason, it’s Not Your Problem – it’s THEIR’S. When someone opens their big fat slobbering gob, just smile and consider the source, because it really IS all about them.

Morgan Hawke
-- Smut-Writer and Damned Proud of it!

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