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Phaypi
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female
United States

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Personally, fisting did not come to my mind with the pic, nor did I recognize the bracelets as cock rings, as people have been saying... instead I thought by how hard you're clenching your fist, that the picture is forced, unnatural.

I think I would agree with others' advice on perhaps having an avy with an open hand, relaxed, confidence is the sign of a dom more than aggression after all. smile
To my boyfriend:
Mini hand cuffs.
A hand made key chain with a japanese omamori on it.
Chocolates.

My parents:
Boxes of chocolates.

I bought easter chocolates today to give them tomorrow.

My friends:
I tend to buy food for my girl-friends a lot, my "princesses" as I call them. Lol
I just bought a poster for a guyfriend of his favorite band, and when he moves into his new apartment, I'll buy him flowers.

I feel like I would make a good guy. I'd buy/make small gifts for a girl daily.
Quote by lhb1989
it all depends on the person and how mature they are. Age doesn't matter to me but it's marturity is the most important to me.


Would agree with this... but then im kinda young and stupid, dont think ill get any younger guys hitting on me anytime soon smile
Yay another Japanese person!
Obviously a very nice person who actually has a filled out profile, seems like a fun person too smile the puppy picture on her profile is adorable, as well as I think her avatar is very pretty
Quote by Nikki703
No I havent. But there are different type of love too. I tell a lot of friends I love them and I truly do. But I am not "in love'" with them. Saying I am in love with someone is not something I just throw around.

+1
I've always said "I love you" and thought I've meant it... but there are times when I look back and wonder if I really did.

I say "I love you" all the time to my best friend though - that love is truly and definitely real. smile
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First of all this site is a site for writing! It is NOT just a SEX site. If I wanted that then I would have gone to Adult Friend Finder for the latest hook up!


Totally my bad, wasn't even thinking about the writing here. Just referring to the fact the site is called "Free Sex Stories," but the addition of romance is completely up to the author.

Quote by Goddess_Lexi

Next you need to look back on the guy who gave you those flowers! He respected and admired YOU enough to give you something beautiful!!! Perhaps your friend didn't hold the same respect and admiration in his eyes.

I have gotten gifts from men I didn't necessarily like or were attracted to but I still recognized their admiration of ME as a person with beauty and NOT just a sex object! Keep this in mind when someone does something beautiful for YOU!


Sorry, I think the problem was my use of the word "like." I meant I did not like him in a romantic or sexual way. I loved him as a friend, and I still do to this day, indeed he is a very good friend of mine.

The contrast I was trying to create between him and me, and him and his next girlfriend, was that to me, giving me flowers was indeed something beautiful and romantic. Seeing that he never did that for my friend, and yet he was definitely in love with her, I am suggesting that in their relationship he may have found other methods of being romantic, such as doing everything in their life together. Therefore, romance cannot be defined by one person and what they like.
Lol romance, dead? No, the concept of romance is too strong, too many children are fed fairy tales, too many people dream, for it to ever be dead. Maybe the interest in answering this topic has died, for the simple reasons stated by those above. This is a sex site.

Romance also changes depending on two people's different perspectives, their motivation and effort and capability. When I was in a long distance relationship, this guy at my high school had a crush on me. He bought me a huge bouquet of flowers on valentines day even though he knew I didn't like him. He was full of romantic ideas. Then a few months later he started dating one of my other friends, their relationship was very physical, very fast, but I never saw him do anything romantic apart from the fact they were always together, and I suppose that was the way they shared a romantic relationship.
Here's a summary of answers so far smile

Looks - 9
Cock - 6
Personality - 4
Money - 3
Absence - 2
Girlfriend - 2
Confidence - 2
multiplied influx of internet illiterate attention whoarish fcktards - 1
Intelligence - 1
Tongue - 1

Looks like looks won! :) Even considering Personality, Confidence, and Intelligence as one category, that's only 7! :P
My heart was locked away for a long time, now it is openly dancing around me... except I found out my heart might not be real.
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Since this is a sex based site the number of shaved people may be very different from the public in general. Don't you guys think?


I would agree...
Quote by kinky_girl
My relationship is the opposite way round, I am 23 and my boyfriend is 37. A 14 year age gap would be too much for some people but it works for us and that's what matters.


