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Pixie
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female
United States
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I missed the cat!!!
It won't be much longer. I am sure you are absolutely BEAUTIFUL right now!
Flutterby Pharie
Answer honestly if you like... I'm not sure if this is accurate for you but when I was say 21 I was in better shape than I am now. I had more definition, was slimmer etc. I carried myself with the confidence of a fucking rooster (still do kinda but an older one) and I noticed many more women checking me out than do now. Don't get me wrong, I can still pull plenty of ass but not like when I was a fucking sexy stallion. So my question is, was there ever a time you would have been considered really fit? When you were at the tip top of your physical attractiveness were you checked out more? Or are you checked out more now that you are more filled out than when you were slim?
Ok my answering this is going to completely be off topic now. I have found that it has nothing to do with my body. It seems that it has to do with my age. I did not get the looks that I get now when I was younger. A friend recently pointed out that I have hit the "cougar' mark. Maybe that is it? Thanks for throwing me off topic, Felix. ;)
Flutterby Pharie
Also, I have a hard time relying on the source of your research... You say you see men look at you all the freakin time and not at the skinny girls? I mean do you sit there looking at the guy that checked you to see if he looks at the skinny girls too? How can you come to that conclusion?
I did not say ALL THE FREAKIN TIME! Yeah, I am a freaking stalker and sit and watch these guys that look at me and make sure they don't look anywhere else. And if they do I hunt them down. Jesus.
No, what I am saying is I am a people watcher. It gets me in trouble sometimes. I have walked past a guy and turned to look over my shoulder to see if they were looking and notice at that same time a skinny chick walk past him as well, yet he is still watching me.
I don't ask for attention. In fact, I would rather not have it happen at all. It kind of makes me uncomfortable. But I had to let you know how I came up to this conclusion.
Flutterby Pharie
They are proud, they put effort into their clothing, it feels good to have her on your arm when you know every dude in the place just turned to check her out. Her personality probably is of the type that wouldn't let themselves go and it manifests in other aspects of their life. They may work just as hard to keep their man happy. This fit woman probably doesn't want a sloppy fuck as a boyfriend either so she forces her man to take care of himself too.
Did I read this right? Are you saying that bigger women are not capable of any of those things? Because honey, let me tell you. I have had many guys turn their head to look at me, yet when a skinny chick walks by, not even bat an eye. It is about preference, not capabilities.
Flutterby Pharie
I have one tiny suggestion, it was not on the list you showed me and I totally forgot until now. Would it be possible to have the option to open the little black box on the friend you want to message from the drop down menu that comes up when you hover over a friends name? As it is now, they have to poke you to open the black box or you have to go to their profile. Just a suggestion. Everything looks fantastic (as usual).
Flutterby Pharie
After much thought I decided to share what works for me/us. Texting daily, phone calls when we can swing it, naughty voicemails are awesome! You get to hear eachothers voices as you describe what is next to come, and of course this site! You can always chat and send PM's on here.
