I guess it depends on what you mean by “enjoy”. If you mean do I masturbate to someone's naughty words, than no. I don't enjoy it like that.
Do I enjoy teasing someone, knowing that I'm turning them on by what I say, yes. But, I don't particularly like “cybering”. It does nothing for me. So, I don't bother.
Another thing about dirty talk or as I like to call it role playing, is I don't often find people do it in the same manner as I do. So, it throws me off entirely. It is like a dance and if one is doing the waltz and the other is doing the tango, it is going to end in a mess.
I rather enjoy the company of someone on call, to hear their voice. It makes it all the more personal. But, I still need that connection with someone. It can't be some random dude I don't know.
I guess I'm just a picky fuck.
I just finished one today, I also have three others going on. Two of those are with co-writers, which I'm super excited about and another one, which is a part two to another story I recently published. I'm rather happy with all of them right now, which only encourages me to keep writing more!
Yes, I enjoy rough sex. I like to be fucked hard. I'll choose it over soft and slow any day, though, there are times where that is nice too.
I think when a man comes on a female, it is nasty anyway. But, I never got the point of this either. I rather swallow or have him come inside me. Not on. No thanks, not going to happen...ever.
I laughed... I laughed lots... K, thanks. I'm going now.
This is kick ass, so glad you shared it. Thanks.
I have loved pretty deeply in past relationships, I no longer love them like I did. But each person I have dated still is in my heart, I think they always will. Even the ones who have hurt me badly. I simply can't turn off or no longer feel for someone. It just lessens, to where it is a little easier each day to move on and not need or love them like I used to. Some take longer than others, but I always eventually do.
However, I don't think everyone is the same. I'm sure some can stop loving all together. Everyone is different.
Yes, often to relax and try to sleep afterwards. Sometimes if I'm bored, I will also. I'm pretty sure women are a lot like men when it comes to this.
I think when it comes to the physical things, all of it is cheating. To something as simple as kissing, to oral, to outright sex. Even if it happens just the once, it is cheating.
However, there is the emotional cheating that happens a whole lot also. If you're sharing more with someone who is not your special someone, you are cheating on them. You should have that same connection with your lover, that you can with that person, if not stronger.
There are far too many ways you can cheat on the person you are with. Most don't think it is cheating, unless it is actually having sex...they are so wrong.
For me, I usually get inspired by the most simplest thing and I let that linger in my mind for a little while. Sometimes it can be a few minutes, some a few days, and others it can be a long time. (I have had one idea in my head for months. I don't know how to really explore it...yet.) At that point I semi-write bits in my head, in other cases I don't. I open Word and just let my fingers take me on the adventure.
Normally I can write a story, at least the first draft in one go. I have a lot of time on my hands, so I can bust out an entire story in one day. Some people think that I don't put in the same effort because I write a lot. I say fuck you asshole, you don't know me. It isn't you to judge me what effort I put into MY work.
Once the first draft is done, I set it aside for a few days. Let my brain relax from it. Then I'll open it up again and begin to adjust, re-word and edit it. I don't normally change too much in the form of what I already had. But, I tend to really put in the effort the first time around.
At that point, once it is done. I let it sit for a few more days, before scanning it again for errors and submit to Lush.
I never know how long a story is going to be until it is finished. I never have that in mind when I'm writing, because that limits me, puts pressure on me. Sure, I'll get ideas to do Flash Erotica stories, but even those I don't worry about a limit. As long as they don't go over 1000 words.
Way to go Liz, Billy and Ben. You three did outstanding. As did the rest of you. I read a lot of the stories this time around and I'm sure it was very hard to choose winners. Well done!
I suppose we can keep it going, to see how long it takes again...
So, hi, I'm Poppet. 14th of September is my birthday.
I've seen every season ever.
I was able to move two into this genre already. Also have a new one that can go under this one. Super excited.