Same age gap between my parents and they are coming up to their 20th anniversary smile
I don't go in the chat rooms very often, but like Sprite, I try to greet every person who joins the chat after me. Coguy could probably attest to that... however it is rather exhausting and I find myself holding multiple conversations, and they begin to drop in value once there's 5 or 6 people who started talking to me. It takes something extra for that starter to become an actually interesting conversation... and then once I'm into a good conversation it's hard to keep up with more new chat members...

That being said, one would have to note I only ever go into the lounge and occasionally member owned chats. I don't cyber post images etc.

What really confuses me is when there are people in the chat that aren't talking to anyone... are they randomly whispering to people? I guess that's what you call "lurkers" but I'm not really a chat person so I wouldn't know...
I feel like some people come on lush because they have an active sex life and love reaching out in lush erotic literature/reading, while others have an inactive sex life and use lush to help make up for it. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin (like me haha) and I know for sure there are guys on this site who are.
Are you male or female? F
How old are you? 18
How many times a week do you masturbate? 0~3
How many times do you orgasm each time you play? 1

Where do you masturbate:
In bed? Y
In the shower? Y
In the bath? Y
Outdoors? N
At work? N
Every room in the house? N
In a car while traveling... ? N

What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? Y
A friend? Y
A friend's spouse?N
A stranger? Y
A student? N
A member of the same sex? Y
A past lover? N

What position do you play in:
On your back? Y
Standing? Y
Kneeling? Y
Sitting? N
Lying on tummy? N

How do you play:
With left hand? Y
With right hand? Y
With a toy? N
With water from bath? Y
Written erotica? N
Pictures? N
Movie clips online? N
Videos? Y
Something on TV? N

What is your favorite porn:
Straight sex between man and woman? N
Gay or lesbian sex? N
Group sex or orgies? N
Blow jobs/oral sex? N
Cumshots? N
Anal? N
Interracial? N
Age play? N
S&M? N
Role playing? N
Kinky? N

Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages? N
A chat room dialogue? N
Exchanged stories or pictures? N

Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? N
Masturbated for a man/woman? Y
Masturbated for the same sex? N
Masturbated in a group? N
Masturbated for a photo? N
Masturbated for a webcam? N
Masturbated for a video? N

Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? Y
Insert something or play with your ass? N
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? N
Use pain as a method of playing? N

For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? N
When was the last time you masturbated? few days ago
Are you wet or hard now? N
Are you going to masturbate now? N
Are you a masturbation addict? N
What is the most you have played in one day? 2
Quote by MulliMoonlight
Sometimes, I go through my school's newspaper with a pen and correct all the grammatical mistakes.



My school newspaper once got the month wrong.
Depends on my mood of course smile but I like Love stories and First time stories, dialogue isn't particularly a turn on in my mind, just a means to developing characters and plot...
Never been picked up by a random guy. Never really struck up a conversation with a guy without good reason to either. But then, I'm young. The best way would probably be for a guy to approach me with a reason that seems plausible, doesn't give me a stalker vibe, and doesn't make me think he just wants to sleep with me - after that flirty, decently attractive, creating interesting conversation and wanting to know more about me. After that he'd probably have to get me drunk in order to ever get me to agree to a one night stand lol.
Congratulations to the winners! All well deserved I should think, and I hope the "honourable mentions" aren't forgotten, even if the site tells me that should be spelled without the "u"
Hmm yes I asked my current date out to our last date, it shocked him through and through but our date was great haha. I think for shy guys sometimes they need the push, however at the same time, it's putting a lot of trust in the guy to be a gentleman about it and not just try to take advantage of you.
Nomophobia is the fear of losing your cell phone signal, or not having access to your phone.

Arachibutyrophobia is the fear of peanut butter sticking to the roof of your mouth.

Triskadekaphobia is the fear of the number 13.

Parthenophobia is the fear of Virgins.
Quote by Shylass
Give me a cookie.


No answer can compare to this, but I will give my honest response smile

Online - Initially I'm attracted by a guy who can write thoughtfully with correct grammar and spelling that actually knows how to pay attention, make me laugh, catch my interest. A guy who's honest and open and knows how to continue a topic: there are always certain people online and in rl who you can instantly have a good flowing conversation with, the people you "click" with I suppose.

Offline - I am always first attracted by a guy's smile, I think it shows a lot about the person and gives me a good sense initially of whether I would like to be around them some more, and then if they make effort to know more about me, find out what we have in common, what we don't, then it all goes from there.