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Cheeky Chick
Quote by Buz
Also, please people, check your poem or story over really good before you do your final submit. Some people don't even look at it.
Depending upon what software you are using or the OS you're on, sometimes line spacing and line breaks can go all wrong. If we verifiers get that we don't know what to do with it. We just see that its messed up and we'll probably reject it, sending it back to you. Remember, YOU are supposed to look it over and make sure it is right.
If you see a spacing and line break problem and after trying your best to fix it, you still have a problem, please notify someone on the verifying team. We'll let you know what you should do.
Look at my story? What are you talking about, I usually write my entire story with my eyes closed and edit in my sleep. How dare you ask me to look once more upon submitting it. That is your job, mod. Now get back to the grind!
I kid.
Cheeky Chick
Quote by sprhr2
Thanks Poppet - I think you're right on. It wasn't role play or anything else, but the first time I heard that... damn. Sent me into overdrive. I don't think I could have found the words myself to say it how you did - that in this case it definitely wasn't implying , but the protective nature of the Daddy Dom and a caring term. Thanks for helping me comment without feeling like I'm the scumbag so many people on here seem to associate with this idea.
I'm pretty shocked that so many people associate it with . I simply don't understand. The term is not that new, surely people must know about it. I've written a story called "How I Meet My Daddy" and it has nothing to do with her father or any other relation. It is a man who she falls in love with, a dominate who takes care of her. Loves her. Not one single thing about it is or .
It surprises me how close minded so people are over the matter. Thinking it only means "daddy" in the sense of ones father.
Cheeky Chick
I'm not calling anyone liar, but many people would deny it, even if they were okay with it. Given what SO many people assume it is associated with. It has NOTHING to do with or being a .
It plays a large part in BDSM, as a Master or Dom who has a softer approach. Though a lot of woman who use it aren't into that lifestyle, but like the term, because they get a comfort from their partner they'd not get from anyone else. It is a loving, tender pet name.
Yet it is perfectly okay to call a woman a whore, or slut or what have you, while fucking her. Not that I'm against these names, but it's all done in the same fashion. You call your lady those names in a sense of love, caring, needing way. Not because you actually see her as such. The same as her wanting to call you Daddy. It isn't because she thinks you're her father or some form of parent figure, for goodness sake.
It plays a large part in BDSM, as a Master or Dom who has a softer approach. Though a lot of woman who use it aren't into that lifestyle, but like the term, because they get a comfort from their partner they'd not get from anyone else. It is a loving, tender pet name.
Yet it is perfectly okay to call a woman a whore, or slut or what have you, while fucking her. Not that I'm against these names, but it's all done in the same fashion. You call your lady those names in a sense of love, caring, needing way. Not because you actually see her as such. The same as her wanting to call you Daddy. It isn't because she thinks you're her father or some form of parent figure, for goodness sake.
Cheeky Chick
Quote by Lupus
And here I am working on a story I was hoping to make gritty and rough. Heh. Well there's a slice of luck.
Shit, that means I have to actually try to make it good, now? Fuck...
As if all your stories aren't good. Look at all your RR's and other badges. You silly boy.
Cheeky Chick
Quote by Stardrinking
Let's take it from another perspective: He's on medication. Maybe that's harming his sex drive, which is making him bitter and not want to have sex or masturbate so maybe you should tell him to get his medication looked at. Get him to talk to his doctor because it sounds to me that the medication is partly the problem. Then once he's spoken to his doctor, you guessed it, speak to him about it. Even if he starts arguing and raising his voice, keep calm, say your piece and let him either stew or say his, then try to find a solution. Marriage is "for better, for worse, in sickness and in health", just saying.
I like what Star is suggesting here, it is sound advice, if you ask me.
But also, if there is somehow noway to get his medication fixed or if he can't come off it, just because he doesn't have a sex drive, doesn't mean he can't still help you out. Just being close with someone is just as good. Or maybe he can eat you out, or play with you with his fingers and mouth. There is a lot of things he can do sexually that doesn't involve him getting hard.
If he can't do this for you, there must be more to it than he is fighting you about. But really, even if he DID do these things, that doesn't mean you can't enjoy yourself alone. Everyone masturbates (Like Sprite said) even people in the happiest sexual relationships. It is healthy to find pleasure with yourself.
Cheeky Chick
Quote by sprite
I suggested we fit you with a collar that gives you an electric shock every time a new comp starts. still working out the details, but pretty much everyone liked the idea.
I like this idea, it would do him some good, I'd think...
But honestly, I like his idea.
Cheeky Chick
Honestly, if it were not for some of the mods here, I'd not be where I am today as a writer. I've learned and grown so much in the two and a half years I've been here. There are about four, maybe five mods, who hold a very close place in my heart for helping me, not coddling me, but pushing me, because they saw my potential and didn't give up on me.
I never whined or complained when a story was failed. I read the notes they left for me and I grew from them. I learn to edit, and edit again, and edit some more. I know I'm by no means perfect, no one is, but I have improved tenfold since October 2012, which was when I first submitted a story here.
I do hope to one day, possibly become a mod, to help and guide other authors like the other mods have. Many people tell me I wouldn't want the job, but they are wrong. It would mean a great deal to me. It would be an honor.
Anyway, I can see why this site does so well. It is one of the finest sites like this and that is why it does so well.
I never whined or complained when a story was failed. I read the notes they left for me and I grew from them. I learn to edit, and edit again, and edit some more. I know I'm by no means perfect, no one is, but I have improved tenfold since October 2012, which was when I first submitted a story here.
I do hope to one day, possibly become a mod, to help and guide other authors like the other mods have. Many people tell me I wouldn't want the job, but they are wrong. It would mean a great deal to me. It would be an honor.
Anyway, I can see why this site does so well. It is one of the finest sites like this and that is why it does so well.